anon789561

7 minutes ago, DonnyT said:

Alternatively

He burns the house in a rage, the Thai relatives catch him in the act and hang him.

Native English ........... my Thai wife could write an 'English' suicide note more convincing than that one.

 

so if his wife wrote the suicide note you think she'd write that she stole everything? the guy killed himself

i use it regularly when in BKK usually from NIDA to tonglor. always been pretty impressed with the boat operators skills. so much better than most car driving skills here. apart from that smelly, noisy, hot and dangerous but faster than going through traffic and seriously cheap

34 minutes ago, ubonjoe said:

You extend your permit to stay not your visa. After you enter the country you visas validity means nothing.

You can extend any of the 90 day entries from your visa within the last 30 days of it including the last one.

 

yes, i meant 90 days sorry, cheers

2 minutes ago, ubonjoe said:

You extend your permit to stay not your visa. After you enter the country you visas validity means nothing.

You can extend any of the 90 day entries from your visa within the last 30 days of it including the last one.

 

ok understood. thanks UJ

"Eight other foreigners were arrested on other criminal charges –four Vietnamese, two Myanmarians, one Indian, and one Briton"

i assume these others were for not having a WP. Interesting they are targeting the schools now

hi there

i'm going to go to vietnam for songkran and will return and get 60 days on my current non o which would use it up

as i won't be out of the country as much in the next year can i do a year extension at immo, i meet the requirements but it would be after the enter before date of the non O or should i do the extension before i go?

thanks

police come, police come 555. shut up. they ain't coming

15 minutes ago, ajarnmarc said:

Thank you...I will certainly give them a call, this mans situation has opened my eyes, 

as have the rest of you with your constructive feedback.

I truly appreciate all the responses, though I wasn't the OP, 

and thankfully this story wasn't about me directly.

RIP Mathew...respects

you call them ok please. if you need to inbox me. i'm no expert but really. my door is open. it's open for you

3 minutes ago, Rob Harrison said:

Really, hung himself and put handcuffs on!!! 

no. put them on before mate

3 minutes ago, taharkin said:

Why is nobody wondering about hanging himself with his arms handcuffed behind his back? Isn't that suspicious? 

no

what is it with you new posters read the thread. that's exactly how you'd do it, if you thought it through beforehand

3 minutes ago, Andrew Dwyer said:

30 years ago a colleague of mine committed suicide in his car with a hose from the exhaust. He was in his early 20’s .
His name, Matt White !!
We ( his colleagues ) never did discover the reason he did it.

Seeing this has brought all the sadness back . Another wasted young life !

RIP Matthew and my condolences to family and friends.

close friend of mine did it too. made me feel guilty living here as had i'd been there i am sure i could've prevented it

18 minutes ago, cat handler said:

A bit sus having his hands handcuffed behind his back, that’s very hard to do. Also dumb, surely you would also take a few of her family members with you so that the stealing wife doesn’t end up partying on your grave.

do you know handcuffs? buy some. very easy to get here. then test on yourself. maybe he was a nice guy and didn't want to take any of her family out as you so eloquently put it

3 minutes ago, cat handler said:

 

Perhaps you can explain to us what advantage does having your hands handcuffed behind your back have when you hang yourself? 

 

stops you going for the rope around your neck and struggling. would make it quicker

11 minutes ago, ajarnmarc said:

Thank you very much.

I haven't seen the Samaritans line you're referring to, 

but I shall look through the thoughtful messages, 

that each of you took the time to post, 

as that's the least I can do in gratitude for each of yours time, 

as well as try to find out what options I have in this situation.

I must admit I do believe that if I stay anywhere near by, 

this lady will continue to make life as difficult as she can for me, 

and I doubt when the truck I will have to rent, is fully loaded, 

with what we have to take with us, that she will willingly allow us to pull away, 

without major issues...when I refer to us, I have to consider our children as well, 

as she has threaten multiple times to kill each of them,

claiming that she brought them into this world, 

so she has the right to take them out of it as well.

 

My response is that though we may have brought them into this world, 

it is God that blessed us with the magic of birth, 

and their great health,

so therefore it is only God who can decide how long they live in this World...

 

A decision which is for neither of us to decide,

yet we must provide for them as best we can.

 

She has all but broken my sons spirit with her daily rants, 

where he is constantly stating he's sorry for something.

 

I'm fortunate enough to be around and remind him that everyone might make mistakes, 

but it's the ones that are strong and honorable to admit to those mistakes, 

which make them a better person, therefore he needn't be sorry for everything, 

which his mother doesn't like.

She is simply troubled by the increasing pressures of the 

ever growing debt which she has placed upon this family,

through all her ill decisions since 2015.

 

She briefly felt that now that I became aware of the situation,

that she would be able to place the responsibility onto me,

to sort out, but I've been clear that I had nothing to do with it, 

and it was all for nothing really, as we always had work to support our life styles, 

hers just somehow grew beyond our income.

 

I have yet to find out why that became the case, 

since I believe this is a gambling / drug free house, 

so I therefore can't seem to figure out where all these funds were spent, 

though I have tried to understand, as I continue to process all that has happened;

Since I discovered this financial situation in October of 2017.

Believe me, it's been a grueling 6 months,

as I try to make something to go forward with nothing.

Our business is still running, though barely, 

it's just not enough to keep up with the bills she's made on her own, 

and these bills are tied unfortunately to our transportation.

I'm willing to let all that go, just for peace of mind, 

and safety for our children, it's just what protection,

and rights do I truly have within the Kingdom as it relates to our Children?

 

Last night she actually attacked our son,

and the result of me defending him, 

resulted in her visiting the hospital briefly.

