thanks for mixed comment guys ; as was said l should just divorce but emotional aspects , self pity , not wanting to help etc present .
7yrs invested + giving money ; no children , £8k visas ,£10k to building her a home , 2.5 yrs in UK with me before changes in her & all take led to her return to thai
l live UK so not sure if l do or don't divorce affects me .. agent said marriage not registered at BrEmbassy/block her
Probably wants divorce to get another visa to return to other guys country
[ so yea did think about him contributing ! ; & yea good luck to him !! )