Popular Post rubberduck Posted March 30, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 30, 2013 (edited) In Vientiane, Laos in cafe's you hear it often how almost all expats living in Laos really pissing on those visarunners from Thailand and looking down upon them, why is this ? What actually are the differences between 'farang' living in Laos and those living in Thai ? How about the relations between expats in the other neighboring countries ? Edited March 30, 2013 by rubberduck 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post mrtoad Posted March 30, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 30, 2013 Do they? Or maybe they don't like Visa runners? Are expats a little different than a visa runner? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danbradster Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 I think they can stay in Laos easier than the visa runners can stay in Thailand, and maybe there's less prostitution in Laos so it has a more business oriented image. I don't know though, that's just my perception. Vientiane feels really international and a little Western compared to any Isaan city (which is where the visa runners are likely coming from). 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post CobraSnakeNecktie Posted March 30, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 30, 2013 (edited) I think they are just cranky about having to live in Laos. I am always so happy to come back to Thailand. It has its charm for a visit. Higher prices for a lot of the same stuff. Beer Lao makes things tolerable. Edited March 30, 2013 by CobraSnakeNecktie 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Bockscar Posted March 30, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 30, 2013 They're French? 19 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justcruisin Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 Avoid Vientiane as there is so many nice places to see without any french or western influence.(and not over run with westerners) I recently came back enthralled after a 11 day and 1,800Km tour on a CRF 250 Honda, admittedly some of the roads are <deleted> and the drivers in the same category. Have been to the capitol VTE quite a number of times and it is becoming like any popular Asian getaway. The beer Laos is great and Cambo beer is the same, heads and shoulders above what we have here. Next trip from all reports is Myanmar, apparently the drop of nectar surpasses both the afore mentioned countries! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Beetlejuice Posted March 30, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 30, 2013 (edited) To place everything in perspective here, it is not only Lao expats who display a low esteem towards Thai expats, because Thai expats themselves often have little regard for their own peers and have a sort of disdain for each other.Firstly, including myself, many do not consider the forever tourists or visa runners as the OP describes them, as expats at all, but more rather as drifter foreigners of little wealth who are considered as the lower forms of life in the evolutionary scale of Thailand long term stayers.There is also an extreme of mistrust between expats and it is difficult to get up close and befriend them, plus those of dubious nature, into some form of illegal activities or other, con men, the dodgy bar, business and property owners.The problem is that expats cover a whole spectrum of characters; personalities, ages, persuasions and some are just simply oddballs who do not fit into any particular category. These various types do not always gel well together, therefore they intend to either keep a low profile and keep to themselves, only socialising among their own circles or within their own cliques or stay low doing a little bit or this and a little bit of that or whatever it is they do.In my experience of working in Europe for over 25 years, I found that the expats living or working in any specific European country were as a whole much more hospitable, inclined to befriend and support each other more and in some areas could be described as real expat communities, the Brits, Germans, Americans, French and so on.Those settling in Thailand for the first time and perhaps in some of the neighboring countries, will maybe as surprised as I was when they discover how remote many expats can be from each other and their attitudes here.Many seem to bare an intolerance towards other expats. Perhaps because they feel that the chances are that these people will not be socially hospitable, they are encroaching on their territory or could be several reasons for which I do not understand. Edited March 30, 2013 by Beetlejuice 19 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post FunFon Posted March 30, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 30, 2013 Pure elitism - the ones in Bhutan look down on those in Laos. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bockscar Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 Avoid Vientiane as there is so many nice places to see without any french or western influence.(and not over run with westerners) I recently came back enthralled after a 11 day and 1,800Km tour on a CRF 250 Honda, admittedly some of the roads are <deleted> and the drivers in the same category. Have been to the capitol VTE quite a number of times and it is becoming like any popular Asian getaway. The beer Laos is great and Cambo beer is the same, heads and shoulders above what we have here. Next trip from all reports is Myanmar, apparently the drop of nectar surpasses both the afore mentioned countries! I'm afraid you're in for a disappointment,Myanmar beer's not a patch on Anchor,Angkor or Beer Lao! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fgis Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 Jealous ? Educated lao girls are still hard to get for foreigner,s so they can only get the ugly ladyboys.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post MrWorldwide Posted March 30, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 30, 2013 Of course it's elitism, but anyone who has nothing better to do than sit around in cafes/bars bitching about other people has their own set of problems, IMO. That was one of the first things that struck me about Martini's in PP back in 2010 - the expats seemed to be a genuinely happy bunch (for the most part), laughing and clearly happy with their lot in life. Compare that to the 'wake' that seems to be taking place in various Farang bars across LOS on any given night. I actually like a quiet bar, but it can be disconcerting when 4 or 5 Farang sitting at a nearby table seem more interested in your activities than their own .... That said, imagine you have found your little piece of paradise and settled into quietly living your life when some old fossil sidles up to you and says 'Oi, mate, where do I go to get a better price than those birds at the bar are asking ?'. Chances are that the months you've put into coming to grips with your new home haven't improved your opinion of the dreaded sex tourist / sexpat, and it's unlikely that you want the locals to equate your priorities with those of your newfound 'friend'. VT isn't Pattaya (neither is PP, fwiw), and I find it just as tedious as anyone else here, but I'm prepared to respect the transplants' collective efforts and keep myself to myself when I'm on their patch. Personally, I prefer Penang for visa runs, but I accept that many here see things differently. 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bockscar Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 Jealous ? Educated lao girls are still hard to get for foreigner,s so they can only get the ugly ladyboys.... Funny that as my last time there I had a 19 year old university student passing me bluetooth photos of her in her school uniform! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
