What a nice post for a change . I married my Thai girl friend 5 years ago , have a 12 year old son and been together for 16 years ,obviously not always good. Yes I met her as a bar girl. She still thinks she's bad for doing it , why? Similar situation to yours is pregnant Thai boyfriend did one needed the $ to support family ect. Yes there are the proper pros as you said and I agree 1 mil it's down to farangs or certain ones that make us all look bad