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Mosha

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  1. One we get annually for some Tor Bor 5 land. We AKA my wife bought 25 Rai over 6 years ago. The seller has about 25 Rai nearby. He has told the local Admin (Or bor Tor) we also bought that. So every year we get a letter to pay the rent. It's stupidly cheap. If it happens in 2010 I'm going to tell my wife to make sure it's for his land. Then tell them I'll come back, and leave it. Ther blokes got 10 year old palm on. As my wife as already told them, we would be very happy if that was our land.

  2. Most of my observations in the early days came from neighbours. Dad would stand at the corner of the house, and keep peeping round the corner. Obviously part of increased anxiety. When we as a family decided it was time to alert the local health authorities, was when one day he got lost. He had been to the village post office to collect is pension, then went to do some shopping. At this stage he was about 500yds from home. He left that shop and turned the wrong way, and ended up about a mile from home. He was walking up and down peoples paths, this bloke saw him and asked him what he was looking for. Dad told him that he was lost, but he lived on Smithy "something". The something was Parade, but he could not remember. The knew roughly where dad mean't and brought him back to where dad knew where he was. Some parts of where I lived were not all that pleasant, and the thoughts of dad wandering through them with 120 pound in his wallet was not a pleasant one. One of the things I did almost immediately was get power of attourney, and the rights to collect his pension.

    When he was placed in a home the most stupid question was being asked if it was all right for him to smoke. I just replied. "It's a bit late for him to stop now isn't it?' He was in his early 70s. :)

  3. When dad was mentally fit. He hadn't being physically fit since I was 15 after a massive heart attack and 2 strokes. He used to say he didn't want to end his days where he was incapable of helping himself to life's basics. That's exactly how his life ended. Rather than taking him through the check list, use it for personal observations.

    Some of the things that upset the family at the time, well now we smile at. Like I said dad was the 3rd of his siblings, so after we would compare notes. Before my dad's younger brother died. His daughter cared for him without telling the family what he was suffering. That mainly because another brother referred to people with mental illnesses as nutters. He changed his attitude after his sister died and another brother (my dad) became inflicted with that curse.

    As SBK says, your dad can't help it. How he is, is part of the illness. If your wife doesn't understand Alzheimers the Thai name is rôhk an-sai-mer.

    I have just found this, it might help.

    Alzheimer's and Related Disorders Association of Thailand

    114 Pinakorn 4

    Boramratchachunee Road

    Talingchan

    Bangkok 10170

    Thailand

    Tel: +66 2 880 8542/7539

    Fax: +66 2 880 7244

    Web: www.azthai.org

  4. My dad had Alzheimers, I lived with him through the early stages, but holding a job down made that arrangement impossible as he got worse. He never forgot his own kids but spouses were another matter. He was never really nasty with anyone, and that I suppose was his nature shining through. We used to have meetings with his social worker and doctors. We were told he was having ministrokes, and his deteriating would be like watching someone descending a flight of stairs. That was wrong, it was like someone taking an almighty leap of the top step and landing at the bottom of the stairs.

    In the early days it is like an eccentricity, as it got worse he became a danger to himself and to me. Turning the gas on without lighting it was the last straw, along with deficating in his bed 2x in one night. I must admit I was at my lowest ebb that night, and would cheerfully have driven my self into the Yorkshite Pennines with a length of hose to stick in the car exhaust. If it is Alzheimers his brain will eventually get to a stage where it can't control his basic functions. I was the last to see dad alive from the family, I think he knew he was dying. I believe that people in dad's position are given a last few hours of lucidity to clear things up with family etc. He was fighting for every btreath, and his last words to me were "Help me Stephen". I was in a position where I could do nothing except weep. I was working next day, so I gave the nursing home my number and to call me if anything haapened. As I walked into the plant office the phone was ringing. We had 2 ring tones, on site, and one off site. It was the latter tone and I knew even though it was not my office that that was the call.

    My Eldest brothers Mother in Law also had it. She could read a daily newspaper several times a day, and each time was like she had just picked it up for the 1st time. They say it is not herditary, well dad was the 3rd in his immediate family. A younger brother and elder sister had it too.

    One symptom that will tell you is, if he crosses from one floor colour to another on a flat surface, and he steps over it like a small barrier is there. Well his doctors told me that all Alzheimer sufferers do that.

    I hope there are support groups for you, but I would not bet on it. :)

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