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  1. 22 minutes ago, ToTheBeach said:

    26th floor.... I would say yes.... rather big swings...

    No worries. Just a little BOOM BOOM action from a few girls on the floor below. A girl has to make a living afterall and these girls are earning their money for sure.

  2. 4 hours ago, Mavideol said:

    I don't like the guy but.....first she said only good friends and no special favors regarding her business dealing with him.... now, couple months later, all of a sudden she's claiming to have a "very special relationship" but nothing about an affair, so exactly what is it.... in my humble opinion she's just looking for "free" publicity

    This sort of thing happens all the time and many times the parties involved are married. Nothing to waste time on. It was a "tit" for "tat" sort of arrangement.

  3. 6 hours ago, Curt1591 said:

    I am retired and have been happily married to a Thai woman, for going on 20 years. We have lived both here and in the States. I didn't come to Thailand in need of anything. I already had everything I needed.

    I think one advantage I have is that I have married into a functional, self sufficient family. My wife's mother, and all my wife's siblings, are successful professionals. 
     

    Congratulations Curt. I'm quite sure many on this board wish they had what you do.

  4. 2 minutes ago, JTXR said:

    To me, the stress doesn't come from rule changes (that's to be expected).  And it doesn't really come even from the cost of living increases represented by rule changes.  It comes from the long periods of uncertainty about how TI will interpret the many rule changes and the inability to plan amid the uncertainty.

    Amen to that!!

  5. 4 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

    I was very angry about a lying Thai woman and her thieving family. Since I left her and her horrid family I'm happy enough now.

    Didn't have to relocate to divorce her.

    Good. I'm glad you got away from an ugly situation. Life is too short.

  6. 2 minutes ago, Skallywag said:

    you said having a Thai famly offsets the lower cost of living here.....then you said many are leaving the country for good reason.  Just asking if you meant that "leaving the country for good reason" meant walking away from supporting a Thai family?

    Nope. Never said that or intended it to be interpreted that way. 

  7. 20 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

    Soooooo, you are only a visitor, but you got married to someone from a completely different culture when you feel your culture is meaningless to the person you married, and you have to live your life as if you were not a visitor, but an actual Thai?

    How about marrying a woman that is happy to live with you because she loves you, and not because you support her family?

     

    Respect the culture of people that think because I'm a farang I have to pay her <deleted> family to let her live with me? LOL.

    Tell you what- I'll respect their culture when they respect me and don't treat me like I'm so untrustworthy they have to track me every place I go, and don't bollax me around when I go to extend my visa, so I had to pay an agent to do it.

    My visa said NON immigrant, and they never let me forget it.

     

     

    You seem very angry. Maybe time to relocate.

  8. 7 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

    and then you combine that with the money you have to fork over each month to family if you got married to a Thai

    WRONG. No one HAS to give a satang to the Thai family. It's just dumb guys, IMO, that do so and they have ruined it for sensible people that don't see that they have to support an entire family just because their daughter/ sister/ niece managed to hook a farang with more money than them.

    How many of the farangs that support Thai families would do the same for a western woman's family?

    Well while it's true that you don't HAVE to give a satang the fact of the matter is that a woman puts the king first, her family (mother/father) second and her husband after that. I didn't make the rules or the culture but that's how it works. Happy wife happy life. This is true anywhere in the world.

     

    It's not "dumb" guys but rather those that respect the culture of the land they are visitors in.

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  9. 22 hours ago, sletraveler said:

    Wasn’t aware of 800 in bank eliminating potential for having to have insurance.  Albeit I would want insurance anyway like I have now.   No outpatient.    Just saying if it gets over $400 a month the no cost health insurance in US would make living there more affordable.  

    "By putting 800k in a Thai bank you don't need insurance."

     

    Can you show doc from IM showing this is true?

  10. On 10/25/2019 at 10:26 AM, bwpage3 said:

    I think it is true Thai attitudes are changing.

     

    Many are struggling with crippling financial debt and the sight of farang's spending money probably makes them jealous or even mad.

     

    Thailand is become more expensive due to the currency exchange.

     

    Thai people themselves are seeing in increase in the cost of their daily staples.

     

    Each political shift of the winds brings about some new rules and regulations that do not seem to be aimed at helping foreigners. Just the opposite.

     

    Maybe whereas the Chinese come and spend their money and go home, this is exactly what the Thai govt wants.

     

    Not white males marrying Thai women and educating them against corruption and all the other scams?

     

    Anyone that moved to Thailand and didn't expect it to change over the past 20 to 30 years was just caught up in the excitement and not thinking carefully.

     

    Ask anyone that has been around that long if they thought Thailand would change to the point it is now?

     

    The currency one of the strongest in the world yet they manufacture no world class products or industries???????????

     

    Old age, healthcare and insurance should be a key in retiring anywhere.

     

    And now it seems Thailand has caught on with that idea.

     

    By 2014, after 10+ years, we had enough of Thailand. Even my Thai wife.

     

    I always knew at the time I moved to Thailand, it was NOT the final destination, so I had a plan and the finances to return to the USA.

     

    We landed in Florida which is similar in climate, lots of Thai people, Thai groceries, restaurants, you name it.

