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1 hour ago, bkk6060 said:

You truly do not have a clue about these girls or understand my post.

In most cases either way you will be responsible for their families.

The girl in debt wants to meet you so you can pay for her family because she cannot afford to do so since her lifestyle has created such debt.

If you are a strong man set guidelines...

As I said, it is a choice.

I know guys that have failed and succeeded in both situations. I suggest you get out there like I have and actually meet different types of girls so you can become educated on how things work and make an intelligent choice. 

Good luck to you.

 

Those who made an intelligent choice do not post here!

1 hour ago, Hummin said:

Indeed a woman in no dept is to prefer, and if she do not work, she have time to travel, and be free to do what you want, and not spend your life waiting for her to be off work. 

And from what money she lives and support her family???

I have not heard of and seen yet an Isaan waterbuffalo which shits satang.

3 minutes ago, britishjohn said:

Gf yes, wife no way Jose. Twice bitten...thrice shy

Then better hunt in evenings. Normal Thai girls or ladies work during daytime. And how many, who work in department stores or as Mae Ka speak enough English for a good conversation? Ok, some posters here don't need a conversation, wasted time.

54 minutes ago, lapd said:

What is your point?  After you remove all the things you say people don't come to Pattaya for, what does Pattaya have that you can't get in Bkk?  Are there no girls in Bkk?

Why you try to give Pattaya a better image than it has in farang lands.

Pattaya is synonym for nightlife, girls and entertainment, cheap accomodation, average beaches and no cultural highlights. Most cities in Asia and western world have that too, but not in such a concentration.

1 hour ago, lapd said:

A lot of them like the hotels/condo's along the beach and walking along the beach, and the cool breeze that comes off the ocean.  So many are here for the beach indirectly.  Otherwise just go to Bkk.  Don't need to go to Pattaya

Sorry, how could I be so sloppy. 95% of farangs live in and visit Patty for the good air, additional 4% for the good restaurants and cultural highlights and the rest, 1%, as food for the Patty girls.

29 minutes ago, britishjohn said:

Could be, but I've had it a few times where they will send txts and even photos of themselves after the first date before cooling off on subsequent days. Hard to believe you would send photos if you were just being considerate. So I just figured my response had been too lukewarm...

They did not want you have a cold turkey!

8 hours ago, britishjohn said:

I have experienced something similar to this a couple of times where they appeared quite keen and then suddenly go cold the following day.

25 minutes ago, britishjohn said:

I do have question for those who've been living here for a while and have more experience with dating Asian women. 

Back home after a first date it's common to play it cool for a while before suggesting another meeting, to kind of keep them guessing. But I get the impression over here that can backfire. My feeling is if you don't tell them pretty quickly you're interested they will assume you're just a player, off meeting several others while keeping them on hold. And then they stop talking to you. I have experienced something similar to this a couple of times where they appeared quite keen and then suddenly go cold the following day.

So what's the best approach to this ?

Wave good bye at the first meeting with your wallet!

9 hours ago, Nyezhov said:

I just want one more skinny midget before I die........

Midget looks for midget!

1 hour ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I've NEVER been to Pattaya for the beach. If you want a nice beach, go to north Phangan or Krabi.

Same as 99% of farangs.

37 minutes ago, Nyezhov said:

One time I was sitting mopping my brow after a long photo session at the Grand Palace...nice lady came up to me and started chatting, after the obligatory Sawadees and Hot Out, it became "you live Bangkok? You have wife? You have girlfriend? I have cousin..."

 

Do I look like a bloody walking Sin Sod?

Obviously!

1 hour ago, kannot said:

Guess  humour isnt your  thing then................German by any chance?

Special humor ......... British by any chance?

2 minutes ago, britishjohn said:

I wouldn't mind being milked if they'd take the cream as well....

Where is the problem? It all depends on "satang" you shell out.

6 minutes ago, Damrongsak said:

It's <deleted> humor, with sympathy at the end.  I like to bash anyone and everyone, including myself.  I bash Thais, including my wife and her relatives, in front of them.  I've been around the block a few times in my 65 years on this planet, so don't tell me what I have or have not experienced. Some

7 minutes ago, Damrongsak said:

Some people aren't merely late, they show up days later, if ever

 

You bash but don't like to be bashed?

And you think that's unique to Thailand?

12 minutes ago, Damrongsak said:

I can't blame the workers for being late.  All the accurate self-winding watches seem to be taken, or loaned out.

 

Having lived in Thailand years ago, I can imagine people being late, say on a Monday morning.  Like coming in some time Tuesday afternoon.  Thai time.  But nowadays with traffic and transportation and whatnot, it's a real nightmare to get around in many places.

Is this Thai bashing?  You can imagine but you did not experience.

Merriam Webster: Imagination = fanciful or empty assumption

21 minutes ago, SpeakeasyThai said:

'Thais are hard working'..... you're joking right?

May be harder than you! In another thread you told us you lived, probably worked, in Australia. And there you learned to work hard ... you're joking right?

Fantasy land at its best!

7 hours ago, barefootbangkok said:

I'm beginning to think that this legal advice is pointed directly at foreigners only

. That is why it is written in Thai language for farangs!

1 hour ago, kannot said:

I struggle with staff here, I dont know why, I mean the women usually have tiny tits are frequently late and  look like water monitors, once I've mentioned this they up an leave.....useless all of em!

There are also useless farang employers.

Some of them are called in German "Herrenmenschen" = master of race.

And the complain why Thais look down on farangs, at least some of them.

4 hours ago, BestB said:

if they start to show up late everyday , not only company can not cut for unworked hours but must also give warnings and time to rectify their lateness before being able to kick them out?

Yes, they can't. They have to follow the legal procedures. And that is, what was said by the lawer. Those who can read have a distinctive advantage.

1 hour ago, rwill said:

If paid by the hour you are just paying them for the hours they worked not deducting their pay.

And no bar fine? The farang bar owners would dance of joy!

3 hours ago, rickjza said:

How will the gogo bars adjust, all the latecomers, the dance floor will be empty for the first few hours after opening. 

Instead of cutting money, give incentives! Ever thought about this possibility?

1 hour ago, hotchilli said:

In the west you usually have a contract or terms of employment ie

start/finish times
holiday entitlement
salary or hourly rate, OT rate etc etc

break that you're in breach of contract.. disciplinary action starts..

verbal warning, written warning & bye bye
 

But no salary cut

1 hour ago, Nemises said:

Well no, I didn’t use a fake profile. If I had of, she wouldn’t of recognised me.

The perfect relationship!