I sometimes find myself flabbergasted with the sheer lack of sympathy and empathy shown on here by some members. We haven't all been blessed with good fortune or bestowed with untold wealth, so some of us have to do this kind of work. Regardless, for some of you more comfortably off, it seems that anytime a misfortune or difficult situation occurs you simply can't wait to throw in a knife and give a twist. For some it seems, even our tax and immigration status also seems of interest. There are some academics, Sam Harris, Lawrence Krauss, Richard Dawkins for example, who refer to free speech as not being the entitlement of everyone, if what the person says is utter garbage. I used to disagree, but I think my mind is slowly changing on this.
Seriously though, get off your high horses and give some thought to others less fortunate than yourselves.