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Somsrisonphimai

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  1. It's just a scam perpetuated on the unwary. Been married twice here, never been asked to pay money.
    Does your wife sending money to her parents? If so, that is another form of sin sort you pay.
    If my wife sends money to her family, it comes from the money she earns, not me. Why would I pay her family?

    So her money is her money and your money is her money? Good for her. You guys don't combine money? Do you pay the bills, rent, insurances, utilities, household expenses, vacations, entertainment, etc?

    In my opinion, the money she earned is the money for your family (you and her). The money that can be used in your family. If she sends money to her parents, it is your money also.

    Almost all Thai man cannot get away with shacked up with the girl without paying something to the girl's parents. Please go ask your Thai wife/girlfriend if you were to be a Thai man, would her parents allow her to playhouse with you and not pay anything.

    Just because you are a western man, does not mean you don't have to follow the norm. As I said, some parents don't ask for sin sort up front because they know that their daughter will send them money or help them later on when they need help.

    Do these "so called" parents ever think to "save" money through their lives? or is their savings bank their kids? hmmmmmmmmmm nice thought

    Not everyone is so lucky and able as you. How can parents who have 10 rais of farm land with 5 kids save money for retirement, really how? They don't have the government to take care of them like some people in the western countries so they rely on their kids.

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  2. It's just a scam perpetuated on the unwary. Been married twice here, never been asked to pay money.

    Does your wife sending money to her parents? If so, that is another form of sin sort you pay.
    Is that because you have a farang husband funding your kids and family?.

    If not why assume others are?.

    Hello, did you read what I said? I assumed nothing. Are you married to a hiso girl/man or something? She/he does not need to send money home? How lucky.

    Lets not kidding ourself, most Thai women who are married to the western man or have a western boyfriend normal send money to their parents. If they have kids, they should support the kids. Some parents don't ask for sin sort but ask for support later on, so that is another form of sin sort.

    I don't have kid so no funding for that. Supporting my family? Hardly. But, I used to hate it when I had to tell him I am sending money to my parents. Thank god, I am no longer in that relationship and no longer feeling that way. I work and pay my own bills so if I want to give my parents my money, I can.

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