PaulieAUS

7 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Wordy troll back looking for love with Thai hookers working from ThaiFriendly.

 

If by some chance your post is real, she probably couldn't talk 'cos she was banging a paying customer.

Send her some money by Western Union, and she'll talk for an hour or two.

I am currently on ThaiFriendly and Thai Cupid working through the factory.

Thai Friendly is loaded with freelancers. Some of them are OKAY and told me they don't do the freelancing job regularly (yeah, whatever honey) and said when I am in BKK to party with them on their days off (if there's such a thing as a day off for a freelancer). I am more interested in seeing whether I can score a freebie, it's possible. 

Thai Cupid seems to have the more genuine ladies looking for real love (nice ATM with no limit). 

9 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Let's assume no tourists after March 2020 ..... that's 75% loss.

Probably no tourists in 2021 at all ........ 100% loss.

 

So does the hourly rate increase to compensate for the lack of business or decrease out of desperation?

2 hours ago, bwpage3 said:

Poppycock!

 

You should rephrase to " No 22 year old would want a grandfather"

 

There are plenty of sexy fit women in Sydney.

 

They are not financially desperate and any first word upbringing decrees old men and young women.

 

 

You are kidding me. I work in the CBD as well. Once they hit 25 it's downhill and rapidly. Plenty of desperate women in their thirties have seen better days as well.

I'll be heading back to Bangkok and getting stuck with the under 50kg market. Not everyone in Thailand is an uneducated rice farmer from Issan btw. You do realise there are many educated women in BKK from middle class backgrounds that aren't exactly poor, are well travelled and aren't desperate.

6 hours ago, possum1931 said:

I was pulling plenty of UK women when I was near fifty and they were in their thirties.

My brother lives in London and is almost 50 after two failed marriages. All his girlfriends are in their thirties. I believe this as I've seen it.

He isn't rich by any means. Just well presented and spoken.

9 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Over 40 is old.

By 40 you should have finished breeding, paid off most of your mortgage.

Over 40, employers don't want to hire you, women don't want to have sex with you, not even your wife.

No chip on my shoulder, just facing reality.

What the faaaaaaaaark?

I am about to hit my 40s and very much looking forward to new adventures. Then again I do live in Australia and we have it great here especially with the mess going on around the world, but I am planning to set something up in Thailand for the long term if you know what I mean. 

I don't think I could live in Thailand while I am making $$ in Australia so it'll just be hit and run missions for the next decade.

What % of Thai women (read: not uneducated Issan farm girl) would want to head abroad? I don't suspect it is as high as perhaps 20 years ago. 

Married for about 10 years all up of which 8 years were lived in Sydney. Met and married in Sydney. She went to Sydney Uni, was my first wife, neither of us married before.

Really an accumulation of things:

*Her failed business venture in Australia added to the pressure, poured money into that

*Romance completely dead at the 5 year point and just treading water after that

*Refused to send money to her parents in Issan, became an issue over time

*Became bored with each other, wasn't interested in her hobbies and she wasn't interested in mine

I am sure there are other factors but she went back to Issan and we got divorced there with a clean 50% separation of assets both in Australia and Thailand. Didn't want to go through the Australian courts so we agreed on 50%. No kids made it easier. Amicable split.

3 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

I decided to divorce my first wife when each and every day with her was not a good day any longer. 

 

When she stopped helping me to be a better version of myself.

 

When she stopped having my back. When I realized she never really understood the definition of compromise. 

 

When she became impossible to live with. Life is too short to stay in a marriage that is not working. 

 

The day my divorce was final was one of the greatest days of my life. Now, I am remarried. To an absolute gem of a woman. She is the most emotionally stable and consistent woman I have ever had the joy to be with. 

Was the ex Thai also?

14 minutes ago, Enzian said:

I just ended a long relationship and early in it I paid off a $8K debt she had, but then the relationship went on for more than 3 more years, so in some ways she gave as well as she got. I will say I refused to buy her a house or a car, and there was never such a large item again. But yes, they are consumate actresses, and everything should be taken with a grain of salt, even when you like them a lot.

How did she amass $8K in debt?

17 hours ago, garrya said:

Thai lady with decent English looking for farang boyfriend? Hmmmm

Had farang partner before?  Hmmmm

Serious debt?  Hmmm

<deleted>? 

 

She maybe honest. But does it make any difference? You'll be her iphone and John from USA will be the Samsung, Nothing new mate.