richard_smith237 Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 To place everything in perspective here, it is not only Lao expats who display a low esteem towards Thai expats, because Thai expats themselves often have little regard for their own peers and have a sort of disdain for each other. Firstly, including myself, many do not consider the forever tourists or visa runners as the OP describes them, as expats at all, but more rather as drifter foreigners of little wealth who are considered as the lower forms of life in the evolutionary scale of Thailand long term stayers. There is also an extreme of mistrust between expats and it is difficult to get up close and befriend them, plus those of dubious nature, into some form of illegal activities or other, con men, the dodgy bar, business and property owners. The problem is that expats cover a whole spectrum of characters; personalities, ages, persuasions and some are just simply oddballs who do not fit into any particular category. These various types do not always gel well together, therefore they intend to either keep a low profile and keep to themselves, only socialising among their own circles or within their own cliques or stay low doing a little bit or this and a little bit of that or whatever it is they do. In my experience of working in Europe for over 25 years, I found that the expats living or working in any specific European country were as a whole much more hospitable, inclined to befriend and support each other more and in some areas could be described as real expat communities, the Brits, Germans, Americans, French and so on. Those settling in Thailand for the first time and perhaps in some of the neighboring countries, will maybe as surprised as I was when they discover how remote many expats can be from each other and their attitudes here. Many seem to bare an intolerance towards other expats. Perhaps because they feel that the chances are that these people will not be socially hospitable, they are encroaching on their territory or could be several reasons for which I do not understand. Beetlejuice... You've just ruined a perfectly good thread with too much intelligence, too much common sense and too much realistic thinking.... A flawless response such as the above is a topic killer, didn't you know that ?...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Beetlejuice Posted March 30, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 30, 2013 (edited) Having sometimes found myself sharing the same space or environment with other farangs here in Thailand, reminds me of the old days when I used to commute on the London Underground and the same on the New York Subway.Everyone either had their heads deeply embedded in their newspapers or would simply be sitting there totally expressionless staring into oblivion. Striking up a conversation with any other passengers was strictly taboo, it was one of the 7 deadly sins, and it just wasn’t done. Very similar here in Thailand. For those who suddenly find themselves in a confined area with another farang, such as in a store, public transport, car park or even on the street, never look at him head on and walk briskly passed continuing on with whatever you are doing seems to be the rule.I am by no means suggesting that anyone should have to consider every farang they meet on they’re travels as long lost brothers or sisters, but there are certainly some weird sorts here, who seem totally different from the expats I have had the pleasure of meeting and associating with in other countries. Even my Thai wife who has lived abroad thinks they’re strange.And before anyone mentions it; I won’t f/off somewhere else, as I still like it here. Edited March 30, 2013 by Beetlejuice 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLCrab Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 In the early 1990's I (as a Yank) stayed for almost 2 weeks on Lantau Island Hong Kong waiting to go to PR China. Everyday, walking to my hotel on a foot path through an open field, I passed the same guy and said Hello! and he walked past me as if I were a power pole. I asked the guys one day (all Brits) at the local bar why that was so. The answer: Why should he say hello to you? He doesn't know what school you went to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post FunFon Posted March 30, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 30, 2013 Having sometimes found myself sharing the same space or environment with other farangs here in Thailand, reminds me of the old days when I used to commute on the London Underground and the same on the New York Subway.- In all three cases because we know the odds are good that the goods are odd. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krisb Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 Probably similar to the way Thais and Laos look at expats. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riverman63 Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 I have to agree with Beetlejuice, most of the farang ex pats I encountered in Pattaya last month would not make eye contact and just seemed to pretend they didn't see me. I had the distinct impression they were wary of me. On the other hand I was introduced to one or two ex pats in bars by the girls and they were fairly friendly but still a little stand offish. Seems like they are a little afraid of new faces in town, though they weren't to know that me and my Thai Gf were just on holiday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FunFon Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 (edited) Why should people be friendly just because you're the same race, speak the same language or come from the same country? Especially if you're just passing through and they'll never see you again, most people can't be bothered. Their loss I agree but that's their right isn't it. If you offer to shout some drinks then you're more likely to get conversation if you really want it. Edited March 30, 2013 by FunFon 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riverman63 Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 Why are we all on Thai Visa? