seonai

My questions are really simple, "What did you do at work today", "What did so and so say about....blah blah"

But I am not allowed to ask.......

I am not allowed to smile and laugh......

I must tip toe around all the time.....

Scared to speak if he's not in the mood.....

I think I have had enough of this world and it's horrible people. I try too hard to be natural and nice and all the time I meet people who are horrible and who want to hurt or don't care about others.....

I think I am weird

I CARE about other people

Hi Boo, I am having serious cultural probs with my Thai husband. I realise guys are guys and all that but would like to ask your advice and experience as a mate. female to female. Are you up for a couple of questions please?

Seonai - don't mind if it's on open forum or PM

Hi guys, especially to SBK whom I remember from ages ago. How much compromising is necessary for you to live with your Thai partner? And how about communication, I don't mean language, I mean understanding each other's needs?

My marriage is in trouble..... husband says i ask too mant questions, have too many ideas and that he wants me to leave him alone so he can "do his way"....

I love him and we've been together 2 years, I compromise a LOT. I wear Muslim clothing I curb my instincts to speak too much. Live and breath Thai culture........

Any ideas out there ? Not "leave him and get a life" answers please. I am trying to understand this.

S

sorry my keyboard has a prob with letters such as y and t

Okay it was worth a try.... wasn't it ???? If you reallt care about your offspring here. I suspect I am in a forum that consists mainlt of males who don't really give a shit about things like parenthood. I emphasis mainly..... sure some of you out there care but not too many.............

I know they are different coutries, I was trying to open a debate about our rights as parents here in Thailand compared to a superstar being granted immediate rights in Cambodia

so I guess why you are not replying to my post about A. Jolie is because most of you posting have no real tie with Thailand....... ce la vie

No need to say any more

S

So great Angelina Jolie has been granted Cambodian citizenship. How about normal parents to Thai children loving here in Thailand....... we are nothing right??????????????

Seonai

Tots, my son's family are from Roi Et and some of them live in Kalasin

don't know about you guys but I have to hit the sack soon.........

gettting bored bored bored

Love it to bits but can't do mine

khall testing testing

untitled.bmp

yes Tots, know Kalasin well. A tad on the dull side if I may say so.....

???????? why

are you really in Kalasin Tots?

so how does Tots know you're a lady khall ?

don't want Totser on our tail/trail do we ??????

hhhhhmmmmm are we ready to be exposed ????????

still here, got kicked out

re connected dear

xx

ok khall so not everyone's a kangaroo expert.......

Seonai xx

Mr Bojangles...... moneysworth...... HHHHmmmmmm. No comment just yet..... Lucky in one way tho, I can get a marriage visa easliy and the family haven't ever asked for so much as a bean..... very traditional...... the woman holds the purse strings.... and the family would beat my husband should he do anything wrong..... but that might just be MY Thai family.....

Seonai

My Thai husband paid 500 baht for me........... any comments !!!?????

Seonai

Have you heard about the ladies onlt clubs in BKK? Ladies pay about 9oo baht and have a male escort all evening who can dance tango and really know how to treat a lady. The s__ word costs more obviously. I think women just want the odd flower, hug when least expecting it and appreciation where appropriate.

I am surprised to hear about Dragonman's wife's social club thing though cos most of the women who go to Ladies clubs are married to Thai men not farangs!!

Seonai

I agree with some of the things you said Scamp. The Chiese, even here in Thailand, often have a pastey sort of unhealthy look. For the healthiest looking Thais I suggest you visit south Thailand, rugged brown good looking and hairy, curly hair at that.

Seonai