Covid made her a bit more honest. That lifestyle can't easily be sustained. Most of the Thaivisa warriors don't actually know that these girls earn anywhere between 50000- 200,000 keeping 2-3 idiot farang boyfriends and working in bars in the meantime. These girls are more hi-so than 90% of us Thaivisa warriors. Now she is running out of money so she is becoming desperate. 

 

And with many farangs having to exit Thailand due to covid, that pool of men would have diminished but I am sure with persistence she'll find another farang who will bail her out but might ask for money upfront this time. Will cost her a few more nights in the sack but shouldn't take her more than a few weeks I wouldn't have thought to knock down whatever debt outstanding she has.

2 hours ago, Berkshire said:

You're right, it's not difficult.  But it requires a high level of dishonesty.  I'm sure you're not telling these girls that you're screwing other girls at the same time.  Or that your goal is to bang as many women as possible and to have zero feelings for them.  It's easy to convince desperate women that you are their ticket out of poverty.  You just need to have no conscience nor compassion.  Psychopaths could do really well in BKK in getting free sex.   

Of course I am not telling that what I am up to .... How many guys do they have on the roster? Am I the only guy they are talking to? How many foreigners are putting money into their accounts from various countries? C'mon now. I don't even bother asking them who they are seeing at the same time as I have no intention of dating them and make it clear to them at the time I am not pursuing a relationship (online or otherwise) as I had a flight back to Australia. 

Why would a man who is just recently divorced want to have feelings for anyone? Yes, zero feelings, purely physical. Many other guys in BKK doing the same thing. Doesn't make us "psychopaths". Nobody is leading these girls on. They know the rules of the game and choose to play.

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

How many of them did you get to bang for free more than once?

1 - Psycho I just described in debt trouble, banged for free, will never see her again

2 - 33 year old, a nanny lives nears BTS Phaya Thai, (originally from Ubon Ratchathani) did it multiple times, didn't want a penny, nice fit girl, had a misunderstanding with her and she went psycho with me on the phone, apparently I said something which implied she was easy, she blocked me on LINE actually ! too bad !

3 - 26 year old single mum, has 2 daughters from Buriram, works at MAC Cosmetics, asked for 1700B to pay electricity bill and 1300B for internet bill a few days after sleeping with her. Said I won't pay them, never heard from her again

4 - 25 year old uni student in BKK, works part-time in DTAC, lives near Ratchada with her mum, actually met her mum as well, nice family girl, slept with her a few times and hasn't asked for a cent, still chatting to her 

5 - 27 year old BKK girl, thai chinese heritage, lives in Lat Krabang area, works in government, didn't go all the way with, still chat to regularly

9 hours ago, Moneyhonour said:

" I was seeing four other girls besides her in BKK at the same time but have yet to post on those. Stay tuned. "

 

Nice story. Which dating sites do you use? ????

 

 

Don't think I can say them on here but it's the usual suspects.

It's really nothing too difficult, just get on there and be polite.

10 hours ago, IvorLott said:

Yeah, that 'hot' she was offering her debt-ridden clout on dating sites....for all comers in the hope of landing a sap....I'm sure you weren't the first. nor the only one, as she works her way through her inbox hoping for the fool, though you were obviously the only idiot who has embarrassed himself by posting his embarrassing ignorance on a public forum, 

 

Four other girls??? Well ain't you the stud of Bangkok then? or more likely another fantasist who has never had a woman in their home country before then suddenly blows his meagre savings on a few bar girls and thinks he's Brad Pitt....

Not really. Married for 10 years, lived together in Sydney before she went back home.

Cool story though bro. Sorry to disappoint you that I didn't marry a bar girl from Pattaya.

As I said, it's not difficult to find girls in BKK, online or otherwise. Having 5 girls on the roster and not paying a dime isn't a lot compared to the other guys I've seen. It is achievable. Dream, believe, achieve. Obviously you're doing something wrong. 

2 hours ago, Pravda said:

 

But you did pay something because after the first <deleted> you considered "giving her a monthly stipend of 100,000B." ????

 

I mean.... who does that?

 

You.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Nope, I've already moved on. Just just curious as to how banks can give her that amount of money. Even if she is being funded by a sugar daddy, that isn't an employer per se. I understand the Thai banking system is different to Australia but still....

