The Theory

6 hours ago, sammieuk1 said:

I need a copy of a woman that never says no if you see one.

Look in Nana

18 minutes ago, BangkokSausage said:

A lot of guys get married for companionship so looks and sex are no longer important.
I know a few guys that have not had sex with their wives in years but still have a strong relationship

Right 

I lived on that wrong side for 8 years and lost lots of chances,  but fortunately one day I woke up and changed my life. 

And I’m in Thailand now. ?

“I just bought a house for a Thai girl and I feel great !“

we we all make mistakes. ??

Don’t count on consul words, but worth to hear what they say. 

If you want to come back to Thailand be prepared for paying the whole rental lease that you broke, then you won’t be surprised. The Britishman did not steal the furnitur, but you had broken your lease. (If she takes it court, you will lose).

How many months did you owe to your landlady ? 

A copy of passport by embassy !!

how the op was robbed ?

No information about that ! Reported? We don’t know, But we know a lot about his medical issues.

A great “good night story” for adults.

Perhaps you got a red one because someone wanted to sell own product for 12000. Since you got the red one in your pp, next treatment could not be better than that. Get rid of the red flag before trying again. 

Good luck

Have you ever tried Chaeng Wattana immigration while you visit Bangkok ?

They shall help you. No result, see a lawyer. 

The driver wants to find out how much he can get cash out of your pocket for the damage. He will never paint the cat. 

If the damage is really small, he won’t take it to police anyway( in my opinion).

Perhaps he will call you with some estimate idea. To avoid trouble, you either pay the estimate or if it sounds too much refuse it and counter offer it. 

Get some kind of receipt if you pay him in cash. 

If this pcycho knows that where you work then you are screwed. 

Just quit and forget about your current job. You have no choice but leaving the country for sometime. Then come back and start fresh. 

Unless you want to take shit for some more years, if you survive. 

And perhaps you need to leave some of your properties behind since your life is important than what you got in your room or house

Asia is a hiding place for that kind. He is not the only one in Thailand.

Just keep yourself away, if you are not the one yourself. 

“Odd. I have three accounts here and had no problem opening any of them.”

opening bank accounts for a retired for extension of stay is no problem. What immigration don’t like much is under 50 of age who want to stay in Thailand by getting married to Thai without any solid proof of income.

They offer Elite visa for those who show-off their money. Get one if you really have money that you claim. Otherwise come back when you turn to 50. 

A “Prince” ? must be involve with this case. Many  “Prince” recently get arrested everyday in Thailand.

Report the whole story to police before she become a partner in an illegal act. 

7 hours ago, Rarebear said:

My ac is cleaned every 6 months and I use filtrete.  Why should I stay away from AC?  Where can you buy refrigerated eggs in Thailand?  I eat two oranges daily and walk in the sun why would I need Vit C and D?

It’s not about filtering air, it is about direct cold blow to your body. 

Buying from well known markets is different than buying food with eggs from street vendors. Some vendors even keep eggs under sunlight. 

And being exposed to sun does not mean that your body generates Vit D. 

Anyway

keep it the way you think is right and forget about my suggestions. 

Keep yourself away direct AC,

dont eat uncooked street-food,

no food by none-refrigerated eggs in hot season,

1000 Vit C. everyday,  +D

you will see the difference.

Then I guess we are very lucky living in Bangkok. No TM30 needed if we don’t change our (retired extension) address. 

Money more reason that I don’t wish to live in Chiang Mai however I love to do so. 

On 6/2/2018 at 10:36 PM, JBBKK said:

they said I should apply for another visa outside, preferably an Non-imm 'O' or maybe even a 60 day tourist visa (anything except the 30 day visa waiver, they really seem to dislike that). 

Even though they said that, there is no garrantee that you can get back in soon by any other visas. The fact is once you are deported all goes to your record. Most probobly they think you are working illegally. That’s why you shall be reheated next time even with a real visa. 

Perhaps the “old guy” can read your mind. 

Of course good guys always can get in by proper papers, but getting tough for criminals, rapists and child molesters to teach English in schools or hide in Thailand as teachers. 

23 hours ago, Sakeopete said:

How soon before my retirement extension expires can I renew it?

In Bangkok 45 days before the expiration date.

I did it 45 days before. 3 months ago. 

20 hours ago, NancyL said:

you'll see links to documents that list the assisted living facilities near Chiang Mai and their monthly costs. 

Nancy, I could not find any monthly cost in those 3 pages. Either I don’t see well or it’s not there.

In Bangkok streets ! ?

The best way to me is:

just leave her alone and see what will happen next. 

If she comes after you then you will be able to find the truth behind her, perhaps not imidiatly but keep show that you have lost your interest in her. And if she shows no interest then just forget about her and move on, because most probably there is a Thai man behind her.

9 hours ago, Guyindanger said:

what the hell are you talking about??? sacrifice what a lamb??? 

I’m not here to judge your relationship, but you asked for it.

“Sacrifice” in your case means:

when you buy trouble by getting married and at the same time you want to be a single. Then you have to pay the cost of this kind of situation. 

You said: she goes through your phone, 

because your phone is “cute” ??!

Of course she is looking to see who you are chatting with or whatever. 

I don’t know how old you are, but

If you are less than 50 there are many cases like yours. 

If you work with work permit by your marriage, you better accept her as wife or just leave the country. 

Good luck

It seems you already hurt her by being connected to other women while you were married. What do you expect ? 

Always think of consequences before taking an action. 

Perhaps it is time to sacrifice of any kind. 

11 hours ago, milwaukeeboy said:

I don't know if this happens to anyone else, but at customs, they single me out and go through everything in my bags and force me to give passwords to all my electronic devices.

Not me.

perhaps there are some reminder notes about you in immigration computers.