KamalaDreamer

Money #1

Take her to the restaurant on floor 37 of the Sofitel Silom.

Ask her if she likes the food.

Funny thing is whenever we go shopping, she never wants anything from any of the shopping malls. Maybe the odd t shirt from Chatuchak or Pratunam but that's it. I think maybe those who are spending loads in shopping malls need to re assess whether those girls actually are with them for them or for the money. I get on well with the mum though, and the mum's sister too. I'm quite hairy and they seem to love that.

Nice one.

Give her 2000baht to go to TescoLotus and see if she comes back with change.

Money maybe Number 1 but if you ain't delivering on the other things on zaa009's list.....

ATB

North America is a long way from SE Asia. That's the mistake the US made in Vietnam.

I moved from England 8ys ago because the goverment does not give a shit if you are British and bring back Guy Fawkes but British TV is the best in the world

Absolutely agree on all these points.

Hi Def, multichannel, multinational TV will come to Thailand eventually. Who cares if it takes a long time. You can only watch one channel at a time. And if you get bored you can always take a break and just look at the girlfriend cooking dinner or getting on the motor bike when she doesn't know you are looking.

OP…..Still in the dark, have a read….It my help with understanding..Woman.

Thanks Tonto. Like it. Made me laugh.

As for Thai mothers......I'm in with a good chance I reckon.

Don't take it too far!! Unintended consequences beckon.......

Understood.....I don't think TGF's mother is looking for earth shattering stuff.....but she's quite happy for me to sleep with her daughter.

The question is wrong.

What is the key to your heart? What must a woman do to get there?

Once you have this mindset, you will have more women than you were ever dreaming.

Isn't that just an extension of treat others the way you would like to be treated, perhaps one of the answers that also applies to the question

Well said Geo.

Including the word Thai in the title was deliberate. At the moment I'm not looking for a relationship with anybody else.

OP…..Still in the dark, have a read….It my help with understanding..Woman.

Thanks Tonto. Like it. Made me laugh.

As for Thai mothers......I'm in with a good chance I reckon.

Funny how zzaa09 can take over a post with his insight.

Chris, come on mate………..’The key to a Thai woman’s heart?’ That’s easy……..It’s the same key you use to any other woman’s heart, anywhere in the world……….Any wiser? I didn’t think so…………………………………………Welcome to the club!

Educated woman with a career gave up thinking about her heart a long time ago. So you ain't gonna find the key to that bike.

Thanks for reply. ATB. KDc

Your views appreciated.

But please bear in mind TV Moderator will step in (quite rightly) if the discussion turns a bit dodgy.

Thanks.

KD Chris

I bow to your superior knowledge. Thank you for enlightening me. Unfortunately I have only been in Thailand since 1993 and so I seem to know bugggeer all about the local bar scene here in Samui.

There are couples in the West who take the marriage vows seriously when it comes to the part about, "To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish 'till death do us part."

I can just imagine a Thai woman at the alter hearing that and saying, "Uh whoa! Hang on...what was that part about 'poorer'? I don't remember sticking around with a poor guy being part of the deal. Can we have like a do-over and leave that part out?"

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And how many of these modern Western women would run a mile at the sickness part? It may be buffalo love but she will keep that sick buffalo on his feet with love and attention.... at least until he can't be wheeled to the ATM!

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Any sensible buffalo would say "If you gotta wheel me to the ATM, this ain't working".

Any thai girl with any respect for herself would say the same.

Some of them do. Some don't.

Be honest; how many of you are with a woman you met in a bar/massage parlor?

That discussion has been done several times in the general forum. Guess how it ended?

that no TV Member is with a Bar Girl, all our GF/Wives are from HI/So Families, educated abroad or central Bangkok ... have never asked for Sin Sod, or if they have it is always given back ... oh, and that they are the first westerner they have ever been with

Bar girl knows the farang has had previous wives and probably been with other bamboo.

That was yesterday.

Same for her.

Yes and romantic love lasts forever and we all live happily ever after.

First posts are usually the best ones.

going far to off topic and into areas we cannot discuss , but the above will never happen with thai escort in the UK, they area different class to thai girls in thailand !!!!!

anyway, if you are a firm believer that you can take the Thai Girl out the bar, you still need another couple of years in thailand and you will learn , and most probably the hard way !,

i await your posts in 2014

Thanks Boater. I'm waiting for a TV poster to put us both straight with a sentiment along the lines of a whore is is a whore and class doesn't come into it.

Best Thai Massage Parlour 2014. Let me know if you find it Boater.

Cheers

Chris

Be honest; how many of you are with a woman you met in a bar/massage parlor?

That discussion has been done several times in the general forum. Guess how it ended?

