Based on my past experience with an educated Thai GF (my ex is a micro-biologist) in the middle class-upper middle class, if you focus solely on
this post, you may find your answer….
1. ‘Family obligations’ are often used as an excuse to not being able to work ‘for now’. They often choose to take-on the ‘task’ to gain favor in the family and/or hide other activities.
2. There is probably a reason the sister is not involved, though you will never get a straight answer.
3. Living Off Assets… Big red flag as some educated Thai women will have the opportunity to have a good job, but prefer the freedom of having a BF or Husband or other windfall profit support them.
When the relationship fails or the money is gone…rinse & repeat.
4. Work history: They will have a vague work history often interlaced with a multitude of reasons they left their job or similar.
In the end, while many Thai ladies are very responsible & hardworking, some are very irresponsible and just want to play.
Due to the family background, working the bars or similar is not acceptable so they become serial GF /wives with the only real intention being to live an easy life off the backs of others.
Hopefully, this helps and you can find a way forward that works for you.
Cheers