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"Rent", such matters are better left to professionals. "Own", is an entirely different matter, whose costs, tolls over time, cannot be overestimated, financially, but more importantly, emotionally, psychologicaly. The loneliness, and damage, from a long-term relationship, particularly marriages, particularly with children, betrayal, lies and emotional abandonment are long-lasting and can take years of therapy to help initiate recovery, substance abuse, or the feelings of obligations. Add to that a visa tied to the marriage. Property ownership,, etc. Creates a perceived unsolvable, existential crisis. Renting, on the other hand, with a growing feeling of attachment, that begins to fail, can be ended, followed by a short term feeling of sadness, tallying losses, a return to independence, renewed joy, a return to self-security change and moving on. Such matters are most definitely, preferably, left to professionals. LTR "ownership" should not be precluded, but very carefully considered, never the default choice, nor even aspirational. It should definitely involve consultation with a qualified lawyer and therapist, and not be some "morning after", "what the hell did I do?", "what the hell was I even thinking? ", conundrum, or nightmarish, quagmire with no chance of happy resolution. Such matters can become life-ending rather than life reaffirming. Perhaps "rent-to-own" is somewhere in the middle. Still, again, it cannot be overstated, test-drive, or lease, but choose a professional, the up-front costs are minimal. Both parties get something they need, it's an exchange for value, an you can always walk away, with both sence of self and securely intact, with head held high
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Trump Declares Victory and Promises a "Golden Age" for America
Cat Boy replied to Social Media's topic in World News
Quoting Sky News is like a paid advertisement from the Trump campaign. It has NOT been officially confirmed that Trump won the popular vote, some states are still counting. Trump won more votes than he did in 2020, but not necessary more than Harris in this election, 2024. Kindly at least try to reflect objectivity, please! -
Perhaps there should be an excise tax, payable annually with registration fees, to provide medical assistance and life insurance for victims of drivers of high-end luxury and so-called Super-cars, since they almost universally seem to be both terrible driver's and oft times infirmed by drugs and drink
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Dancers at Police Station Spark Outrage Among Netizens
Cat Boy replied to webfact's topic in Bangkok News
I'm outraged there is outrage. How is anyone, okay, admittedly fragile "Netizen" snowflakes, so easily outraged about everything and anything? -
Newborn Found in Trash Bag, Mother Confesses to Dumping Body
Cat Boy replied to Georgealbert's topic in Bangkok News
The baby was still-born, read: dead upon birth. No one killed the baby. It was already dead. Dumbfounded about what exactly? The mother did nothing wrong (legally) and should not have been arrested -
Pattaya Official Seeks Justice in Sea Urination Row
Cat Boy replied to snoop1130's topic in Pattaya News
Storm in a tea cup -
Virgin Active. 5 or 6 locations in BK. Swimming pool. Great gym. staff and instructors. Originally I belonged to CalWow beginning in '05, now long-since bankrupt. Then True Fitness, likewise bankrupt. Virgin Active is well funded and best equipped, I've been a member since '15.
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Thai Govt Disputes Claims of Deserted Tourist Spots
Cat Boy replied to webfact's topic in Hua Hin and Cha-Am News
I foresee a defamation lawsuit brewing -
Pattaya Residents Unite to Defend Dignity Against "Sin City" Media Reports
Cat Boy replied to webfact's topic in Pattaya News
Las Vegas has thrived and prospered for many decades having been long labeled as "Sin City", why would Pattaya be any different. Civic pride is a good thing, unfounded puritanical backlash isn't, yet it keeps popping up under both military dictatorship and elected governments to foster votes. Move Forward has the right idea, actually legalize and regulate health and work standards for sex workers as is done in Germany for better living standards for those in the industry and the safety of both public and those engaged in sex work and stop this blind hypocrisy between the law and real life. -
I prefer to do it myself - thanks
Cat Boy replied to Querentino_Spaghettino's topic in ASEAN NOW Community Pub
"I used to jog, but the ice kept falling out of my glass" - David Lee Roth -
Actually, I read his comment as written by an American, where denial of coverage is automatic, lengthy delays to see specialist are routine, healthcare is completely unavailable for many, and choosing between death and bankruptcy for a surviving spouse is commonplace.
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Cannabis crackdown: Only marijuana buds return to the blacklist
Cat Boy replied to webfact's topic in Thailand News
Yes, the beginning of the backpedaling. In the end, nothing will be banned or returned to the blacklist, and in a few days time open, incredulous denials will commence that it was ever even considered. TIT -
DOJ Seeks 40-Year Sentence for Pelosi's Husband's Attacker
Cat Boy replied to Social Media's topic in World News
“Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities.” ― Voltaire -
Just empty words, there is far too much money invested and yet to be made from the cannabis trade both domestically and from tourism for any minority-lead, military-ajunct, coalition to pass such a self-destructive prohibition. Chang Mai frequently has the worst air quality in the world, household debt in Thailand has skyrocketed, education and English proficiency are a shambles, and yet, now is time to kill off a cash cow like cannabis? Reminds me of politics as usual in a few other disfunctional failed democracies I can think of, looking at you UK & USA
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Thailand Plans Year-End Ban on Recreational Cannabis
Cat Boy replied to webfact's topic in Thailand News
2.5 PM pollution effects everyone, whereas even in this Health Ministerial fantasy world affects Thai children who partake (groundless and unsubstantiated as that is). However, since none of us were born yesterday, it's no secret that neither one will be seriously addressed, and the more frequent the public announcements, the less likely anyone will even raise an eyebrow. -
Controversy erupts as Thai doctors clash over mRNA vaccine effect
Cat Boy replied to snoop1130's topic in Thailand News
John Campbell has long noted excess deaths that are not attributed to Covid-19 and recently noted these white blood clots post mortem but he has NOT attributed the former with the later. Those excess deaths remain unexplained, while this Thai doctor's assertion of a relationship with mRNA vaccines is unsupported and unattributable to John Campbell. -
Personal Recommendations for Therapists in Bangkok
Cat Boy replied to garet's topic in Health and Medicine
From personal experience, I'd recommend : Don Knox MBACP Snr. Accred Bangkok Counselling Service, Ltd https://www.bangkokcounsellingservice.com/ Services offered in English as well as Thai language, individual and group, in-person and online Conveniently located off Sathorn in Central Bangkok nearby BTS and BRT