PaulieAUS

Hi there, first time poster and long time lurker. Just wanted to share my experiences in BKK in the last week. To cut a long story short I was recently in Thailand getting divorced (I am 38 years old) at the local Amphur and had some time to kill in BKK before flying out to Australia during the lockdown. Don't worry, all good, all divorced (thankfully), back safe in Australia. But here's what happened in BKK.

I had some time to kill so hit the dating sites. Needless to say got chatty with a 28 year old girl living in BKK, originally from Nong Khai, Issan girl. Perfect english, educated in a BKK university, pretty good looking for us farangs, skinny and a good conversationalist. Had dated only farang men in the past (red flag I know but I didn't care). Was open about her bf giving her a monthly stipend of 100,000B. She had been single for 1 year but was with the last dude (american) for a few years. Don't know why that ended but can probably guess. Due to COVID-19 we were limited as to where we could go. Only take-away outlets open.

First date - Met up at the local shopping mall near BTS Thong Lor. Walked around got coffee.

Second date - Invited myself to her place, said I was bored and wanted to come over. She was living with her cousin in a studio in the area paying 15,000B rent. The place was a sh1tehold and I brought over two bottles of red wine which we finished. I ended up sleeping on her couch and left at 4am shortly after the lockdown period ended. Cousin sleeping in the room, funny business ensued as you could imagine.

Third date - Invited her over to my AirBnB. She ended up staying the night. Did the deed (don't worry, wore a rubber, all good).  She did mention financials but I changed the subject.

This was done over the space of 5 days.

After that she says, I need a "man to take care of me". I didn't say to her we would be an item as I was getting divorced and was going back to Australia for work. Asked for 325,000B to pay her credit card bills. Said she is in trouble, showed me ATM slips, bank statements which were correctly dated. On the phone she broke down in tears saying she is getting sued by the courts for failing to pay her debts. I told her that I couldn't help her, sorry to hear she was in trouble. She then said she wanted to "end things with me and find a man that could take care of her". 

Question:

1 - How did she get 325,000B in trouble if she isn't in regular employment?

2 - Are Thai girls good actors like this? I didn't fall for it but is she genuine (she was breaking down in hysterics)?