How many of the unhappy farangs are with women they met in the catholic church?

and how many that are hppy with cash in the Bank ? ????

anyway this post is going far to off topic !!!

so back onto topic, where is the best happy ending massage parlour then ? ,

Plenty of happy ending massage parlours. I don't know the best one or I would always go there.

Massage parlour closes at night. Kids go to school in the morning. Bar girl went to school once too.

If a Thai escort girl in London sends you a text at 4am in the morning " Don't you forget me OK" and her Mamasan says happy birthday from her personal phone you either believe it's good business or something more.

Personally I prefer to look on the bright side.

This must be a very old video, I cant recognize any of the places here? Is it in Lamai for several yrs ago?

Who is that Tony, he should have got some free advertising for his bar.

U r right i do not reckonise any of them.

I think this topic is very close to the wind be interesting how long i can keep my boat on line. i shall try.

I love bar girls. Holland or Thailand but ther e is not difference. a whore is a whore so i think these men have very high hopes if the think they can take the girl out the bar and the bar out of the girl ha ha

It IS possible to take the bar out of the girl. Especially if she didn't want to be there in the first place.

High hopes indeed.

Observers who want to end it in tears have their own agenda. qv Roo.

Be honest; how many of you are with a woman you met in a bar/massage parlor?

That discussion has been done several times in the general forum. Guess how it ended?

How many of the unhappy farangs are with women they met in the catholic church?

To OP: RUN, RUN, RUN - don't look back.

You have showed that you have money and can take care of her and her family. He has found a good provider.

I prefer to be a loved partner. Based on that I would RUN.

If you are lucky you might get a girl like me that hang up on her parents when they call about money or curse them for taking so much from her (before I meet her) and wasting it on booze and gambling.

She might be a good girl [or not] but if she needs to provide for her family then you are their cow.

And if you WANT to provide for her family?

Hang up the phone if they are boozing and gambling HER money away (before you meet her).

Good decision.

From topics like this I think we can conclude that 99.9% of posters in these threads are probably married to whores but I don't think the percentage is so high when you include all the foreigners living in Thailand that do not post in these threads.

Good evening all.

Sorry. Can't resist it:

Are You married to a w****?

143 posts, some posters have posted a few times, let us say for round numbers 100 posters.......

I can only speak from my personal knowledge....given the 99% number being thrown around...if you believe that then....well the other 99 of you..........are the 99%........and if you know you are not one of the 99%.............then you know 99% is 100% bullshit

You've lost me Geo, but I think I get the drift.

Kale needs his gf to read these posts. What would SHE make of it all.

My guess is there is at least one thing she would take out of it all.

Top of the list: Kale thinks I'm a bit special.

She can do her posting and talk with her gf's in her own time. Kale probably goes to work.

Regards as they say in London.

KD

You sound like a sucker in the process of being 'taken'.

Plenty of young guys around thinking their gf is different.

You will learn, hopefully it won't cost you too much.

I sincerely want to let you know that I didn't mean to inflammatory any one of you, but I can see here some anger coming out, Please please keep stick closely into the subject if you have experience on this matter, which is I have confusion, but if you are not sure then don't try to pinch any others please...

I heartily thank you for understanding my points..

sincerely

Kaledamai

In my experience, there are two ways to do things in Thailand, the easy way or the hard way.

For what its worth I would take onboard what LM is telling you, thats the easy way, will save you time, money and heartbreak in the long term.

The hard way, there are those of us who live here, speak and read the language, and see guys like you come and go every week.

We also spend time with these girls, they are great fun to be with, very generous with other peoples money, always yours. Are they marriage material, certainly not, would I trust them, never.

Examples include but arent limited to, watch the suckers wandering around lower Suk rd with their teerak on their arm, always with a Paragon, Central, Robinsons or wherever store bag in their hand.

Bag will contain expensive perfume or make up that you have paid for.

The gold shop on Suk soi 10 is another favourite place to take the buffalo to.

Head up to Tesco/Lotus On Nut, watch as their tee rak ponders over the latest BB that you will be paying for.

After buying the latest mobile, its off to buy a 50 inch LED tv, there another 50k gone, but no worries at least you think you know what she will be doing every evening, staying in to watch her new tv, little do you know as soon as you are gone, the tv will be sold for about 20k baht.

As I sit drinking with the locals, guys you look lock on to me like some sort of heat seeking missile, oh look theres a farang to talk to.

Your tee rak then asks you for 1000 baht as she needs to buy something, then says to me in Thai, dont tell him anything, then its off to 7/11 to buy a bottle of whisky which she puts on the table for us to drink. All the while you are totally clueless to whats just taken place.

And for those guys with their bedroom perversions, dont think they arent being talked about in graphic detail and laughed at.

I dont think there is a Thai word for "golden shower", and some of the stories about where these girls are putting their high heel shoes beggars belief.

