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Most foreign western men in Thailand are not especially well educated, degreed and are solidly working and or possibly middle class. They wear <deleted>*y old clothes, cargo shorts, t shirts and usually black or camo (I honestly don't know which is worse) as well as some ragged ass footwear. Oh, I do love the handsumn men out in long sleeved black shirts. Bring back the 80s!! Black hasn't been cool since forever. Football jersey.. yeah if you're trying to impress the Thai ladies with that one that's a miss.

I don't think there's a comparison at all other than the obvious. In US I'd only been in one strip club in my life and that was tagging along with my business buddies night out crawl. There's nothing really lighthearted about strip clubs in States. They are really expensive. I'm not at all attracted to stripper types in general but especially in US Happened to know something about US club because I lived in a shared house decades ago. It started off with a bunch of students which I was one and ended up when I left was a bunch of strippers. One of them had gonorrhea in her eye or something. They were nothing but drama and banging around late at night high as kites every night

Men always date down for beauty. Women try and date up for money. When a bump into somebody and they prattle on about their gf / wife having a phenomenal job, money they should start the sentence with ... While she's middle aged and not much to look at... Usually these guys are despised by family members especially her children. Often have no access to her money. Absolute idiots. I stopped trying to have relationships with smart women decades ago. Give me an attractive, fun woman every time.

Central Lat Phrao is nice. I'm up there a few times a week. My top pick are the malls down by Chula. You get the Triam and Pathumwan HS girls as well. Lat Phrao is Kasetsart, maybe UTCC and Horwang HS. For not being dead center Bangkok it's surprising what a magnet it is for beautiful women. Union Mall isn't much but after school lets out pretty packed with teens.

Sorry. You'd written you were in BKK?? Past that age - so, over 75? I think you sell yourself and the experience short. Get out and find some chicken.

I'm married. Wife has a decent job so we stay. As stated many times before in this thread not easy to come by. Each day I take off for malls or wherever. Beauties everywhere.

Perhaps a poor choice of words. By hard I simply meant pro. Hard women can be fun in a purely transactional sense otherwise quite unpleasant. As I stated in additional posts Asian women in general have quite a lovely disposition.

Well, whatever you're after PSE or GFE you've got to suss that out. Thai women are no different. Having said that I've been happily married 12 years, together 15. We have shared likes, hobbies, interests. It's important for the long haul. You oughta get back in the game 🥳 Sort yourself out, get that chip off your shoulder. Por* is a low quality human experience. If in the west I understand. Here, get out and mix it up. You'll get to an age when it's not possible.

I think they were all pretty hard. You just did not accept the fact. None were doing anything to dig themselves out. To be honest there's little opportunity, little they can do. If they don't move up into some sort of managerial bar / massage work then it's often a decent into cleaning, janitorial work as the beauty fades. Often, the older women are far more charming. They have English skills, experience knowing what farang are after. The you g ones have their beauty and are all about money. Decades ago when I'd lived in Pattaya I'd go back and forth. The younger ones often the eyeful, but unsatisfying, the older ones a better experience. Funny, the old drinks girls (women) around Sukhumvit want serious money for a night's entertainment. Same as the younguns. They all have similar expenses I'm just shocked they (can) hold out for that one old drunk tourist to take them out. Some are no joke 45 and even 50 yo. All are over 35, most 40. These girls are long haulers. Certainly not looking for an office job 🤣 I find most of the working women on Sukhumvit well past prime, some still attractive with make-up Asian women are charming. Even battle hardened women in Patong and Pattaya can be real charmers. It's why all the men are here and not South America. One reason I love living in Bangkok is all the beautiful women that are constantly buzzing about.

I agree with this and don't understand the op. He might be so paranoid about not being hard it affects this very thing. Another thing, the rental won't care she gets paid just the same. A partner you can work it out. Finally, nothing that sideagra won't take care of. He's done lots of work on himself. Maybe just getting old early.

Po*n star experience She moved on. Blessing for you. Go find another. You can never compete with the dumba** men willing to toss cash at women. Certainly not all (Thai) women are like that. I'm not really clear on what you're after? If you want a keeper, find a woman who shares your hobbies and interests and make clear the sex expectations. If you want fun don't settle down with anyone. If you don't marry then she may potentially look for others. Fair enough eh?

