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little_muppet

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  1. ok here is a Thai view from me. its all about "losing face" ( as she talks to ur current gf)

    that why ur ex try to blame u again after she didint contact u for awhile.

    and please WAKE UP ! stop trusting those internet bride website. for me is hilarious, why somebody so desperate to have a foreign lover if there is no other intentions behind it. relationship it will come ,when it comes. if u chasing after or run after it, it will just look like wat u want it but actually lying to urself.

    honestly ur kind of story i have heard alot. those who is not waking up yet always say " my gf is special, she is different , she isnt like the other girls " lol

    peace:) :jap:

  2. i always buy the bank cheque from them and thats it. they never get my money except from the cheque i brough from them. :lol:

    actually when it was my first time doing the process things myself they tried it on me too, but obviously they realized I can read and understand everything in my application. :jap:

    Next time, don't even give them your cheque business. There's Siam City Bank immediately inside the main entrance, ground floor, right hand side as you come in. They even have the list of visa fees printed and laminated on the counter top. How much 'commission' did the visa shop charge to send someone downstairs to the bank for your cheque?

    well i only paid on how much the fee is for visa . they already have it print out too. didnt have to wait or anything at all.

    anyway i will go to the bank myself than next time . to make ppl happy. hahahaha :jap:

  3. dont worry about it. my dog, Clyde got exactly the same as u said about the limp and the vet ,(he is great dane).... he is now back to normal.

    the cause of it from ur dog might hop or jump and land in the wrong position at the toe or something like that, plus ur dog is big so all her weight put the pressure on her leg that why she is limping. it take time for her to heal . it is impossible for us to stop the big dog putting the body weight on the injure leg.

    hope this help u , dont worry too much :jap:

    sorry about my english :P hope it wont confused u

  4. I can't help you with your decision, no-one can, but what I will ask is have you actually warned her that her temper will force you away before long? Have you asked her if she could manage by herself? Maybe then something will click and she'll think for herself on how to manage her life. If young Thai students in the UK can do it....she can after 4 years. My assumption is that you've babied her and she's lazy to do things herself. If you don't hand information to her on a plate and just tell her how to find out, she might have started being more proactive about daily life in the UK...but at this stage you might want to make sure you set her up with everything she'll need and ask her to do things (like pay some bills, go into the bank, pay by card, renew insurance, search bus timetables etc.) so she gets in practice.

    Country Thai women are ever so gentle on the outside but have hot tempers on the inside. The very "Thai" ones have the face thing about never saying sorry or admitting they're wrong. Most give the silent treatment instead of nagging and spoiling for a fight...but in most women it's short-lived (i.e, they come out of it quickly and return to normal). The more westernised metropolitan and emotionally mature girls CAN say sorry and don't have the temper. A generalisation yes, but one which I've experienced.

    I agree with above. I am Thai . i did have silent treatment before which is bad i admit it . so me and my hubby talked about this,if i have anything and dont like anything just speak out and dont ever let any problem or argument continue to the next day, . just an open talk an thats it no more problem.

    get ur wife sit down and talk to her openly, how long did u know her before married? in ur post u said she doesnt read her own mail which mean she cant read english? maybe she hasnt got confident enough with the language still?

    nothing we can do here just about u and her have to sit down talk u tell her ur decision and see if she will change or not. dont be too soft and when she get mad between the talk ask her why she mad.

    find something else for her to do, another english class? maybe she can make friends from there and start to go out alone without u someday?

    anyway, good luck :) :jap:

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