theguyfromanotherforum

I like the bleached one with titties. Quite nice. 

Where's the guy who said he made so much money trading bitcoin that he "bought the very laptop he is writing the post with".

Did you sell your laptop, yo?

This is just terrific folks, I'm telling you this is going to create thousands of jobs, millions of jobs for the American people, it's unbelievable 

She's starting to irritate me. 

Her and Asia Argento are the biggest prostitutes in Hollywood.

12 minutes ago, Jonah Tenner said:

That's ok, I'm not old yet, only 68. ?

Yes you are. That's like 476 in Farang years.

5 minutes ago, The manic said:

The Thonglor and Ekamai girls are just Hi So whores operating in a different and usually selfish way.

Exactly.

23 minutes ago, smotherb said:

Well, doesn't that depend upon your personality and ability to find the proper solute for the solvent. 

 

I have a very good friend, a fellow expat I have known for years. He is not particularly young, good looking or fluent in Thai; yet no matter where we go, upscale or downscale, he attracts the women. I have to work at it. Yet, I have a lovely, intelligent and capable wife and he has had only bad relationships; even though he wants a good one. Go figure.

 

I think some of us are confusing having a relationship and having mud for your turtle. If you want a good relationship, I suggest you find it outside the bars. If you simply want some more mud; that's what the bars are for. 

 

Don't get me wrong, I am not saying a good girl cannot work in a bar or that a good relationship cannot be had with a bar girl. It can happen; but the odds are against it. 

I think you misunderstood my post.

Hang around Ekkamai and Thonglor in upscale clubs to find a girl based on chemistry? May as well get your date around Soi Cowboy. 

7, 4, 5, 4, 2, 3, 8, 7

4 hours ago, NRGF said:

Where the visa application form asks ''reason for vist'' I always write tourist so have presumed I was getting a tourist visa.

Great. I think you confused enough people here with your posts.

17 hours ago, PunkRockerGuy said:

All I can say is this, before meeting my wife, I had hundreds of one-night stands since I was 17 and I think HIV awareness can around when I was about 18-years old.  I used a condom ONE time which was my first sexual experience at 17 years of age.  It was so awful, I never used a condom again, and that was 1979.  I am now 56 and due to my superbike injury, I have gone through 14-16 surgeries at Ramathibodi where they insist on HIV testing be included with the regular bloodwork.  Also, as I take a LOT of meds for pain, joint problems, for neuropathic pain in my right shoulder that no longer has soft tissue left, etc., so the doctors insist on bloodwork every 3-6 months and I always ask them to throw in an HIV test with the kidney, liver, and RBC counts.  Have always tested negative .... yet, I slept with really questionable girls.

 

If sexual contact or exchange of bodily fluids really, truly, 100% caused HIV infection and subsequently AIDS, I WOULD be dead by now.  This means all the girls who do BBJ are in danger of HIV infection and basically ALL oral sex would provide a highly effective route of transmission, yet very few ever get HIV.  Thus, either I have some awesome immune system, despite being plagued with IBS since I was about 20, easily get travelers diarrhea for many years, and suffer from extreme anxiety (controlled by meds) due to a severe Type A personality and always talking 5-6 projects at a time.  

 

I did 2 years medical school at YALE after my Doctorate in Law, but stopped studying for my MD as my salary at my Japanese company I started while in Law School was doing so well, I knew I could never go be a resident at a hospital until I commanded even 20% of my Japanese company salary where we worked for Black&Decker, DeWalt, Bosch, Stanley Tools, ESTWING hammers, and most of the large American power and hand tool companies opening their first sales offices in Japan in the 90's and importing and warehousing their tools.  So, it's not like I am medically ignorant.  However, I do have my doubts about the transmission of HIV and so does Dr. Rosenberg at UCLA medical school.

 

However, back to the thread: I work with the Thai Red Cross on a project basis and have had friends ask me about their friends or relatives in Thailand obtaining HIV meds at Thai Red Cross.  The previous poster is correct.  If you believe the HIV drug therapy is required, it is very inexpensive to obtain your meds at the Thai Red Cross. 

Blah, blah, blah... how did OP friend get it? Maybe Alex Jones send some UFO's his way and got probed.

On 6/5/2018 at 6:23 PM, moontang said:

how is JAL?  Food, drinks, hostesses?  