     

    Every once in a while I will go to the local Thai Temple here and marvel at the way these elderly Thai women have migrated to the USA and still live completely like they are in Thailand?

     

    Same Thai language, same Thai clothes, same greed and love of money, still trying to gain "Face" by one upping the next Thai.

     

    The temple is used more as a marketplace as Thai's come every weekend to sell food, or whatever they can to make money and rip each other and all the customers off. 

     

    Thai Food court in the Temple asks for donations, however, when you show up at the checkout with your bowl of noodles, the cost is US $7.00. Every single item has a fixed price that is more than the local restaurant prices.

     

    You don't see but a few old  farang husbands, just a huge smathering of Thai ladies, behaving exactly as if they were still in Thailand.

     

    So the question arises? What is different from their life in Thailand to here, and why exactly do people want to move to Thailand when they can get close to the same exact eperience here?

     

    So, many single men move to Thailand for the easy women, gogo's etc.

     

    However, and it might be a month or 10 years, you either get married, or get over it.

     

    Then what? Marry an Issan lady and live in a village where you hardly have a clue what anyone is speaking while you putter around your property doing menial tasks?

     

    Worse yet, go teach school because you need the cash?

     

    Thai's that move to the USA are farangs in their own sense. Move here with no education, do not understand how things work in the first world, cannot communicate and even worse, yet find themselves puttering around in their own culture and circles the same exact way as they do in Thailand.

     

    So, for those that are fed up with Thailand and getting old and need insurance?

     

    Fear not, you can have the same exact Thai experience in your home country, letting the govt insurance take care of you.

     

    Then you can putter around the temple getting all the Thai language, food, culture, etc. you will tell yourselves you are missing out on.

     

    You will be surrounded by your wife's Thai friends all speaking their own language and you won't have a clue what is going on?

     

    You can putter around your OWN house that is ACTUALLY in your own name, much like you would be doing in Thailand.

     

    You can probably hand out with some other duffers you meet at the temple and go play bingo or have a beer.

     

    Need a Thai massage? Sure but the happy ending will probably cost you 5 times more. 

     

    You don't need to live in Thailand if you are getting any benefit from it and the old age/medical needs to be addressed on a regular basis.

     

    And?

     

    Just like Thailand, yes, yes and yes, you can find some extremely cheap places to live, if you want to compare your same conditions in Isaan or a one room flat in Bangkok.

     

    Image waking up to everything Thai in your own country with no immigration hassles or VISA runs!

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Well said BW.

  11. On 10/25/2019 at 8:56 PM, Celer et Audax said:


    There is no welfare system in Thailand like you would find in most western countries even for Thai nationals, you can however access the health system and the limited social security system if you have worked here and contributed from your salary each month.
    My company provides health insurance but I could if I chose to use a government hospital at no charge.
    When I retire should I decide to remain in Thailand I will be entitled to the same pension as a Thai national and can also still have access to the government health system by paying the charge which I believe currently is 460baht a month
    Why do people who retire here think they should have access to the Thai welfare system(limited as it is) when they have not contributed?
    Would I for example be allowed to access the welfare system in Australia if I chose to move there when I retire? Would I even be allowed to retire there? Currently I cannot access the NHS in my home country (UK) apart from emergency treatment as I have been non resident for over 20 years
    I do however agree with your comment about it being very difficult to get Thai citizenship
    PR is not so difficult though but you do need to be able to show that you have payed taxes here for 3 years or more I think


    Sent from my iPhone using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app

    "Why do people who retire here think they should have access to the Thai welfare system(limited as it is) when they have not contributed?"

     

    Maybe this is a good question for many from South of the US border who illegally enter to attain the same thing.

  12. On 10/25/2019 at 6:06 PM, Curt1591 said:

    90 day report - pain in the butt, for a day.

    Visa extension - pain in the butt, for one day.

    TM 30 - pain in the butt when traveling international. 

    Foreign funds placed in Thai bank - with the rising baht, a good investment.
     

    Last visit to  CW Immigration, did 90 day, re-entry permit, and verification of residence (for drivers license), in under 2 hours.

    My life has never been less stressful ...

    Two questions....

     

    Do you have a Thai spouse and what is your age? The answers will show us whether or not your life would be so stress free if you aren't in your 50's and don't have a Thai spouse. Many folks are older and single thus they have to play by different rules and have additional concerns. 

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  13. On 10/25/2019 at 2:30 AM, CharlieH said:

    Its a matter of keeping things in perspective. The number of negative nellies, balanced against the number of members, and then compare that to the expat population, its so insignificant in the over all scheme or bigger picture.

     

    Keep it in perspective.????

    I guess that depends Charlie. With the new health care requirements and the fact that health insurance isn't offered to people over 70 is an issue. Those married to a Thai no problem but for others? Maybe some of the folks you mention as being negative nellies are the ones making the most sense.  It's very possible the expat population you mention will continue to decrease over time due to all the new rules thus proving the point(s) of the negative nellies as you call them.

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  14. On 10/25/2019 at 4:21 PM, rumak said:

    oh god ........ you want to hear his story AGAIN ?    

    Rumak - Please be respectful. Not everyone lives on these boards and reads every word of every post made like some (you maybe?). If someone asks a question be respectful of it and let others respond. 

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