I can't speak about raising kids or owning property back home, I don’t have either. But I can speak about how possible it is to build something for yourself if you’re willing to put in the time and effort.
I don’t know why so many people here keep talking about how “hard it’ll be for him to find a job.” It’s 2025, ffs. I’ve only worked online since my early 20s (2009-2010), and I was making just as much (if not more) than people commuting to work every day.
Hasn't anyone learned anything from COVID?
In 2016, I knew nothing about online marketing. I enrolled in a course by Google and Harvard and started learning. Then I kept stacking skills, website building, newsletter creation, SEO strategy, digital branding. In 2017, I got my first freelance gigs on platforms like Upwork, and by 2021, I’d launched my own agency.
I’ve been financially stable for a while now, but it didn’t start that way. It took discipline, learning, and persistence. I've definitely had my days of buying mama at 7-11 with stamps.
Let’s be real: you can gain the skills to start something in under a year, and yes, it’s absolutely possible to make $5K/month or more. I'm not exaggerating. I'm being conservative.
The problem is: most people don’t want to put in the effort. They’re stuck with the same outdated logic I see in so many of these comments, “it’ll never work,” “real life doesn’t work like that,” etc.
That mindset? It’s disconnected from the world we live in today.
We’re in the most accessible era EVER when it comes to learning and building. Free tools, knowledge, clients, it’s all online. If you’re not tapping into that, it’s either because you’re lazy, or you’d rather stay in your comfort zone and complain.
And honestly? A lot of people commenting like that are just bitter boomers or uninformed folks clinging to the past.
So if you're reading this and you want something better, stop listening to the noise. Start learning. Take action. It's not easy, but it's absolutely possible.
You either build, or you stay stuck and that choice is entirely up to you.
Best of luck to them.