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misterphil

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  1. 9 hours ago, Dogmatix said:

    That kind of thing seems normal. Sometimes I get annoyed when I ask a question in Thai and they ignore me and start talking to me wife. Sometimes she tells them to talk to me because i am the one who asked the question and she doesn't know what I want.

    The same here. They look at my wife and give it the old "arai na" ????

  2. 5 hours ago, Lolothai said:

    It's more complicated than I thought, I have to get a translated certificate from my embassy then take appointment.

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    Thats the document you use to get married, not divorced. 
     

    It says "Documents for lawful marriage registration in Thailand" at the top. 
     

    And yes, we all get those documents translated when we get married, but not for a divorce.  
     

    Do they understand you want to divorce and not marry? As it seems like someone doesn't to me. 

  3. 9 hours ago, Lolothai said:

    I hope it will be on the divorce certificate.

    No, it wont be. You'll get a pretty flowered divorce certificate similar to your marriage certificate. You need to keep this safe incase you want to marry again. I needed this when I married again.
     

    Everything needs to be on the agreement you drew up and signed by both parties, plus witnesses.  

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  4. 9 hours ago, Lolothai said:

    Thank you for your answer, it's a beautiful story, I wish mine to be as good as yours.

    My future ex-wife is particularly unstable, it seems that she lost her new rich boyfriend and she is opening a plastic shop with almost nothing inside. There is strong possibilities that she crashes and get crazy at this time, so I really want to close the deal before she realizes what is going to happen.

     

    We should go to Bang Rak next Monday, I will take one witness who speaks English and Thai, I will prepare a document with mention of the 350 000 and full custody of my daughter and sign it but it seems that the officer will do it himself and make us sign. I hope it will be on the divorce certificate.

    I'm quite stressed about it, that will be the final step in my freedom. I got a job, work permit, 1 year visa and one of my two daughters is living with me.

     

    She keeps posting on her old facebook she made for the family before, to make me jealous but I don't react, I don't post anything, I stay silent, I only spoke to her today to set the time of the appointment and she seems civilized too. I suppose she will show off a bit when we will meet but nothing that could be problematic I think.

     

    Anything else I should think of? prepare myself?

     

    Its illegal for her to have a relationship ie a new boyfriend whilst married to you. If she is committing adultery whilst married to you, you may be able to have both your daughters, as you say she's unstable.  If you can prove this and want to take it further action id recommend a lawyer. 
     

    If I was in your situation I would also take a police officer with you. They will go with you as a witness and also incase she does decide to go crazy you have your back covered. You'll have to pay him though, maybe 1,000 to 2,000 THB. A Thai on your side is good support against another Thai. 
     

    Be careful when alone with her, or avoid it as my ex-wife tried to stab me before. I was alone and she had 2 friends with her and she made up some story that I hit her and her friends backed it up. After she come at me with a kitchen knife I started to video her and when she noticed I was videoing her she fell to the floor and started some BS drama. 
     

    At this point I called my landlady and she said she was on the way to come and see us both. While I was waiting for landlady to come I called the police and they said that they'd already had a call about my address, so the landlady had called them for me. 
     

    This was all in Chiang Mai. Within 2 days id moved out and moved back to Pattaya and started again. 
     

    Hope it all works out for you. 

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  5. You can get them on Lazada for 400THB for 60 x 10mg capsules. I use them as I work in Greenland and theres very little darkness sometimes of the year. 
     

    Careful though as they can be addictive and Ive found I wake up a lot during the night without them. 
     

    Try this combination as it works well for me. 
     

    1 x 10mg Melatonin 

    2 x ZMA

    1 x Vitamin D 

     

    30 minutes before bed. 

  6. Ive done this before. Bought an ounce investment bar in Dubai and sold it in a gold shop in Pattaya. Made very little from it and not really worth doing, unless you bought it when gold prices were low and you sell when higher. 
     

    Also, they will melt a small part of it to test the purity so your nicely sealed package will be opened and your bar wont look the same. 

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