8 hours ago, IvorLott said:

Because ALL Thai gold diggers dump a 100K a month mug, sorry, 'sponsor'(even an invented one) for a bum living in an Airbnb....
This must be possibly the lamest, most roundabout way I've ever seen on these pages of some utter  loser wanting to tell the world he had a 'free' 'sh*g' with a lass not picked up in a bar....and that is going some...

Don't know why you are butt hurt I got a free root out of an above average looking Thai girl and didn't pay a bar fine. It's not as if I am the only hansum man in Thailand this has happened to. I am just documenting my experiences on here post-divorce.

I was seeing four other girls besides her in BKK at the same time but have yet to post on those. Stay tuned. 

28 minutes ago, amykat said:

Do you know how much cash you had on you exactly and did you count it after you left??  No doubt one of those ladies would have tried to help themselves to a tip when you were not looking.

Yep well aware of that, locked away safely.

I purposely booked an AirBnB with a safe because I was seeing other girls besides her. You can never be too careful in Thailand.

11 minutes ago, amykat said:

Yes, right ...SHE broke it off because she knows she can find 100k baht a month so easily elsewhere.  How many lies did she tell you per hour??

No loss to me. She gave her body up pretty easily and didn't get one baht out of me. 

 When the penny dropped that I wouldn't be bailing her out of her supposed debt, she proceeded to go bat sh1.t crazy on the phone saying that I was a bad man who didn't care about her situation, was like all the other farangs that think she is going to steal my money, was heartless, etc. Profanities weren't use but the theatrics were thick and heavy. I did make it clear to her I wasn't in a relationship with her and I simply don't give money to honeys.

21 minutes ago, jadee said:

I've read through this thread with great interest - don't really understand how a girl can get 100k/month and share a 15k/month apartment with their cousin AND be 300k+ in debt? Something doesn't add up. 
My view is that
1) debt is very common - 300K+ is certainly excessive by she probably got there by taking out multiple credit cards. Say 4-5 cards, each with a 50k limit. Then she's not making repayments and paying 30% interest - soon adds up. 
2) yes - all Thai girls are great at this. 

Said she broke it off with the american ex about a year ago. Seems like she's racked up a debt in a hurry and perhaps as you've described via multiple credit cards.

Sharing the room with her cousin and jointly paying for that and with some of the cash she's saved from the ex and possibly other farangs donating her money. The studio is a few hundred metres from the BTS but it's tiny, poorly built, in a large complex with other condos.

Either way she's in deep poo and hoping to hook another farang. No doubt she's moved on fast after I refused to bail her out. I did offer to send her a bottle of wine for her participation.

Certainly knew her way around the bedroom and wasn't one of they shy types. Soundproofed AirBnB.

1 minute ago, BobbyL said:

Even though the OP is on the wind up, posts like this are absolute nonsense.

 

I take it you don't spend any time around the generation of Thais that perhaps went to an international school, studied abroad, work in a English orientated company? 

 

I guess my wife didn't learn her English in a bilingual school here and then when she went to university in England, it was whilst she was secretly working the bars of Bangkok or Pattaya before I met her ????. 

Nope, genuine story mate.

As I said, I am coming OUT of a divorce. My ex-wife lives in Roi Et. I know the thai culture very well.

I did manage to crash over at her studio apartment as I was curious to see how she lived with her cousin. Was an absolute $hi!.t.ehole with clothes packed up in boxes, no more than 30 sqm.

All this costed me in the end was a few cab rides, two bottles of NZ red wine. 

I am speaking to others of course who seem a lot more mentally stable but they all start out like that don't they?

3 minutes ago, Logosone said:

Was open about her bf giving her a monthly stipend of 100,000B

 

Never in a million years is any man stupid enough to give any Thai woman a 100K Baht allowance each month.

 

That just does not happen. It's like walking in your supermarket and saying no I won't pay 79 Baht for a litre of Orange Juice, I'll pay 790 Baht instead.

 

No Orange Juice is that good. It just does not happen.

Plenty of pictures of her in the past few years posted on her Instagram travelling in Asia (none with the guy), 5 star hotels, restaurants, bars etc. 

Someone is paying for that and it ain't her.

9 minutes ago, Upnotover said:

Was hoping to hear more about the cousin.

Me too until I saw she was 70kg. Probably overheard everything as well

Just now, Mavideol said:

just be careful.... one thing should have warn you from start is the fact that she spoke good/perfect English, meaning she has been around

I know. I didn't intend to get married to her and told her from the outset I am not looking for a relationship and was literally coming out of a divorce.