Yeah, I think I'm going to lodge a complaint. Hostesses are nothing like advertised on xhamster.

1 hour ago, Kerryd said:

I love the hypocrisy of people who claim they never "pay for it" or they have wives that they never give money to. 
They'd have you believe that they are so handsome and good in bed that women throw themselves at them and never ask for anything in return. 

 

Then you ask them a couple of questions and it's like "no, I don't give her money, we have a joint account and she takes whatever she wants/needs" or you ask them how she pays for hair salons and such and they say something like "oh I give her an allowance".

Uh huh.

Because "giving her an allowance" is different than "paying her".

Years ago when I was posted to Germany I was having a discussion with a couple of married guys after a trip to Hamburg. One of them had his nose so high in the air over the idea of "paying for it" that a light rain would have drowned him. I asked him if he was married (he said yes) and I told him, buddy, you are "paying for it" everyday of your life, the only difference is, when I pay for it, I get "it". Then I asked him the last time he got "it" and he started looking really sad. I knew a couple other guys whose wives basically took their whole paycheques and gave the husband an allowance (oh but they aren't "paying for it" so it's different).

Yeah, just like this forum where not one single person met his wife in a bar and everyone is quick to say "My Girl Is Different" (MGID for short).

As for the OP. Please. Get serious. 
The instant she said "why you not pay me" it should have been obvious. Just because you met her on Tinder means she isn't a hooker ? So what if she used to work in a hotel. It's far more likely that she is "freelancing" (and maybe that is why she isn't working at a hotel anymore - some places probably take a dim view of their staff getting too cozy with the customers). If you meet a girl that used to work in a hotel, then there's probably a pretty good reason why she isn't still working there.

And just because she was working at a hotel doesn't mean she isn't "playing the game". I found that out on my very first trip to Pattaya (back in 1993). Was drinking in a disco with an old Brit and his "date" when another girl showed up and started yelling at him. Turns out, she worked at the hotel he was staying in and had been sleeping with him - until one night when she got off work and went up to his room and let herself in, only to find he'd brought someone else home with him. Then, a couple nights later (when I was with him) she went looking for him and found him in the disco with a different girl !

It's almost a running joke now. When a girl tells you "she only start working bar today" what she really means is - she only started working at "that" bar that day (and is probably eager to show the mamasan that she can bring in the business). 
I had a girl I picked up in a friend's go-go. She told me she never worked in a go-go before (I didn't believe her - she looked and acted too much like a pro). She wanted me to take her to Happy A-Go-Go. Surprise surprise - she knew all the staff and half the dancers. Turns out she'd worked in Pattaya for something like 13 years, got married, moved to Isaan, got divorced when hubby's money ran out and came back to Pattaya to look for another ATM. (I left her in Happy's and went somewhere else.)
Another one told me she'd only started working that week. As soon as she took the stage you could see she'd been "working a pole" for a lot more than a week. I knew the mamasan and asked her. Sure enough, the girl had only been working a week - at that go-go. Plus the 7 years she'd spent in Bangkok until she started looking a little too "old".

Plenty of girls have arrived in Pattaya to take jobs in restaurants, hotels, hair salons etc and within weeks (or days) have been to the bars, discos and karaokes.

Often, within days, they've also hooked up with a local Thai guy (who they are probably way more happy with than you). In some cases, they start out staying with a "sister" or "cousin" and that person brings them to their bar/go-go and in short order has them working there (often to pay off a debt owed to that sister or cousin). Or their new boyfriend starts pressuring them to get out and make some money for him.
(Yes, I've personally seen these things.)
Or they simply see what kind of money "those" girls are raking in and want a piece of the action. 

Some girls don't play that game and are happy with working in 7-11s, restaurants and so on. Some girls work in beer bars. Some girls that maybe aren't so shy work in the go-gos. A lot of girls that don't want to work in either "freelance". And it seems that a lot of them have taken to the internet to look for customers. Dating sites (and apps) are full of women looking for "dates". Freelances don't have to worry about things like working hours, drink quotas and bar fines (but they hope you don't know that) and they don't have to worry about little things like weekly medical check-ups.

