habuspasha

Thanks, Dad. I've only be doing this for 70 years--to better and better reviews. Enough time to learn that "typically" and"Generally" don't count.

You've never met me either. That what turns anonymity into useful social information.

In 10 minutes of mouth and lip action, she comes multiple times, thanks me profusely, and tells me to turn over to return the favor.

There may come a time when the gell doesn't work, but there are other ways of getting testosterone, including injections. I consider myself lucky in having the partner I have, but I work at replacing declining T. My urologist prescribes it. And I increase dosage rather than give up.

(Asking about testosterone gel) I get the Andro Gel in New York. ( It's made in Mexico.) I've also gotten packets of testosterone gel at Fascino's in Pranburi. There's also a Fascino's in Market Village, Hua Hin. (I haven't tried them.)

At 83 I use testosterone gel (Andro-gel) and 20mg of tadalafil (cialis) daily. No side-effects to speak of. Not as vigorous as I was in my 70s, but I stay engaged and enjoy it. And my GF doesn't have the energy she had ten years ago in her 30s. I'm getting her to take progesterone. These "pharmaceuticals" aren't more chemical than the hormones they replace.

I just bought my first lease for a Thai rental (6 mos in Hua Hin), for 1/3 the cost of my partly subsidized long term rental in Manhattan. Biggest advantage is the face I wake up to and kiss good-night. Restaurants in NY are better, but I eat well enough in Thailand. I can read the New York Times online (though I prefer the paper) and I can listen to WQXR on my laptop (though I prefer the radio). I can't give up NY but I expect to bring my TGF there for March to August. Wish me luck.

1st stage has been my visiting for vacations about four times a year, a few weeks at a time. Now entering second stage, renting a house together for her residence and my longer and more frequent visits. Nice feel having our own home together, even if I have to return to New York frequently to supervise legal wife's hospice care. I imagine a third stage post mortem, living half a year in our Thai home and half a year in NY.

What makes you feel sick? Is it an old guy enjoying life?

I've just turned 83 and find I need more of a kick so I upped cialis from 10 to 20 mg a day which helps. I might also have to drop finasteride or just take topical version for my hair. Cialis (tadalafil) is prescribed for both ED and BPH. May also consider upping testosterone from gel to injections. I have no interest in giving up sex. Nor does my 42 yr old GF/wife. Even though her main enjoyment is the multiple orgasms from my cunnilingus.

Regular seasonal back and forth between Manhattan and Thailand is still aspirational, though we are now 83 and 42. For last ten years I’ve been limited to vacation visits to Thailand—3-4 a year, each for about a month. Those are tours and beach holidays, not enough time to get bored. Versus never a dull moment in NYC. Mia noi has hands full in Bangkok for another couple years before boys leave home, but we imagine a modest beach area house, likely south of Hua Hin, especially for cool season. Meanwhile much of day and night in NY involves care of wife in late stage Alzheimer's.

If I marry my GF of ten years, it will likely be to enable her to get a visa to come to the U.S.

Retired at 81-and never looked back! Thought I would regret giving up a 60 year career teaching. Learned a thing or two since. Both good work and freedom can be very satisfying.

In our 30s and 70s, she stayed 20 and I lost a couple of year each anniversary. Now that we're in our 40s and 80s, she complains "I'm not a young girl anymore." I don't believe her.

I too grew up in an overwhelmingly Jewish community. My Irish Catholic mother once asked me why I didn't have any Christian friends. All my closest friends in college were also Jewish. They taught me how to think. Without them I may not have graduated. With their influence I became curious and thoughtful. Though not particularly funny. They saved my bacon. And they were the first people to show me that Israel was not what it purported to be, but a model of settler colonialism--and that was in the 1960s.