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mfd101

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  1. 4 hours ago, webfact said:

    The BMA's development plans for the site encompass a 3,060-meter long asphalt walkway and a 420-meter waterside walkway with security barriers, along with significant landscaping works. The plans also include the addition of more lighting, wastewater treatment provisions, and constraints on vehicle access for public safety.

    It's lovely at the moment so let's destroy it by improving it ...

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  2. 1 hour ago, KhunLA said:

    Hard to say, as maybe they were always gay, but the social stigma of being so, in their social circles, forced them to accept a straight relationship, only to realize, they weren't.

     

    Don't think you wake one day and think to yourself, 'I think I'll change teams' 

    Exactly my experience.

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  3. 2 hours ago, onthemoon said:

    I agree with what you want to say, but being gay is not a choice you make. You find out at some stage in your life that you are attracted to guys. That's it. You don't decide that.

    Of course, but this is about the decision to 'come out'.

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  4. We had a house burglary once 2 or 3 years ago (no cameras - since installed). Police were pleasant and helpful, particularly after my b/f made a donation to the social club. They had a fair idea who it was - doing the rounds, yet again - and they turned up with him at our house 3 or 4 days later for a reenactment. Salutes all round at the end, and the English-speaking one gave me his phone no. to call if any problems in future.

     

    Can't complain.

  5. 2 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

    If you weren't having sex with your partner, would they still be in a relationship or would they be just good friends ?

       Isn't having sex the difference between being friends and being in a relationship ?

    Not really much point in being in a relationship if you are both celibate . You would be just friends then 

    Lots of middle-aged and elderly couples might have a different view, I think. Sexual activity tends to diminish in most - but not all - people with age, so sexless marriages are quite common. But they're still more than friends, a couple who sleep together and enjoy a cuddle on a cold winter's night ...

  6. I didn't 'come out' to the world - as opposed to my closest friends (all 'straight') - until I was 62 and had just fallen in love with my Thai Khmer boy to whom I have now been officially 'partnered' for 10 years. Everyone to whom (in Canberra) I announced the glad tidings behaved as though (yawn) they had 'known' since forever. All fine. But they didn't feel the need to talk about it.

     

    When I finally took my boy to Canberra for a few months to meet everyone and to live (we thought permanently), he was overwhelmed by how warm everyone was. And everyone wanted to meet him. Middle-aged beautifully dressed dowagers at evening gatherings would kiss him on both cheeks. If you could have seen through his darkish skin he would have been blushing as well as giggling ...

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