georgemandm

All I can say to you Elvis is you are doing the right thing for your wife and your self.

But she gets nothing for the first 2 years from the government all she gets is  medicare card for the first 2 years .

then after the 2 years she has more rights .

yes it cost lots to do her visa but it is worth it for you and her in the long run ,  your life will be a lot better in Australia if you have a home to live in but if you have to pay rent can cost you a lot .

you see lots of man go to thailand and think it is the best thing  since sliced bread , but after selling everything back home and go to thailand   Realize it is not that good and have nothing to go back to in they own country , and are  stack in the land of smiles , not all of them some are very happy in the land of smiles but that is up to them .

if your thai wife is smart and stays in Australia and makes a life there she will not regret it at all .

i know lots of Thais that live in Australia and love the palace.

PS don't listen to the tv members who like to run man like you down because you didn't find thailand to be as good as you think it was going to be , it is your life and up to you and your wife .

Hop it all works out for your family back in Australia , if you need help you are welcome to private message me cheers.

53 minutes ago, overherebc said:

Thai friend of mine has been working in NZ for twenty years. Worked for a fairly big company and bought her own house etc. She had a partner, not husband, for the past 5 years or so and now they are splitting up and she is selling the house. He never paid anything towards the purchase of the house but will get a fair percentage of the sale because NZ see it as the same as a married couple. Works both ways.

Not the same in Australia 

46 minutes ago, 4MyEgo said:

I think he is just covering himself, after all, what one works for and earns, shouldn't be given to a female/partner/wife, just because she came into a marriage with nothing, I have seen too many mates in Oz, going against my advice, because of "LOVE" and not having the "BALLS" to man up to their girlfriends, fiances who then become their wives and take over 50% as soon as they have an off spring, and pay child support on top of that, and be lucky to see the kids if they decide to move back to Thailand.

 

Before I married I had my wife agree to a prenuptial we she signed in front of an independent lawyer, who tried to talk her out of it, but she signed,  now that was 10 years ago and 2 kids later. Under Australian family law she has no right to my assets, having said that, I adore my wife, she is the best chick I have met in my entire life, and I have been around, suffice to say today, she has her castle in Thailand, her new car (her name), I could have put it in mine, but lets just say if things went pear shape she would need a car for the kids to get from A to B, school being a 20 minute drive. She still has her share of the Sin Sot in the bank after 10 years, has purchased 3 parcels of land on top of the house, has planted rubber trees which are ready to be sapped, rice fields, and sugar cane, so in 10 years, not working for anyone, just taking care of me and the kids, while I worked, I think she is in a far better position now than before she met me and she cannot touch my assets under a prenuptial, I call it the balance of power, and as the Australian law weighs towards woman more than it does men, you don't have to be a fool and wear your heart on your sleeve.

 

In my opinion having been around and seen first hand mates losing a lot of money over a moist hole to be blunt, for a couple of years, the cost factor is not feasible, so use your head, get a prenuptial, (don't know much about NZ laws), but if they are like the Australian family law regarding prenuptial's, then do what I have, and put her in your will. I have also made sure my kids have dual passports, against all of mates recommendations in fear of my wife up and going and taking the kids, with my reply being (before I moved here to Thailand), why on earth would I want them to have stress in their lives, mothers are born to raise kids, fathers are there to support and guide them if they have the time (work constraints) and to this day my wife has never complained, only praises me for coming into her life.

 

So I can relate to what the OP was saying, as cruel as it sounded, but at the same time, he should be looking after her so that she has a fall back position should things go south, as I planned for my wife.  

prenuptial not worth the paper they Writing on , i know you are very happy in your life and if it all trues to s??t hop it dose not , but I tell you this if she gets a lawyer who is a c???t in Australia your prenuptial is  useless . 

Not called prenuptial anymore called  Financial agreement now , and your  future wife or partner has to be making at less $35,000 a year at work before you can do  Financial agreement .

20 hours ago, swissmaninthailand said:

Farang land is for women, Thailand is for men.
Try to divorce in farang land, and you will see who get all of your asset!

Just don't get married and then no problems no need to divorce.

43 minutes ago, giddyup said:

 Do you have one scintilla of proof this is going to happen, or is it just another example of your fertile imagination?

It is happening now with some country's 

more like your fertile imagination not me 

8 minutes ago, Don Mega said:

Why do you need to constantly waffle on about Thai ladies and prostitution, we all know your stance on the subject so leave it alone.

 

How do you know within 10 years anyone abroad will not be able able to claim the pension ?

You brought up the this lady thing not me .

just not in to hookers .

the government has no money so by making  The pension stay in Australia the money stays in Australia , it is going happen and the way things aregiing  it will happen very  shortly . 

They are talking about it now and have been trying to do it for many years.

3 minutes ago, Don Mega said:

How do you know the government  will stop it ?

 

The rest of your posts is your typical waffle bashing Thai ladies, am not surprised but atleast you did not call them pieces of shit !!

Read what I said have never called a  normal thai lady a piece of s??? Ok you are make that bs up ok , I said  prostitutes are a piece of s??? Ok . 

The  pension in the  future will not leave Australia for sure . 

