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Somsrisonphimai

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  1. Somsrisonphimai ... may I ask ... how much do you fund your Family with?

    Per Month?

    Somsrisonphimai ... care to share?

    I was just about to get to your other post but what the heck.

    I work since I was 11 years old. I was a home factory worker, yep I was. I earned 400 baht/m. I gave them every baht I earned.

    At 14 years old I went to work for hiso Thai family who my aunt renting a place from in BKK. I was a living nanny and maid. I did everything, cook, clean, any house chores you name it. Yep again I was a child taking care of 3 children, but sometime the child is more responsible than the adult to the adult job. Again, I gave them every baht I earned. I made 1,200 baht/m. My dad came to take advance payment at time. I was happy to help them.

    Fast forward, I helped them built a decent house, purchased a family farm for them to farm, and opened a small shop for them. I helped pay for my 2 brothers and my sister to go to university, they all earned a degree by the way. Currently I am making a decent living, so I send them on average 10,000 baht/m. Sometime I send them more depending on my mood, lol.

    Anyway, taking care does not have to be giving parents money, it could be cook, clean, and take them to doctor visit, etc.

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  2. in the uk i have 2 children,

    my son passed his driving test,

    got a car from his grandad, then emailed me, dad i need some money for my insurence,

    as a perent its our job to look after our children, we brought them into the world, to love and take care of,

    not to sit back and let them keep us,,

    its different here, but i will say one thing, its not all thai families

    I don't get why the western parents still support their grown kids? Their kids are adult, in good health, and capable to work and earn a living.

  3. Lived with a thai woman in my homecountry. The moment she was eligable to work she transferred every month money, which she earned herself, to her parents. Upon me asking, after a while, why do you not sent enough for 3 months in 1 time to save bankingcharges....she laughed, shook her head and said ....No No i am not that stupid....

    This also applied to the fact that she only called once a month to her mum. The dad was a typical thai villagedrunk and the mum was not able to work due to infection by a snakebite years before. Her younger sister, living in England, seemed not to be pushed for financial support.

    Once thing always surprises me......many of us foreigners have always picked out, luck i guess, the most responsible daughter of the family.

    Maybe that is how the man attracted to the girl in the first place, her family values.

  4. Since my parents took care of me when I was young,

    Isnt it called responsibility, if they werent prepared to take care of children, why have them?

    Would you rather they abandoned you?

    I believe it is my duty to take care of them as they age

    What you believe or not is no concern of mine, please define "take care"?

    Why do you feel Thais should or should not support their parents?

    What have the parents been doing all their lives?

    Personally from my viewpoint in Bkk, most children married and having children of their own are still reliant on their parents to provide for them and the grandchildren.

    Examples include, living as one communal family, grandparents paying childrens education costs etc.

    What Thais do is no concern of mine.

    I suspect for many the problem arises when the farang is expected to provide.

    It all starts with the selction process.

    In this contact, take care means you do what you can to help your parents, maybe "help out" would be a better word of choice than "take care".

  5. Basing on their posts, I have seen some members having an issue with Thais supporting their parents. I cannot see the issue with it. Perhaps, I was brainwashed when I was growing up, lol. Since my parents took care of me when I was young, I believe it is my duty to take care of them as they age. Why do you feel Thais should or should not support their parents? Please try to give critical response instead of lashing out the culture.

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  6. Seems there are people on TV that have a fetish about how attractive people are.

    It is a ' to each his own' subject. Why would anybody care who is attractive to who?

    Fetish is the best I could think of, any other descriptions out there?

    In an ideal world, looks would not matter. But we do not live in an ideal world, so looks do matter. But due to cultural and biological reasons, looks matter more if one was a woman. Because men prefer an attractive woman over an unattractive one. For a woman, a man's physical attractiveness may not be as important as other things, e.g., income, communication skills, sense of humor, intelligence, etc.

    Only money and fame counts with women.

    Communication, sense of humour, counts between guys.

    Nobody likes intelligent people, they get to sit at home alone.

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    For Thailand, you maybe right.

    For the Western girls, they like guy who is funny, intelligent, and be able to communicate.

  7. Seems there are people on TV that have a fetish about how attractive people are.

    It is a ' to each his own' subject. Why would anybody care who is attractive to who?

    Fetish is the best I could think of, any other descriptions out there?

    I should have only ask does your lady see herself the way you see her? Most women do not realize how beautiful they are even when their men say so. Some of them naturally pretty but still seeking unnecessary enhancements. But then men feed out from that beauty, naturally or artificial beauty.

  8. Miss Somsrison ... you never showed a photo of your Thai Partner ... whistling.gif
    How could I show him when I never have one.

    WOW ... a Virgin ... you'd get a pretty SinSot ... rolleyes.gif

    Awe ... come on ... don't be shy ... I'm sure there has been a special someone.

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    No Mr. David, I meant I have never been with a Thai man.

    You don't know what your missing then..... You need to get a bit of Thai on Thai action happening. ;)

    555, speaking from the experience?

  9. Yep, no money no honey.

    ill let you into a little secret,,,

    life isnt just about honey,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

    and take it from me some honey is very bitter

    Yes it is, it could be rent honey, part time honey and permanent honey. It requires money to have one.

    If not all three!

    A friend of mine died this year. He had three children. His mia noi moved in with his wife to take care of the kids. This is an interesting country.

    It is not just in Thailand. Have you seen polygamy in US? Also have you seen the show "Sister Wives"?

  10. My GF, She's beautiful. I particularly like her smile. Here's her pic. The wife doesn't know about her yet, I won't post the wife's pic, she's not so pretty.

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    your a lucky man if only i could find a "right belter" like that...........cue "east is east" music
    The best part about her is she can take a pissss behind a tree standing up. Beat that ! :P
    Ok, now she sounded like ladyboy, which there is nothing wrong with that. You cannot help who you love :).

    Whilst I agree with your sentiments....didn't you see her picture. Lol

    Yes, I saw it. You have good eyes Mr. neverdie.

  11. Here's my wife.
    Your wet dream wife?
    Absolutely, I've always had a thing for Aum.

    You don't care for dark skinned women?

    As was said previously, most men aren't as concerned about skin color, so long as she's young, attractive, and available. Well, maybe just young and available. Heck, maybe just available. And darker skin girls are more available/accessible to farangs than lighter skin girls in the LOS.

    Yeh, men go for younger women because they are looking for a fun night not a life partner. How can a 60 years oldman see his life with a 20 years old girl?

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