Goat

200 years ago unfortunately we had the Brit rejects forced upon us. We didnt ask for them. They just showed up. Be reading the news lately it appears they now are being sent to Thailand. Thais didnt ask for them.

It seems that the Thais, especially in Phuket have had enough of the Brits and Russians, and I dont think anyone who spends time in Phuket would blame them. Reap what you sow. For members who dont spend any time down there you really have to see it to believe it. The sense of entitlement from these types is astonishing and is genuinely putting a lot of people off the place. They share a similar attitude that they dont have to follow the rules of Thailand and get nasty when caught out. Travel to Thailand and get taken around by a tour guide that looks like a criminal and probably can not even speak Thai with little understanding. No thanks.

Absolute rubbish. It is relatively easy to get a work permit in Thailand. Thousands do. It is their country, they can do what they like.

You are spending too much time on both. It has done your head in. Go for a walk and get out in the real world and stop endlessly complaining.

You sound a bit oversensitive mate. As if you knew what the results of the survey would be?

In Thailand you can not understand most of the populaion, and they can not understand you. Why can you not read and write Thai? Why?

How would you know Fred? You cant even speak the language so I doubt you would be invited anywhere anyway. I happen to have many Thai male friends because i can communicate. Today I had lunch with 3 Thai males and a woman, none of which spoke any English. Studies have shown being a deaf mute is extremely socially isolating. That you can not communicate with your wive's family and friends must be an awful burden on her and bring her embarrassment and shame. It seems Fred, you are only interested in yourself. No wonder you have had so many failed relationships.

Thailand takes care of their disabled well, even if the pavements are not good for abled or disabled. It is called personal responsibility, something that has been forgotten in the litigation mad west. Here they give them training and jobs. Thai law requires public and private organisations to hire one disabled person for every 100 employees under Section 33 of the Persons with Disabilities Quality of Life Promotion Act BE 2550 Self esteem and independence, far outweighs wheelchair access to places they are unlikely to ever visit. Smart people the Thais.

Ok, got it.

His wife said he speaks too much. I get her. Time for some self reflection I think.

I think you mean "too much" If you had really cared about any of these women and really wanted to understand them you would have made the effort to learn their language. You were living in Thailand? How anyone could be so arrogant to live here and expect the locals to speak to them in English is beyond me. You are effectively an illiterate , deaf mute and I understand how your wife got sick of hearing you in your language. Hearing how she is a bad mother, hearing how she is selfish, a narcissist etc etc. I think I understand her better than you. Sometimes you should stop talking and listen instead. But you cant listen if you are too arrogant and entitled to bother learning with your head stuck in English books. Good luck Fred. You are going to need it.

Before we go on Fred, I need to know, where does someone who can not string a Thai sentence together meet Thai women. Where are you meeting these women?

A bit rich the Brits claiming that Thailand has the worst airports. How about doing a survey in Thailand about who the Thais think are the worst tourists?

Well lets hope he compensates the girl he made a cripple for life. Scumbag

I thought you said you couldnt speak any thai and your wife or girlfriend wasnt much chop in English?? So where are you meeting these women? What was your ex wives jobs when you met them?

Er, these women dont have jobs?

I know that. What I am asking in this thread is how to move them on drama free as possible, by using tactics that they want to go.

Why? Something wrong with you?

More than that to learn a langauge. You need to practice speaking, writing and reading. No wonder she couldnt understand you.

Sounds depressing. Do you think it is helping? I read 65 books about playing the piano. Then i bought a piano. I couldnt play the thing.

Gee mate, how many divorces have you actually been through? I am sure it is always the wifes fault. And you had to divorce your wife to get your daughter back? Nothing like doing things backwards eh?

So you cant speak any Thai, she could speak Thai and English. I can see who the one with the brains was.

I quite like hearing about my successful friends activities. Compare notes and I find it inspiring. Better than listening to some one who missus ran away because she couldnt stand the endless ramblings, wasnt sexually satisfied and complaints in a foreign language and about his miserable life with his kids "kidnapped, court cases lost etc etc If you are sexually satisfying a woman they will never leave. All this other nonsensical womens rights stuff you are promoting means zilch if you can not satisfy her sexual needs

Where did you find this woman you married? In a bar? What was her employment when you met her?

You seem to like blaming others for your endless problems. Take a good hard look in the mirror.