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FunFon Posted March 30, 2013 Share Posted March 30, 2013 Greater control over the interaction, eliminate the discomfort of in-person face-to-face comms. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLCrab Posted March 31, 2013 Share Posted March 31, 2013 Yes -- it's called the IGNORE button. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scully Posted March 31, 2013 Share Posted March 31, 2013 I visited vientienne about 4 years ago and again last week. There are now bar girls, the hotel rule of no Laos girls in the room has gone, tuk tuk drivers offerered me pot and ice. But the city has changed ten fold, big companies are actually setting up there like pizza hut and swensens. Three girls approached me for P4P so maybe it's embarrasment that their country is evolving into a place where they have to feel a little embarassed when asked where they live. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nautilus05 Posted March 31, 2013 Share Posted March 31, 2013 (edited) I can't tell you how little I care about what some expats in Laos think about me. They're welcome to think whatever they would like, and if they want to pre-judge me because I chose Thailand instead of Laos as a home, then that says much more about them than anything. But if you must know, more than likely many of them are unsatisfied with their lives for one reason or another. This allows them to think to themselves, "well, my life might suck, but at least I'm not one of those Thai expats". If you're happy and content with your life, you're generally not going to be looking down on total strangers for ridiculous reasons. Edited March 31, 2013 by Nautilus05 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post kennedy Posted March 31, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 31, 2013 I can't tell you how little I care about what some expats in Laos think about me. They're welcome to think whatever they would like, and if they want to pre-judge me because I chose Thailand instead of Laos as a home, then that says much more about them than anything. But if you must know, more than likely many of them are unsatisfied with their lives for one reason or another. This allows them to think to themselves, "well, my life might suck, but at least I'm not one of those Thai expats". If you're happy and content with your life, you're generally not going to be looking down on total strangers for ridiculous reasons. Your post is a perfect example of talking out of both sides of your mouth. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indrid Cold Posted March 31, 2013 Share Posted March 31, 2013 I hate all people in southeast asia that has a better visa then me (tourist visa) and i am in far more better shape then most of them, this is so unfair! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jocko Posted March 31, 2013 Share Posted March 31, 2013 To place everything in perspective here, it is not only Lao expats who display a low esteem towards Thai expats, because Thai expats themselves often have little regard for their own peers and have a sort of disdain for each other. Firstly, including myself, many do not consider the forever tourists or visa runners as the OP describes them, as expats at all, but more rather as drifter foreigners of little wealth who are considered as the lower forms of life in the evolutionary scale of Thailand long term stayers. There is also an extreme of mistrust between expats and it is difficult to get up close and befriend them, plus those of dubious nature, into some form of illegal activities or other, con men, the dodgy bar, business and property owners. The problem is that expats cover a whole spectrum of characters; personalities, ages, persuasions and some are just simply oddballs who do not fit into any particular category. These various types do not always gel well together, therefore they intend to either keep a low profile and keep to themselves, only socialising among their own circles or within their own cliques or stay low doing a little bit or this and a little bit of that or whatever it is they do. In my experience of working in Europe for over 25 years, I found that the expats living or working in any specific European country were as a whole much more hospitable, inclined to befriend and support each other more and in some areas could be described as real expat communities, the Brits, Germans, Americans, French and so on. Those settling in Thailand for the first time and perhaps in some of the neighboring countries, will maybe as surprised as I was when they discover how remote many expats can be from each other and their attitudes here. Many seem to bare an intolerance towards other expats. Perhaps because they feel that the chances are that these people will not be socially hospitable, they are encroaching on their territory or could be several reasons for which I do not understand. Spot on I have myself been about a bit and working in other countries on contract construction and found most of us can get on OK .I think part of that is because we are working together and are kept busy here is different as a lot of expats maybe because they don't have have much to do it can be boring and not to happy so makes them miserable and antisocial. Sent from my Nexus 7 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FunFon Posted March 31, 2013 Share Posted March 31, 2013 Ya the young hansum richer guys really get my goat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stradavarius37 Posted March 31, 2013 Share Posted March 31, 2013 Why do the Brazilian expats hate the Costa Rican expats? Oh yeah....who cares? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post MrHammer Posted March 31, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted March 31, 2013 I don't know why in Vientienne, but Thai 'expats' do seem to have a mistrust of each other and probably with good reason. Within the last year I've visited Hong Kong and Tokyo and both times met some interesting and friendly expats who were keen to strike up a normal conversation and have a drink with a stranger. In Tokyo I tagged along with some english teachers to a night club avoiding the Roppongi traps. In Hong Kong I had some good conversation with longtime expats in a friendly small expat bar. In Thailand, I have had mostly bad experiences with meeting people randomly. Either some shady people with business proposals, degenerate whore mongers or younger people who are clearly to cool to engage others or who seem like the presence of another foreigner constitutes some great threat to their social standing. So perhaps that is why expats in Thailand prefer to only socialize with people who they know already from work, sports or through their social circle. I don't blame them either. Lots of weird and shady people around. Thailand does seem to attract people of low intelligence and/or shady motives in droves. So some sort of vetting process is probably needed. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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