CM Dad

It sounds like you have a wonderful wife. Not all Thai women are only after a man's money just like not all women in your home country are not only after a man's money. There are good and bad women and men everywhere. Men need to trust their own judgement regarding their wives. If they don't plan to live on the land then I wouldn't buy it and I would never buy land for someone who was only my girlfriend. My wife and I bought land and built a house on it, which we moved to, two years ago. Everything was done in my wife's name and I had no problems with that as we have been together for almost three decades. We are now in the process of transferring the land ownership deed - chanote - to our son who has just turned 18. We had wanted to put the land in his name from the beginning but he needed to be 18 years old. You only tend to hear horror stories on forums like this, but there are many more successful relationships than bad ones.

That's another reason to learn Thai if you choose to live in Thailand.

Looking at your photo, you would have to pay someone to share your bed.

I agree with Brit Tim. I didn't understand what your original post was about either. In fact, I still am confused about what you are asking. Perhaps you need to write more clearly and maybe even give more information. For example, what kind of service are you requesting at Chiang Mai Immigration? If you are trying to extend your visa then what kind of visa do you currently have? It would appear that you are the one who needs to 'chill'.

Nobody would buy them since they are worthless.

Agents prepare paperwork. They do not appear at immigration offices in place of foreigners. The agents do not help people hide. You posted that you do not use an agent. I believe you since you have no idea what an agent does.

If I am not happy with a hotel, I simply move to another. I do that even if I have already paid for one night.