Fortunately she only left marks on me,

which were visible, 

as I only pushed her off of him, 

and away from him, but somehow she tried to play she'd been injured.

She herself only knows how she felt inside,

and though it sadden me to have to be put in a position to defend what is supposed to be so valued within our family.

As the saying goes... things only get worse before they get better.

I can only hope it gets better before her or I make a serious mistake.

 

 

 

just took the time to read all that, sorry mate was working. you need to sort that out now. really mate. i'd suggest chatting with the samaritans and getting things off your chest. they'll have contacts regards finance and family for further advice. but you should do it now mate

3 minutes ago, ajarnmarc said:

Thank you very much.

I haven't seen the Samaritans line you're referring to, 

but I shall look through the thoughtful messages, 

that each of you took the time to post, 

as that's the least I can do in gratitude for each of yours time, 

as well as try to find out what options I have in this situation.

I must admit I do believe that if I stay anywhere near by, 

this lady will continue to make life as difficult as she can for me, 

and I doubt when the truck I will have to rent, is fully loaded, 

with what we have to take with us, that she will willingly allow us to pull away, 

without major issues...when I refer to us, I have to consider our children as well, 

as she has threaten multiple times to kill each of them,

claiming that she brought them into this world, 

so she has the right to take them out of it as well.

 

My response is that though we may have brought them into this world, 

it is God that blessed us with the magic of birth, 

and their great health,

so therefore it is only God who can decide how long they live in this World...

 

A decision which is for neither of us to decide,

yet we must provide for them as best we can.

 

She has all but broken my sons spirit with her daily rants, 

where he is constantly stating he's sorry for something.

 

I'm fortunate enough to be around and remind him that everyone might make mistakes, 

but it's the ones that are strong and honorable to admit to those mistakes, 

which make them a better person, therefore he needn't be sorry for everything, 

which his mother doesn't like.

She is simply troubled by the increasing pressures of the 

ever growing debt which she has placed upon this family,

through all her ill decisions since 2015.

 

She briefly felt that now that I became aware of the situation,

that she would be able to place the responsibility onto me,

to sort out, but I've been clear that I had nothing to do with it, 

and it was all for nothing really, as we always had work to support our life styles, 

hers just somehow grew beyond our income.

 

I have yet to find out why that became the case, 

since I believe this is a gambling / drug free house, 

so I therefore can't seem to figure out where all these funds were spent, 

though I have tried to understand, as I continue to process all that has happened;

Since I discovered this financial situation in October of 2017.

Believe me, it's been a grueling 6 months,

as I try to make something to go forward with nothing.

Our business is still running, though barely, 

it's just not enough to keep up with the bills she's made on her own, 

and these bills are tied unfortunately to our transportation.

I'm willing to let all that go, just for peace of mind, 

and safety for our children, it's just what protection,

and rights do I truly have within the Kingdom as it relates to our Children?

 

Last night she actually attacked our son,

and the result of me defending him, 

resulted in her visiting the hospital briefly.

Fortunately she only left marks on me,

which were visible, 

as I only pushed her off of him, 

and away from him, but somehow she tried to play she'd been injured.

She herself only knows how she felt inside,

and though it sadden me to have to be put in a position to defend what is supposed to be so valued within our family.

As the saying goes... things only get worse before they get better.

I can only hope it gets better before her or I make a serious mistake.

 

 

 

The charity Samaritans is available around the clock for people who want to talk. 

If you or anyone you know is in need of mental health services, please contact the Samaritans of Thailand at their 24-hour hotline 02-713-6791 (English), 02713-6793 (Thai) or Thai Mental Health Hotline at 1323 (Thai).

http://www.samaritansthai.com/news/samaritans-of-thailand-english-hotline/

Just now, AGLV0121 said:

 

Not sure

ok. if you had a plan as this guy unfortunately did. would you hang yourself knowing you could pull at the rope or whatever around your neck or would you make it quicker by cuffing yourself ensuring you go quicker. i would do exactly as this guy did.

2 minutes ago, AGLV0121 said:

 

Yes, so I am not the only one who noticed.

 

Does it make sense to climb a water tank, tie a rope onto one's neck, then handcuff oneself before jumping?

 

Why handcuff? Not to have the temptation to untie yourself? (if possible to untie oneself)

you answered your question

can't fight against it. quicker

2 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

You obviously have no clue or experience in this area.

I have a lot.

Sorry for the graphic detials.

Stand on an object or chair above the ground.

Put a rope or similar object attached to the ceiling around your neck.

Handcuffing yourself is so easy not even a question.

Kick the object you are standing on and choke yourself to death.

Again sorry, but many people kill themselves in this manner very common.

 

thats basically it right there. so sad 

1 minute ago, Jim walker said:

The Sun you must be joking if its printed in the sun its a lie 

it's the best selling paper in the uk. how else can they keep up on jordans and other Z celebs life. take that back 555

5 minutes ago, heroKK said:

Best advice so far, it is the reason why I dont date any Thai women who speaks good English any more, huge attitude & behavior difference with non-speakers.

guessing you don't speak thai. do you mime with them. so a thai who speaks english, ahh forget it. ridiculous

1 minute ago, smew said:

Sad, very sad, 40’s is young as he was and could’ve begun all over again. Yes, these women here are merciless and their families demand and demand without an end. RIP

rubbish

2 minutes ago, gerritkaew said:

Just 40 and and hanging youself, handcuffs on your back? Family from Harry Houdini??

think about it. it's easy to cuff yourself. so then hang and you won't struggle at the neck to prolong it. the guy thought it through.