Ideally they would prefer a good looking guy with a fat............wallet, but a not so good looking guy with a fat.........wallet is also good, or even an old, fat guy (with a fat.........wallet) is doable. If they can find one that wants to keep them around longer, all the better. Most of them don't want to be shagging different, smelly, ugly old men every night. Shagging the same ugly old guy every night would be better (depending on how fat that wallet is). 
But they ALL need money. 
Many of them have babies they've left at home with mom to raise while they are out trying to earn a living. Others maybe caring for family members back home. 

I've met a couple of families, of girls I'd known for barely a couple weeks. I sincerely doubt I was the first "foreigner" they ever brought home with them.

I had it down at one point to where I could almost tell for certain how long a girl had been in Pattaya by how well she spoke English.

If she could barely say "Hansum man" and "love you too mut" then she was probably under a week.

If she could say "no like Thai man - only like farang" and "not like young man, like old man" then she'd probably been there for a couple weeks.

If she could say "I never work bar before, only start today" and "I not have boyfriend, not have husband, not have baby, only have you teerak but momma have accident and need money for doctor and if you not give me I have to go back to bar and sell pussy" then she's probably been there for at least a couple of months.

The problem a lot of guys have is, their first trip to Thailand is like nothing else they've ever experienced. The weather - the sights - the smells - the food - the girls - it can be overwhelming, especially if you are acting like the typical "2 week millionaire" (which it sounds like you were doing). 

It all goes to their head (literally) and their brain goes into the dumpster. 

When I first started working in Afghanistan back in 2003, we had a firefighter working for the company that was the kind of guy girls swooned over. Like something straight out of a Chippendale's calendar. He took a 10 day trip to Phuket, first time ever in Thailand.
Long story short - he fell in love with the 3rd girl he hooked up with. Quit his job, went to Thailand to marry his sweetheart and start a business. Found out it is easier said than done. Went broke, his wife dumped him and found a new man (literally within days). He ended up doing odd jobs, working "under the table" to try and make enough to get home.

Plenty of people have lost their heads after their first trip to Thailand. I even had to caution my dear old dad after his first trip here. Was here just over 2 weeks and was already making plans to move here. I had to tell him that living here was a lot different than "holidaying" here. I also had to caution him about the women. He was a short, pudgy old guy (75) and when I took him to a friend's go-go bar, he had all the women all over him.
He first "girlfriend" was about 35. He dumped her when he realized she had 2 or 3 other foreign boyfriends on the go at the same time. His next girlfriend was 33. She took him to the cleaners (financially) but at least she stayed with him until the end. (Well duh - she was ripping him off for 20,000 a day - she was some pissed when I put a stop to that and was able to convince dad to get me to give back his bankbook and ATM card - so she could keep ripping him off !)
But of course - she "loved him too much" ! So much so that even though she made close to 1,000,000 off of him she was pissed that she didn't get more (and it turns out she gave most of it to her boyfriend who blew it all of course and she was back working in a bar within a year).

But always remember the cardinal rule in Thailand - "My Girl Is Different". As long as you can remember that you will be fine.

Or not.

Oh, and also remember another rule - "Never be worth more dead than you are alive".

 

And another rule - don't brag on a Visa forum about how you are a tourist in Thailand but working "online". 

And always remember - "if you want to make a small fortune in Thailand, start with a large one" !

And if you are old and broke, never bend over the balcony of a high-rise apartment or condo. The older you are (and the broker you are) increases the chances that you may "fall" over the railing. 

And remember, if you buy ANYTHING in "her" name - it's hers. Period. Doesn't matter if it's a car, a condo or a beer bar. Doesn't matter if you've just put your entire fortune into it. It's hers and if she kicks you out 5 minutes later and sells everything - tough luck for you.

And seriously - think about it. When I'm with a girl (long time) it's not like at 5 pm every Friday I'm going "OK honey, here's 5,000 for all the sex and companionship you gave me over the last week".

But if she tells me she needs 500 baht to go to the hair salon I might give her 2,000. What she does with the rest is up to her. When she asked me for money to go to Bangkok with her cousin to attend a "Bon Cafe" franchise meeting, I gave her 5,000. She probably spent 2 and kept the rest. When she said she wanted to go eat noodles with her girlfriend I gave her a thousand. However, if we went somewhere (say to a restaurant) and I gave her a couple thousand to cover the bill, she'd make sure I got all the change back (and then look away when I gave the tip). She's done the same thing other times where I've given her money to pay for something and she's brought back the change (big and small). It's kind of like she knows "this" money is meant for her and "that" money is "ours". 
So I'm not "paying her for sex" but she is still making a whack more than if she was working in a 7-11 (or a hotel). 

