"Can't get a woman" you ask. hmm. well it certainly is easier to get a date in Thailand. Is that getting a woman? Is that getting a soul mate? Is that getting somebody you really want to have children with and that has similar background, experiences religion as him? Is that getting someone that you can talk to about life, philosophy, maybe technical things or cultural things you both grew up with? I doubt it. But as one gets older, one sometimes compromises.