Up to you as they say here, but one way or another you will learn.

Thai woman wants 50 inch LED tv?

Thai woman wants kids to go to school looking smart?

Same difference in London.

all the expenses are paid by myself, she never asked even one time to share the bills

Your own statement sums it up for me.

Man make money, gf look pretty.

Kale,

If your asking me if love can develop by chatting and seeing pictures, You could certainly start the ball rolling by falling in love, But it's more than likely in your case lust rather than love. I have no doubt it wasnt her rivoting topics of conversations on her Facebook wall that caught your eye in order for you to add her. Kale, i don't know much about you mate but if your asking questions such like "can you fall in love over the internet" then i really do think your going to learn the hard way in Thailand. If you havent grasped love or the reasons why your in a relationship in your home land then try and keep your wits about you in Thailand.

Good Luck

Appreciate your reply mate thanks, I never, and will never fall in love just like that, like by chatting on fb or just watching her pics etc, she is pretty that's why I add her, and I was liking her but to love is deferent, it comes slowly when starts to taking care of each other, may be some people loves just like that but myself no way...that's why I got so surprised when she asked me do u love me? She had all her plan what she supposed to do before I get there. I love her now cuz I spent like two weeks with her and I have posted here cuz I found different from other girls.

Thank u so much.. Appreciate your comments

Kale

If she's a bit special for you Kale, that is a very encouraging sign I reckon?

There are always two parties involved in a contract. If girlfriend thought she wasn't special for you she wouldn't want to deal?

PS: In reply to KeserSoze comment: "Not so. There are now generations of western and eastern women who are educated and have professions of their own. When they mate, it usually is for love. That is until the relationship goes south and then they will use the limits of the law to take whatever you have."

I spend my working life with these kind of women. They don't move me. My partner is a gook from IndoChina (who I didn't find on FB). I just found she was a bit special and I didn't want to say goodbye.

I appreciate your kinds thought thank you, every single day and night we went out to eat and I paid, she likes shopping I did lots of shopping for her and her family too, but she didn't give me even 100 bahts souvenir for Thailand, if she was thinking like who come from reachest country has lots of money then it's 100% fine with me, but I had dating with local American and one Asian, both American girls we're very interested to pay our dinner bill but I didn't let them pay, and one of American girl said ok so u have to come my apartment I will cook for u, and I already told about that Asian girl, but this Thai girl is very different from them.

Thank you and appreciate again man.

Kale

You are welcome. Free of charge.

"soooo.. i finaly get to hear from one of those creeps who send messages on facebook to every single thai girl registred in hope of having a sex partner show them around when they come.

facebook is for keeping up with friends, not finding a wife. She's a prostitute, simple as that.

You could not find a proper wife in the USA, you wont find a proper one here. People with proper wifes in thailand, didnt come looking for a wife.

Edited by thaiIand, Today, 11:29 . "

Ever heard the saying, no money no honey? It's not just Thailand where this rule applies. Women aren't interested in the size of your weewee or how handsome you are. They're interested in your wallet! That's a fact of life.

Don't agree? Find a homeless guy and ask him if he has a wife/gf. Almost 100% of the time he will not.

Ask yourself what is in it for a woman to sleep with you???

Unlike you i assume, i am fit, probably 40 years younger than you, educated, interesting and decent looking.

Of course i dont expect an ugly male with no personality to understand any of this.

You sound like a sucker in the process of being 'taken'.

Plenty of young guys around thinking their gf is different.

You will learn, hopefully it won't cost you too much.

Me again.

Keep the faith.

You don't think the gf is different, she will think the same.

Ever heard the saying, no money no honey? It's not just Thailand where this rule applies. Women aren't interested in the size of your weewee or how handsome you are. They're interested in your wallet! That's a fact of life.

Not so. There are now generations of western and eastern women who are educated and have professions of their own. When they mate, it usually is for love. That is until the relationship goes south and then they will use the limits of the law to take whatever you have.

The mating part for these women is usually (? always) in the context of their overall plan. It is usually fairly calculated.

We need to be very careful about western hypocrisy in a debate about Thai women and their motives.

And it often goes south (presumably pear-shaped?) when the geezer with the career woman finds somebody who actually moves him. And the lawyers get rich as KSO1 appears to know.

Ever heard the saying, no money no honey? It's not just Thailand where this rule applies. Women aren't interested in the size of your weewee or how handsome you are. They're interested in your wallet! That's a fact of life.

Not so. There are now generations of western and eastern women who are educated and have professions of their own. When they mate, it usually is for love. That is until the relationship goes south and then they will use the limits of the law to take whatever you have.

The mating part for these women is usually (? always) in the context of their overall plan. It is usually fairly calculated.

We need to be very careful about western hypocrisy in a debate about Thai women and their motives.