There are many types of women on the game here. Most of the ones foreigners encounter are going to be those contrary to your belief (IMO). They are full timers, down the abyss and no way back out. It's very difficult to get a proper job here and not having an education, no work experience, no training doesn't help. Doubly so now with AI. Most women around BKK venues are well over 35. I've met a few that are 50. The idea of getting married and off to promised land is mostly dead. I think many working girls would marry here, but only to string the guy out. Not genuine. Having said that some are well over the hill and would be thankful for the rescue attempt. No woman is waiting for the farang lottery to hit. Even women on dating sites have many, many open options. How do you find the perfect partner? Are you perfect? I'm not. She doesn't exist. Very likely typical Thai woman is pretty much only down with vanilla sx. The dirty birds will be self centered and difficult to trust, but a wild ride.

In this situation I was more referring to a p4p situation. The encounters are essentially one-off. You're not going to get a PSE from the typical Thai woman. So, those relationships can be based more on connecting with side benefits of kissing and other oral experiences. The rentals - more direct, visceral. If the wife not getting it done I'd just move on. Clear boundaries. Paying for occasional, harmless outside 'massage' entertainment is fine. If you're needs are met only outside - time to move outside.

So, you don't want to get a reentry to simplify things, but a tourist visa extension ok?? Imo if you want or need to be in Thailand it's a bad idea. My experience from pre marriage was visa running had become an expensive bore so hope you have a second or third home. Finally, I think keeping the visa for over two years will be a problem for all but Muay Thai trainees and people with families/ wives. Expect hassles over baking cookies for five years. Also expect to show finances at some point entering the country imo. Imo you'll always enter as a tourist unless you've got a job outside. Can't imagine wife would be happy with that situation. Pretty random.

Women in Bangkok are heavier now. Many still look fantastic. Enjoy buzzing around the transport, malls, workplaces and food courts. Thai women look great 16 to 66.

15 *Conditions apply, first being Thai. 18 together 20 if alcohol involved. *Most foreigners forget this. She (they) can be most any age if together in public, benign situation. Good luck for them. Hope it's a rewarding, ephemeral experience for both. My sense is he'll F it up by acting ironically like an 18 year old I'm not moralizing here, but especially a foreigner taking a teen-agers virtue be she 18 or 24 is still a big deal here (Asia). People are far less sexually active than what most foreigners think. Food for thought My two satang

Thailand is very hierarchical. Despite her being a looker - she's low class. Proper men only want a shag from them. They are stuck. Most middle class Thai men don't want a brown, poor girl from Issarn No family name No education No future Her fam is nothing but liability and money pit Maybe she's also got attitude too much from her looks - but that ain't gonna work with a regular Thai man Why THAT guy? In Pattaya they support the girls in other ways like picking them up at 4am and basically being their bit*h. Simple

Try 25mg sideagra (very safe / chemist shop) + paracetamol. *Daily Kegal exercises. If that doesn't do it 50mg at your age and health defo should. Empty or relatively stomach. Eat a bit of some protein an hour later. That alone should work like a charm Find the right partner/s that will give you what you want / need. That includes psychology. Sometimes it's raw, but when she's not up for that it's disappointing. Other times it's more cordial and maybe sometimes you're not ok with that. Find a good working girl that does the job, likes you and knows what you want. This way it's getting better and better rather than new partners and you constantly wondering if this or that is gonna happen, she's gonna try some BS monkey business. For yourself, try to understand what precisely was the letdown in each particular experience that led to Mr Softee - each experience. You've given us this very comprehensive, but overly broad picture You're post appears you are healthy, fit. This will sound odd perhaps, but maybe a physical makeover so the birds that you pick are thinking.. hey, this guy is ok ..this is gonna be alright.. You in turn are thinking, it's gonna be more than just transactional.. and it will be. Many fat, unattractive guys here in Thailand think it's only about money. They just don't know. There's service and then there's SERVICE. So, get a new look, skincare, shave, smell great. Like that. Another point is maybe psychologically you want to feel perhaps not 'wanted', but not unwanted and she's doing perfunctory job. Finally, lower expectations. Expect to finish in under 60 minutes. Make it a great 60. I'm in Bangkok 👍