From what I have seen Thais don’t argue much compared to us Brits. They are much calmer and more likely to start dancing than start fighting. Their pubs seem calmer, table service by attractive females.
I witnessed countless fights at pub closing time in England, it is almost expected, quite often screeching females.
i think you are carrying on a bit to be honest or don’t get out much and base your narrative on what read rather than what you experience.