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Jools

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  1. The more I read stories like this, the more I wonder why we even bother at all. Then I remember success stories such as my friend who lives with his Thai wife in the US. She is very careful with his money and usually has her own money since she works for a Thai doctor who is well known in the community. The local Thais are very supportive of my friend and are unusually helpful in many situations. Plus it gives his wife a place to go and speak Thai with friends and thus alleviate loneliness. The number of tragic stories seem about equal to the success stories when bargirls are not a factor. Anyone who thinks that a Thai woman is free of duplicity and conivance simply because she is not a bargirl, is missing the plot.

    How sad. RIP to the Austrian.

    I know many people of different nationalities who have divorced their Thai wives. In every instance it was because large sums of money were spent, overtime, without the husband understanding where it went. Their wives could not explain it adequately and usually the discussion ended in a row with the wives screeching "you farang, no understand" etc etc. These wives were not all ex bar girls. Some were well educated and had businesses or professional careers before marriage.

    Money seems to lead to huge issues here and these Thai wives all reacted very quickly and badly when challenged. It seems from the OP that this lady was prone to use violence.

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