Never have I been bushing a normal thai lady you are full of it if you think that .

hookres are just a joke and no good woman .

if you like hookers up to you .

i don't need to get involved with  prostitutes and can pick up a  normal woman and she is not from a thai bar . 

6 minutes ago, Enoon said:

 

I have the balls to say you were wrong george.

 

 

 

 

You are joking I was wrong , did you  attack those two people  if yes then  apologize if not you have no balls 

7 minutes ago, giddyup said:

Unlikely, they would have to stop pensions for all those already receiving them overseas. I can see pensions getting gradually reduced and the pension age increased though. Australia is going to be struggling to support it's aging population.

Yes for sure no money to pay that pension, but they will say , like they do already in some countries the country you live has to give you some of your  pension , like in Greece now . 

I know from the start not to believe the bad lady from the bar , but like always TVF members get on they high  Horse and run people down with out the hole truth.

why not get on here those people and  apologize , to those people, but you see the big mouth ones you know who you are  , don't have the balls to say I was wrong.

12 minutes ago, Don Mega said:

Its a public forum, you make a post anyone can reply to it.

Ok no problem you can and so can I .

i know how it works the  pension system 

ok and the government will stop it from leaving Australia in the next 10 years for sure .

and thai woman get lots from a  Foreign that is why you have a thai like me .

some foreign get suck in by the thai lady and some have a great life .

as long as us as the foreign not get  manipulated into give it all we will be ok .

i not like bar woman at all and not give them the time of day , that is me and you think  different up to you .

8 minutes ago, Don Mega said:

jail = must reside in  Aus for 2 years to claim pension.

 

Are you going to poison yet another thread with your pathetic replies about stuff you have no idea about ?

Go away , I know  exactly what it means .

My reply is not you get it .

1 minute ago, 4MyEgo said:

Your funny NOT, as far as the legislation states, 2 years is the STUPID requirement, perhaps by then you would have left TVF amongst other places 555

It will happen for sure they will stop the  pension leave the country in the next 10 years for sure .

yes very funny,  I have no hop of living full time in the land of  smiles and for leaving TVF no way like seeing them get up set when I tell it how it is .

like it was said , if you have a young wife the australia government see it as she can work to  support you  , why,  well remember  equal opportunities that's why .. 

5 minutes ago, 4MyEgo said:

Good to know, hopefully I get to shifts the assets before I get to that stage, that and if I ever return to have to stay for the 2 year jail time.

Hop by the time you get go to jail for 2 years the government stop it from leaving the country 

Her is my  thoughts .

The  benefits a thai gets from married to 

 A foreign is she gets a much better life , then with  a poor thai man and most thai man are not that well off .

she gets , sometimes a free home ,gold , land , car and a monthly income  which in some  cases be up to 20,000 thai bht a month.

I see more and more now then 8 years ago more thai woman are after foreign man , now with the internet and dating  sites thai woman have more  chance to meet a foreign , years ago it was mostly in thai bars or if the lady was lucky to meet a foreign at work or hotel were she would work .

Just now, Don Mega said:

 

Why do you keep repeating yourself ?

 

 

I am telling you I know what I am talking about ชาวต่างชาติ lean thai chaao-dtàang-châat . 

Just now, malt25 said:

Yes falang George....  I'll have a look for your dimwit reply a bit later. Chores to do now.

Like I say people like you need help get on to the  topic .

6 minutes ago, Don Mega said:

Umm I replied to you change of subject in relation to personal attack.

 

chaao-dtàang-châat is a rice an fish dish aint, rather yummy with a dash of HP sauce and a lump of marmite.

 

 

Lean thai you are very wrong 

4 minutes ago, ResandePohm said:

Enlighten me George. Which country is that?

 I have no  intention of replying to you get back on to the  topic .

4 minutes ago, Don Mega said:

Umm I replied to you change of subject in relation to personal attack.

 

chaao-dtàang-châat is a rice an fish dish aint, rather yummy with a dash of HP sauce.

 

 

Go's to show how much thai you know , not much if you think that's what it is .

try and lean thai and understand thai  culture .

yes people like go on the  attack when you have no idea.

19 minutes ago, malt25 said:

Hey falang George. Go take your meds & have a lie down. Don't want you to burst a valve.

Hope you get better soon.

Cheers.....     farang Mal.

One more who has a problem in his life .

17 minutes ago, ResandePohm said:

Quite so George. So where are you from?

 

From the best country in the world.

9 minutes ago, Don Mega said:

The common denominator is your george, maybe re-think the tone of your replies  and then the attacks will reduce, fair play though atleast you have not called anyone a piece of shit yet, unlike other threads you post in.

You are trying to get of the  subject , stay on it .

like you are now it is about chaao-dtàang-châat ok .

not what I think of thai hookres ok .

3 minutes ago, transam said:

Think you are on a "wind up"......

No just having a say on the  Subject  But lots of tv members start to  attack members who have they say .

38 minutes ago, smotherb said:

My, what a racist statement. You mean you would give me a different response depending upon my country of origin?

How is that racist me ask what country you are from  ridiculous . 

You need to lean more about the world