JamesPhuket10

That will be revealed in the next novel he writes. There was the American series "sex and the city", this novels are "Bar girls in the city"

Is that the sort of thinking you come to when you think/thought of your mother and father, brothers and sisters and the rest of your family? People stay together as they are happy, not just for sex as it seems is the cases many times re the guy. I am not stuck with anything, neither is she, we are together by choice, no money involved. She was well off when I met her and is even more well off now with her numerous houses she collects rent on. Both financially independent, a nice position to be in. I could at any time go and buy a young bar girl to live with as most others can, I choose not to. I does not say much for these guys if they have to pay for a woman to be with them, that is nothing to brag about as any of us can do it. If I was paying for a woman to be with me I would keep it a secret.

Wow that is cheap, can we take out insurance in case we then have to pay for momma, papa and the sick buffalo as I have heard on so many occasions, oh a house and a car, then they do a runner when we are bled out of cash. I think I will stick with the woman who is now older after being together for 25 years, there has never been a charge monthly service charge. And I suppose if I do fancy a young one I could just hire one for the day now and then (which I won't). It only takes money.

I just checked my bank account and my latest income forecast for next year. Yes I can afford to get a 24 year old as even at my age. 😄 What is the rental on them these days?

He was making fun of Issan it was quite obvious. I spelt it out for you a simply as I could. And pooying does mean woman or female, It could also be slang for wife I suppose as the Germans for instance use the word frau (woman) when referring to their wives.

Try dating men on alternate days, that will bring variety into your life. 🤣

I just take it all with a pinch of salt, he is probably sat at home by himself. What is my excuse for my hour or two on this forum today? I have decided to have a day off from 'work' and it is funny sometimes to read what is going on here, back to 'work' tomorrow for me.

What he meant was only 150 years ago Issan was in Laos and they still speak the Laos language or a form of it and so he went to Issan to visit them. Most Thais who are not from Issan call the girls there pooying Issan.

You mean the upbringing of the bar girl or the guys who go with them? 😄

I stay well away from such situations, most of the female population are not bar girls, many have their own businesses and professions. They are the types I mix with, but we can never meet them at a bar as it is the last place they would go, it all depends on the circles we mix with. No criticism of your approach as we all have a choice. I have spoken to a few guys over the years who say all Thai women can be bought, that is what they think as they have only ever mixed with bar girls. So I bet them 20,000 baht and say, tomorrow we can go to a bank or a hospital and you can ask a member of staff of my choosing at random if you can shag them after work for a few thousand baht, they never take me up on my offer. Then they tell me I do not know what really goes on in Thailand, they have the knowledge, I am ill informed as I do not agree with them. I stop talking to them at that point.

But according to BritMan it was criminal as he got a judge to legalise the marriage to the 13 year old girl. I think it he is just making fun and many people are falling for it.

Some people have commented that you previously claimed to have married a bar girl and you made her 13 year old daughter pregnant, if that was the story then try and remember what you had said previously to keep continuity in your piss take stories. 😁

I don't believe a single word of any of it but it is funny as you have so many people on this blog convinced. 😁

What surprises me is no one reacted to his comment about the girl being thirteen and he married her three weeks after meeting her. But now I see it must be all made up, he is taking the piss

But you did not react to the initial claim that the girl was 13 when married?

In England we say "he is pulling our plonker" 🤣

Now you are just having us on and we are falling for it 😁

So sex with a minor is legal in Thailand if the right legal path is followed? I can't imagine who would want to have sex with a thirteen year old. You married her three weeks after meeting so it must have all been arranged by her family? Or are you just having us on?

You said earlier, "Most other Thai women wish they were attractive enough to earn money that easily." So do those women you mentioned also wish they could work in a girly bar as they must do according to your opinion?

If it is £60k to £70k (or even dollars) a year then it should be easy to live on that in Thailand

Your view is reflection of the circles you mix with, the lower echelon it seems. What do you base your information on, I know gossip with bar girls and other guys who buy their services. 😄

The bar girls are still working, the aim is to find a stupid farang who will fall for their story, the next chapter is then to milk the stupid farang until he is dry and then get the next one, that is the next phase of the job.

Most women have been working for decades even when married. Why do the women you mention have to go back and work in a bar, you have fallen for excuse number 34 in the bar girls hand book, "I have to do job bar girl as boyfriend he no good, we finish" There are plenty of other jobs for the 1% of the population of Thailand who drop to selling themselves in a bar, most other Thai women hate them.

It depends if the guys live here full time or are multiple visitors. I have seen when the guys live here permanently their women of the night do not work. If the guys are visiting for periods of time throughout the year, once the guys leave the woman is then with sponsor number 1,2,3,4...... I have heard lots of stories through a guy who had a restaurant in Phuket for twenty years. He had friends who owned bars who told him what games are played and on one occasion three guy where sitting around a very large bar and had come to see the same girl they 'sponsored', they were each told separately the girls dad was sick so she had to go home. Don't forget a lot of farangs think it is normal to also support the woman's family as well as the frequently sick buffalo as these guys only mix with other guys doing the same thing and so they think it is the norm.

I did come up with a few points why you were wrong. How did you miss them? Regarding my AI knowledge. Forty years of freelance software engineering experience, Europe, USA. Two degrees in software engineering, one of them a masters degree in the subject from Oxford University. That background might give me an edge over the your Google cut and past knowledge on the subject. I only mentioned that information as you directly tried in a silly way to insult me. Nice try but no gold star. But be careful what you write here as 'them' 'those' and the 'others' are watching us very closely, especially you. Let's see what your next silly insult is, go on, it makes me laugh. 🤣