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BobbyL

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  1. 2 minutes ago, kingofthemountain said:

    I don't know where you live in Hua Hin but i have spent some days

    here in september, hanging around walking and driving my car and it was a ghost city, very small traffic on the road, most of the restaurants in the city was empty (One sunday evening i was the only customer in a big sea food restaurant in the front line) and so on.

    A lot of choice in the hotels with big promotions also because no customers and even the night market was half empty.

    Listen to you it seems the flood of tourists is just arrived this lasts days.

    Similar experience. Hua Hin was absolutely dead in July. Actually felt depressing walking around as literally all the restaurants and bars were empty. 

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  2. We got married when we were both living in England which was her idea over doing it in Thailand. I didn't pay anything and it was never mentioned. I always perceived it as an outdated ritual that is better left to the Thais for their showing off. If her family ever asked for it, I would have said in Western culture the bride's family pays for the wedding ceremony (which she knew already).

     

    Not sure whether or not it made a difference, but we were 29 and 28 when we got married a few years ago so it was different to a lot of relationships here. She is very westernised (been to university in England) and didn't seem to care about the idea of showing off a sinsod. I am not sure whether or not her family and her had more private conversations about me not paying it, but I don't care. 

     

    Perhaps I did pay a form of sinsod as during our time living in England for a few years I was teaching and she was studying her Masters degree and only working part time so I was paying for the majority of our expenses (bills, transport, holidays etc). 

     

     

     

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  3. No, I haven't.

     

    Eight years we have been together now and I haven't done anything, despite many opportunities and offers. I cheated on a few previous girlfriends (in England and Bangkok) when I was younger too but this one has felt different. 

     

    Obviously I love to window shop, and often think about what it might be like with certain women I see and meet, but quite often the reality is never as good. It definitely takes time to make the sex life really good and a one night stand doesn't interest me.

     

     

     

     

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