You are missing my point with your rambling feminist womens rights nonsense.
I am asking experienced members with Thai women, which you are not one of, the kindest way to move them on.
The kindest way is if they think they want to get rid of you, they dont take being told you are bored with them or you want to try some other females very well. So the gist of this thread, that has gone completely over your head, is exactly that.
The way you slag off the mother of your four children as a "nutcase" makes me think you are some kind of sociopath. I am sure it wasnt all her.