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    Sending Money To A Friend... Some Questions

    in General Topics

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    Look at the topic. The OP is sending money to a friend. The friend may be another farang expat here who overspent on his daily bar girl routine.

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    Yep spot on there, another farang with a thai script name.

    Hmm, guess I was wrong there.

    The friend maybe a genuine Thai guy friend who overspent on his daily bar girl routine.

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    Gf Moving Child Down To Live With Us.

    in Family and Children

    Posted · Edited by rics21

    was informed that its ok to put their name on the housebook, like a cencus of local population. just dont mess with the

    chanuk "the deeds"of the house. The blue book is not a big issue.

    Its all about getting u to take her kids in. If u r willing to do so, she may get more demanding.

    Most Thais don't change their address (name in blue book) when they move around. By forcing u to agree to let her son move in will implicate your assets in the future.

    Guess she is hoping that u may fall in love with your step son and transfer all your assets to his name.

    Its easier to get a new gf than to carry such a burden.

    As u said, u r not going to get married with her. And y r u thinking to take responsibilities of her family/ relatives/ friends.

    Later she may tell u that her mum is getting old and she wants to be filial and to take care of her mum..... her mum will move in too.

    In the end, u will be taking care of her whole family who is living in your house. And when things get ugly, do u think u have the capability to get rid of the gf, her son, mum, relatives.

    Its a problem u may have to face for life. Take into consideration of the liabilities u r going to take in.

    Seen lot of friends whose house became a "long house" with the whole family living in it. In the end, he would end up spending most of his time drinking in the bar in order to have some personal time.

    The mum invited friends from upcountry. The son had his friends over.

    The wife is playing cards with her mates in the house.

    Why did u get a Thai gf in the first place?

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    As A Young...

    in General Topics

    Posted · Edited by rics21

    This is the second thread where you have mentioned you are young and good looking. You wouldn't be stirring the pot with the oldies here would you? Are you familiar with Water Mitty?

    maybe he thinks Thai Visa is a dating site

    Yep. He is trying to get laid.

    The embassy staffs would have told him whatever he need to know about thailand. So what's up with the:

    "I m the pretty boy from Quebec, working in a embassy. See me make the old farts here irritated while I try to get to know some farang babes."

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    Never Been Approach By A Thai Women: Am I Doing Something Wrong?

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    @rics21

    - Don't tell me that women can sense your attitude towards them or life by a glance and decide to approach you.

    // To quote a famous comedian "300 million sperms, that's the one that got through".

    Now did you read what I wrote or do you always read between the lines?!?

    I guess u r the one reading between/ under/ above the lines.

    Can't u read the topic. The OP isn't getting approached. He has a partner. He is not asking about "101 ways to get laid".

    Read the posts. That's y u r here in the forum. Read it.

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    Biggest Mistake Ever.

    in Marriage and Divorce

    Posted · Edited by rics21

    Coming to Thailand is never a mistake.

    Marrying the 1st Thai girl u date here/ bar girl/ single mum will most probably be a mistake.

    Getting kids before u know ur wife well enough is a mistake.

    Letting your wife to rule your life is a mistake.

    Unable to stop her from blackmailing you is a mistake.

    Don't let a woman ruin your wife. Ditch her. If u r not legally registered, just pack your bags n go. Cone back for your kid later.

    Most Thai women married to farang wouldn't commit suicide. They will just kill their husband after the insurance policy/ will is ready.

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    The Farang Men Swarthy Girl Couple Syndrome.

    in General Topics

    Posted

    A question of a Thai friend pop up over dinner last night.

    "Why did farang men prefer dark skinned girls?"

    According to him, most of the farangs he saw on the streets are with the dark skinned Thai girls.

    Back in his hometown of udon, farang men r marrying Thai women who had divorced or r single parents.

    To most Thai men, they would prefer a fair, busty, Chinese looking, plump, Thai girls.

    I do notice that lots of farang men end up with the swarthy issan girls.

    So what's the attraction?

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    Never Been Approach By A Thai Women: Am I Doing Something Wrong?

