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On ‎8‎/‎5‎/‎2018 at 7:22 AM, jenny2017 said:

Once he's gone, without telling her where to, she'll soon realize what she had

That is typical western thinking. She might give a damn if he is around or not.

On ‎8‎/‎5‎/‎2018 at 7:03 AM, BritManToo said:

Agreed, a Thai guy would either give her a good hiding or leave if she badmouthed him in public (maybe both).

It's a sad fact that women don't love or respect nice guys AWALT. 

No sex for you = no money for her.

 

Carrot and stick

Women all over the world are basically shagging men for a house.

Once you buy them the house outright, the sex will stop. (a big mortgage will usually keep the sex coming)

The equation sex = money or house or medicine for sick waterbuffalo is 100% correct for expats living in Bangkok and Pattaya. But how does it come that so many of these sales ladies have Thai boyfriends and finance their lazy life ??

On ‎8‎/‎5‎/‎2018 at 5:42 AM, Peterw42 said:

OP, considering the GF sees it as a normal relationship, that probably includes the normal practice of you having a mia noi (second wife). For a lot of Thais thats the way the relationship goes, and is considered pretty normal, almost expected.  I have met some friends and family of my wife and seen Thai relationships were the mia noi is openly accepted and discussed, almost like having a cleaning lady.

"why you want to cause trouble", let me translate, it would probably be considered normal and almost expected that, at this stage of the relationship, you get intimacy and sex elsewhere. If your GF stopped cooking, you would probably think nothing of getting take-away, its the same with sex for many Thai relationships.

Sorry, but he is not Thai, he has no kids, he is too old for a mia noi and may not afford one or more mia nois. Don't forget, he lives in a village.

I am also not sure if expats who have mia nois, are really accepted in Thai society, specially in rural areas.

And most imported: Does he have the character to have a mia noi?

In my opinion a totally stupid recommendation.

OP, there are different aspects to consider 

1. Do you belief in rebirth, so stay on and tell yourself, I'll do better in my next life. If not, better leave as long as you can (financially and health wise). The rest of your life might be hell on earth. She has no respect now for you and she will not have in the future, she has her family, relatives and village community. There is no mutual understanding.

2. You have no kids, so what keeps you staying. See the house you built as a good deed for somebody, as a present and good karma for you.

3. You may ask yourself, what should I do when I leave her? You don't like staying in a village, you will always be unhappy with your situation and become bitter.

4. I am not sure if it is good to stay on in Thailand. Move to another country if your finances allow, motivate yourself for a new start, may be do some social work, keep yourself busy, not hang around with expats, killing time in pubs.

5. Don't slide into another financial commitment.

Good luck!

15 minutes ago, Elkski said:

its time for the LIST!!

 

Her parents

Her self

Food

Her time

Her friends

Her family Dog

IF she has a cat dump her already

Her work

Her coworkers

Her FB

And finally you and don't forget the support! I mean love

You forgot the waterbuffalo!

34 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

She never would be.

Weak males allow that.....

We do not talk about pimps here.

27 minutes ago, timendres said:

Wrong example. No comparison.

Thai girl dump farang, farang dump Thai girl. Indeed no comparison!

No.1 rare and shocking, No. 2 standard procedure.

2 minutes ago, timendres said:

In my experience, with Thai girls, it is less about "face" and more typically that they dislike "confrontation" and bad feelings.

Wrong, dump a Thai girl who is into you and you will feel the heat!

4 hours ago, bkk6060 said:

Just the opposite from my experience I find Thai women more affectionate then western women.

Especially, during sexual intimacy.

and when she is cross with you!

4 hours ago, Vacuum said:

It's the "rich" part that counts, anything else doesn't matter.

The first two are subjective and the third one is objective, and that's what count!

2 hours ago, gaff said:

You were wrong when you showed respects to her. The first thing to avoid is to show respect to an woman in this world. This is how you get respect.

 

 

Take care in Thailand. You may wake up with your best part missing!

8 hours ago, TumblinDice said:

I just want to know what it was

And then? You have satisfied your ego?

34 minutes ago, britishjohn said:

The older you go the fewer there are, but I've seen some 40yr olds I'd be delighted to settle down with. Although sometimes I get the feeling they are pickier than the 25yr olds. Maybe because of their scarcity.

No, because of experience!

At least, plenty of foreigners, also whites, don't sleep very well now ?!

4 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I suspect your definition of 'drop dead gorgeous' differs to mine.

These ladies match my definition ...........

I have no idea how you count the age

1 hour ago, OzMan said:

You are a man after my own heart BritManToo.

That's probably also a lie

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

Much better to is get an estate agent to take you and your 'intended' to view 5Mbht+ plus properties, really like the most expensive house you are shown, then ask your  you are so tired 'intended' if you purchased the house, would it be OK to put it in her name.

Guarantees a week of no holes holds barred sex.

Certainly the most effective way to hire a Patty Thai girl. I just hope, she want to see a few houses and you are so tired at the end that you forget that there is some more than sleep.

You deserve the Patty bonker special award!

5 hours ago, britishjohn said:

Sadly I agree you, although I don't always feel good about it. In the case of women, I have periods of total honesty and then wonder why I'm living like a monk. A few months back I met 2 gorgeous women I liked a lot, was completely  full of front about everything and got rejected by both. Since then I have been know to forget I have children/grand children, develop a strong desire to remarry, become 10 yrs younger,  and magically become CEO of a highly successful company...

You mean CEO of 5 bar chairs and a fridge full of ice cold Chang.

45 minutes ago, Jimbo53 said:

You must be related to Einstein!!!

No, he is!

1 minute ago, BestB said:

Let's put it this way,when she was asked where she was she said in bed and she did not lie, she was in bed. Just not hers ?

Not in bed but on bed!

6 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I had one that took a call from her boyfriend while on top of me.

It was actually quite entertaining, and she didn't pause for a second.

It was a really old phone, not smart at all, a bit surprised I said where's your smartphone, and she replied I leave it at home because he thinks I'm still on the farm, and if I had a smartphone he'd do a video call.

And he had both phone numbers ?!

3 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Not at all, happy to admit I only have sex with prostitutes in their 20s.

 

Sounds boring, a lot of sex with a smartphone and tv.

45 minutes ago, Elkski said:

im 58 and am 40 makes me proud.  I think women are like wine and mature to prime at 40

Ah, that's why so many older chaps move from women to wine.

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Sorry for asking, but if she was a 'knockout', wealthy and successful, why did she want you?

She has not met you yet!