Then again, if you really are working online and doing so well that you are drinking a bottle of vodka every night then it's likely that you'll be a statistic before too long.

 

Tell us - do you perchance have (Travel) Medical Insurance ? The kind that covers you in foreign countries ? The kind that covers you if you have an accident on a scooter/motorcycle ? 

Nice little rant. I read the first sentence and guess what....I'm not paying for "it".

1 hour ago, fitfalang said:

 

And yet here you are telling others to mind their own business, whilst sticking your own nose into mine? 

 

You sound like a bitter old man, jealous of younger guys getting hot and successful girls. Keep the buffaloes fed!

Well, yes. You posted this on the forum for people to comment and my comment to you is that you lack any fundamental class whatsoever. Instead of proving me wrong, your reply just confirms this. Newsflash.... I am not old and I have experience dating a wealthy Thai woman in Canada. I know for a fact that no "wealthy" Thai woman would ask some farang mug for an opinion about her career choices while you letting everyone know the size of her tits in the OP. If in doubt, I can ask my wife's (billionaire, brag, brag) female friend and see what she says.

Like I said, I am sure your "wealthy girlfriend" would be thrilled by your fake concern and genuine boasting. ROFL

33 minutes ago, fitfalang said:

You must be really bored to come up with this helpful answer? Perhaps, because my opinion matters for helping her make choice. She specifically has asked for my opinion to help her choose. Before I can form my own opinion, I need to hear some experiences as I have zero knowledge of the army here. Isn't that kind of what forums are for? Why would she see this thread, it's an anonymous forum and I haven't posted any personal details...

 

Yes, you sound like a real hero. I am sure a "wealthy" girl asked you for an opinion regarding her career choices. As if her own family can't give her a better advice than some clueless Westerner and equally clueless forum posters. She would also be thrilled about you describing her tits in the opening post. You do come extremely loso which is surprising as girls from wealthy Thai families can smell a stinker miles away.

Your whole post is just an embarrassment and it does come out like you are literally screaming "look I found a hot girl who's going to be paid 100k baht a month".

Mind your own business, ROFL. 

42 minutes ago, mugaly said:

do you also have small hands?

No, but I have a small penis. 

5 hours ago, inThailand said:

Any neither does being unnoticed and poor. I rather be the first than the latter. 

Well, you are leaving your important footprint on internet forums.

1 minute ago, crazygreg44 said:

 

at a price of 600-1000 Baht for a pair of shoes it is worth a try.  He can still make somebody else happy if he is not satisfied with the shoes

I guess....

7 hours ago, greytonlarken said:

 

There is a difference - at least to me, or in my head as you say - between paying a woman and paying for a woman. She's only staying with you if you pay her cash? Isn't that practically you using her as a service? 

Who? Me? Or in general speak?  

To me, the one red flag in this whole story is employment. Poor or not poor there is no excuse for not having a job and expecting others to pay for everything. If the girl is working and you give her additional help every month be it in cash or "gifts" that's fine. This is me and this is how I would act.  

1 minute ago, Wang Lalker said:

look you dont need to be so oblique when telling us how not hansum you are. just come right out and say it

What does being hunsum have to do with being stupid?

Why is it your business posting about her career choices on a forum? Maybe try not to stick your nose where it doesn't belong. I'm sure if you showed her this thread she'd be thrilled.

2 hours ago, greytonlarken said:

 

I'm glad to hear there are other people that see it this way. I wouldn't pay my girlfriend/wife to stay with me. You must be desperate and unable to get a girlfriend/wife in another way, then sure..

By your own admission you are paying for everything except giving her money. In your head you convinced yourself that if you are not giving her cash, but paying for everything else you are somehow better than the bunch of old farang who give a 10,000 baht monthly allowance while you spend 18,000 baht a month on her buying crap.

Why doesn't she have a job? Is she somehow too good for 7/11?

Why didn't you get a woman with some education and work ethics? Let me help you with that. It's because those women don't spread their legs on the first date.

Good luck....it's going to be a lousy relationship.