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    Kinda weird thing happened to me the other day in BKK that's pertinent to this thread...

    Took the GF to a local branch of BKK Bank because she needed to open a new account there. All the business was being done by the GF, I wasn't doing any, just accompanying her because I knew the branch and we were out for the day.

    While there, the GF ends up being assisted with a young and very attractive bank staff member who was walking her thru the process of setting up online banking. All through this, I'm just standing there nearby while they're doing their business, but I notice the bank staff girl is regularly smiling at me...

    Don't think much of it, but then as they're finishing and chatting in Thai, I hear the bank staff girl talking about "narak" with my GF and looking at me more. We finish, and go out, and I later ask my GF what they were chatting about at the end. And she replied, without any seeming sense of problem, that the bank staff girl thought I was very cute and that I seemed to be very kind/nice toward my GF...

    Almost enough to make me think about going back to that particular bank branch and looking to make a different kind of deposit. tongue.png

    I think it does show one thing, that being that other women do notice how men treat the women they're with. So it certainly pays to present/represent yourself well.

    So...does that qualify as getting "approached"???

    No. Do u qualify this as a approach back in farangland? I guess not.

    It's just a comment.

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    Never Been Approach By A Thai Women: Am I Doing Something Wrong?

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    Posted · Edited by rics21

    Let's be true to ourselves.

    If you r a Casanova back in farangland, most likely u will be one here.

    If u r not, most likely u r be whatever you are back in farangland.

    Thai women are not specially attracted to farang men.

    Thailand is no haven for farang men, its a haven for the rich.

    Money talks.

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    So if you were a goner you always will be a goner. What utter crap... It's not about if you are rich or handsome even though superficial aspects flourish here so do they in the west.

    It's about your attitude towards life and women and believe me, the female gender DO pick up on this. If you know something is not working then perhaps it's time thinking it's not them, it's me and change your approach.

    It sounds like you're agreeing with Rics, although you patently deny it. What he's basically saying is if you're successful with women in the west, you will be here as well. And if you're not....you may enjoy the illusion that you're successful here, but most likely it's just that. So are you saying that farangs who get off the plane in Thailand magically become "hansum" men?

    I dunno how you interpreted into that but no what I am saying is no matter where you are, if you cannot get any it's because you don't have the right attitude and just need to change it. And all women are not the same, assuming that you are a successful gigolo back in the west does not guarantee you will have better luck here where cultural and social aspects drive the girls to a different set of goals.

    "goals" is the keyword here.

    What do u means by goals? Don't assume, don't even imagine that most thai girls make goals in their life to get hitched with farang men.

    So, what social or cultural aspects will make the Thai girls to try to approach farangs men?

    Don't tell me that women can sense your attitude towards them or life by a glance and decide to approach you.

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    Cigarettes. What Do U Smoke?

    in General Topics

    Posted · Edited by rics21

    No, Marlboro light became Marlboro Gold, Ultra Light became Silver and red stayed red.

    the name change was a result of it becoming illegal in many countries to use the word light when describing or naming a cigarette

    Silver seems to taste thicker than the gold.

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    As in less intelligent? Is this a novel way of working out the intelligence of something - tasting it? Does it work with the ladies too?

    "you taste like a brain surgeon!"

    Don't know how a brain surgeon would taste like. But a bar girl, yes.

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    Never Been Approach By A Thai Women: Am I Doing Something Wrong?

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    Posted

    Let's be true to ourselves.

    If you r a Casanova back in farangland, most likely u will be one here.

    If u r not, most likely u r be whatever you are back in farangland.

    Thai women are not specially attracted to farang men.

    Thailand is no haven for farang men, its a haven for the rich.

    Money talks.

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    So if you were a goner you always will be a goner. What utter crap... It's not about if you are rich or handsome even though superficial aspects flourish here so do they in the west.

    It's about your attitude towards life and women and believe me, the female gender DO pick up on this. If you know something is not working then perhaps it's time thinking it's not them, it's me and change your approach.

    U r either dreaming or u r not in Thailand.

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