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Me again, just saw John Doe's post on previous page. Still gettin used to using this rather ugly looking web site ! John Doe - thanks for something intelligent.

Do any of you racists out there - that is most of you atlking on this forrum about the bomb near Big C - REALLY know the history of the "DEEP SOUTH" of Thailnd or indeed the true meaning of the KORAN and ISLAM ???? I think not. I am not going to go on about it as I am too busy doing more important things with my life but I just wanted to say... Please think before you let your nifty fingers hit your keyboards.

I am a farang, converted to Islam due to marriage. I am trying to read about the relgion and understand it. I do not condone violence and NEITHER DOES ISLAM. It is AGAINST Islam to kill randomly.

You, buy saying bad things about Muslims in general, are perpetuating the myth that all Muslims are bad. Grow up or go back to school.

Myself and my family and all those who live around me are Muslims and are the nicest people you could imagine.

Get a life before you start condeming ALL Muslims for the sake of a few twisted youths. There are millions of good Muslims.

Finally - maybe you've been living on palnet Zorg, but the goody goody Budhist population in the south have been popping off Muslims for DECADES. Check out the history books.

From - a happy, kind and caring Muslim living in south Thailand

Hi D,

Thanks for writing. Well I had had a few encounters with thai men before meeting my husband on an island so I knew about them a bit. We've been together a year now and everythings seems pretty much fine. I made it very clear from the beginning that I would not tolerate infidelity and he agrred. I worried myself sick about it because I didn't want to be hurt - like us all - but then I felt I was being silly so now I try to just relax and believe in him.

The big thing for me is when women come to our bar and flirt with him, He giggles and laughs with them just as he does with everyone but I sometimes get upset and then we argue because I have a few too many drinks and acuse him of flirting. But deep down I don't think he do anything to hurt me. I don't pay for him, we share money, we have a house together, I'm close to his family and, very important, we are part of and island community that likes us both very much so there's a support network. We all know each other here and we all know what each other get up to.

My advice is don't be scared of your new relationship. Go ahead with it and see how it goes - you only live once!!! There are many more aspects to living in thailand that will keep you busy once you get over here so feel free to ask away.

Take care too,

Yoyo

Hi Girls, I'm new to the forum but just wanted to add a little. I'm married to an "island guy" and very happy with it too.The only hassle actually is having to earn money on the mainland. But yes, our relationship is not about money either. We genuinly have a good thing together.

One thing I'm really sick of though is the mentality of lots of farang tourists who want to 'try' sex with a Thai guy and blatantly flirt with everyone throwing their boobs around etc. I know some Thai guys aren't perfect but this just makes them think farang women are so easy. You should hear some of the stories I hear from the Thai men on the island!!!

On another note, I'd love to communicate with any women out there in the same boat!!

Hi Girls, I'm new to the forum but just wanted to add a little. I'm married to an "island guy" and very happy with it too.The only hassle actually is having to earn money on the mainland. But yes, our relationship is not about money either. We genuinly have a good thing together.

One thing I'm really sick of though is the mentality of lots of farang tourists who want to 'try' sex with a Thai guy and blatantly flirt with everyone throwing their boobs around etc. I know some Thai guys aren't perfect but this just makes them think farang women are so easy. You should hear some of the stories I hear from the Thai men on the island!!!

On another note, I'd love to communicate with any women out there in the same boat!!