You don't understand my original post. One member got it. One. Only one!
Let me put it a different way - Men, real men who come here, need to stop being such pussies or pushovers. I am amazed that people who lived in the West made money, maybe raised a child or two, allowed toothless papas to dictate what they did, and made them conform to third-world customs.
What about our customs? If women want a foreigner, which is the first gate, they need to learn our customs.
It's the same when I see a Brit riding with his child in front of him on a motorbike. The child has no helmet. Where did this Brit learn to do like this? In Britain? I doubt it. The last Brit I ran into had his little airbag before him.
When did he learn to be stupid? Would he drive around with his baby in Britain? No.
When my boy was a baby, his mother wanted to take him on the motorbike, saying she wasn't going far.
NO.
She is now married to another American as of last month, and he got the 3.0 version. She is quite a prize, but she didn't start that way. Again, 3.0 version. She is fluent in English, has learned many of our ways, and agrees our way is better. I wish them the best of luck.
I have three women. Yes, 3. I spend time with each of them, and they all know each other.
45, 40, and 38. My 45-year-old looks 35. All speak English now, and they are all learning a different way of living.
I tell everyone that Thailand is outside my front doors. Inside the condos, we are Americans. We make decisions as Americans, not Thai.
I could go on.
Sour grapes? No.