honeyen

They and their families can make CHOICES not to get into situations where they will need impossible amounts of money in a short period. 

Precisely!!! The Chinese has a say -- "Don't wear a big hat if ur head is not that big!".

Good one. I actually asked for my bf's health report when we started dating

Would the case be different if I'm also an expat?

For those who live in los, and get into reletionship with bg's, i dont understand.

I don't understand either!

I met my bf 4 months ago and so far he has been very honest with me, he even told me that he used to "have a serious relationship with a hooker for a year"! At first I was a bit annoyed but since it's my choice to be with him, I've finally accepted the fact, after all, that's history and I thought we'd both forget the past and start a 'healthy relationship' since.

What happened was... He recently came back from Europe (visited his folks & mates). I found out that he actually carried along a photo album which filed photos of his ex (the hooker)!!! I don't understand, I really don't!!! It seemed to me that he was so PROUD OF HER!!! Although he has been telling me that he wants to get rid of the 'dirty bug's life', now I wonder if he could really do so???

I once asked my female Thai colleagues before, they told me that G-string resembles stripped girls (podium dancers) in Patpong...

24 in 2 months. Am I still allowed in this forum?

Hello everyone

I guess most of you in this forum have been living in Thailand for quite some time, and obviously 'feel' much more than I do for this country. I have been living here for a year so far, but for some reason, I find it hard to devote myself into this rather 'bizarre' society like most of the others do.

Could this simply be a gender issue? or because I'm a weirdo?

Poor Begs, seems like no one is really answering you. Unfortunately, I'm unable to answer too.

Anyway, lowlife or not doesn't really matter that much, as long as you live a life that you want and cause no harms to others, who cares?

For those of you who have managed to resist becoming paranoid of Africans and Arabs in the last few years, there's a few decent hip-hop clubs in the NaNa area as well. The hookah smoking and Arab coffee in that area is really good too.

Hey you are right, we were at this Arabian club on Monday night till 4:30am!!! (not sure where it was though, coz basically eveyone of us were drunk). it's absolutely incredible.

You know what happened in the club? well... i still find it hard to believe it by myself. We were dancing and throwing 100baht & 500baht notes in the club!!!!!!! like what they show in those Arabian movies u know -- king throws gold to the women!!!

It was a crazy nite, I guess we were the only group (Brits, Belgian, Italian, Malaysian, Dutch) who weren't Arabs. Don't worry, we are still survive

I feel a lot after reading the writings here...

Sometimes I really wonder based on what the 'relationship' is built on? Relationship that transcends sensibleness... language, background, common interests, etc... could it be as simple as 'true love'?

Sadly, not even by boyfriend could explain this...

Sorry honey no such thing as true love.........if you or your boyfriend move on you will find someone new, its more a question of compatability that forms the basis of a long relationship in my opinion. As for "bar girls" long as the money is there so are they, you run out of money they run out as well.........its just the way things are!

I certainly understand that all she wanted was $$$. But what I don't is... why there are so many guys having relationship with girls whom they can't even have a proper smooth conversation with??? so, where is the most basic 'compatibility'?

I feel a lot after reading the writings here...

Sometimes I really wonder based on what the 'relationship' is built on? Relationship that transcends sensibleness... language, background, common interests, etc... could it be as simple as 'true love'?

Sadly, not even by boyfriend could explain this...