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Only problem there is I'm not writing garbage but some definitely are. They just don't realize how wrong they are because they're in the game.

That's just it, nothing you have written is important, nor helping in any way. You're attacking me, somehow thinking your side of this argument is right, mainly because you're a john and can justify your behavior somehow.

I asked you to name one. Trust me, you're way outta your league here bud.

Try to understand what I write. Again, I am not judging, as that's Gods deal. My saying something is wrong is based on what I see, and hear, about what happens to a lot of these working girls, where they came from, why they got into the trade, and the lowlifes behind human trafficking and coercion. If you're an adult, surely you know the only way things are changed for the better is by complaining about them, If enough complain, to the right people, things get changed, for one reason or another. I don't like seeing women and children being victims of this trade? Do you? If you do, surely it's you that has some deep issues, maybe related to who taught you the lack of respect for others. Don't tell me what I should or shouldn't do. I answer to only God. If you bothered to read the links I provided you might see what goes on behind the scenes, after you leave your lady of the evening. It's not wine and roses by any means. You seem not to understand the psychological impact this trade puts on people. Saying I have massive issues when I'm only wanting to see women and children safe shows you have absolutely no idea about this problem, nor care because like others, it benefits you.

Trust me, I know all about what evil a woman is capable of, and I also know how good some are. I've been with both types. Some I dated I would have loved to stay with, but they didn't want children or their careers were taking them away, so that ended that. I have made very bad choices in women that hurt not only myself, but the children we made. I got custody because I was the only parent these children had, but the relationship brought these kids into the world, so it still had some success.

I had many relationships that ended. They aren't failures if, like savethefrogs alluded to, two grew apart because their futures didn't coincide. I'm not here telling anyone what to do. I'm saying what I think is wrong behavior. People will do anything they want and justify their actions for a number of reasons, whether its bad or good behavior, and it has nothing to do with what I think. I'm actually right on in my thinking. Yours just happens to be wrong. I, again, am not judging. I'm telling it like it is. This trade hurts most of those involved in it, and some lose their lives. This doesn't make it good just because it's the world's oldest profession. There are many things accepted in life that hurt others. I'm single because I'm still waiting for the right one to marry, which is something I want to happen again. I'm only bored with Thailand because I can't enjoy my hobbies out here in Isaan. I'm not bored with life. I have a good girlfriend i didn't pay for, so I'm happy with her. This adds up to not being lonely, but it seems you're one of the many adults that have to assume to bolster your ego, thinking they are somehow superior to me. Trust me, you aren't. A person that has to buy women has the issues. Everyone has some issues, including you, so get off it. And I can give advice about some things because I have knowledge in them, just as all others do in their lives. My wanting women and children safe is what any normal man should want. If you think this trade is a safe one, it's you that's very very far off base.

Name one, seeing there are dozens.

The normal ones know normal, and are on my side. The ones that think this trade is normal, and what they are doing is okay, won't. Birds of a feather. In all my life, the only people I can't relate to , or vice-versa, have been very disturbed individuals, narcissists and those who intentionally hurt others, so which group are you in? It doesn't matter how many would vote, as the answer is the same. Mentally ill people cannot relate to normal, moral thinkers, because they are, not normal. Take time, look through all my posts. You'll see that I'm usually here to help others in topics I know something about, or I'm defending women or children, or telling it like it is living here, as many others also do. I'm not a troll, narcissist, racist, prejudiced or trying to hurt anyone.

Something which has gone over the heads of some here that only know paying. Nothing wrong with multiple relationships until you find the one that you'll want to stay with the rest of your life. Casual sex happens because we are human animals with an attraction to others of the opposite gender, or some with the same. It's very hard to date a person for years without sex happening, although it's still probably the best choice, as taking time to get to know the other person is always better, and sex clouds judgement. Been there, as most have. Having a good relationship with someone for 2 years and having it end, mutually, because your futures didn't align is still a success. You didn't part enemies, you just grew apart. Some choose hookers because they haven't the skills to find a regular woman. Some want to cheat on their partners but still keep them for whatever reasons. Some are older and can't find a younger woman because they haven't enough cash to support her greed. Some go after hookers to control or dominate them, and think paying for them allows them this behavior. And one group is far more sinister and leaves some in a very bad place.

He's referring to paying for sex. This is something I did a couple of times before I turned 19. It wasn't, or isn't, about my skills. It's about having both people on the same page for that long term relationship. Most relationships fail, as divorce rates can attest, and many more stay in relationships where they are abused, neglected or because they fear finance loss. I know full well how to support, love, protect and care for a woman. The ones I married didn't have any idea what makes a relationship work but only learned how to use or hurt, this from their parents. Again, it takes two, with like interests, at least some, future alike plans, realistic expectations, knowing what loyalty means, and how to communicate. If one does it all, and the other doesn't, it doesn't work, or it will be very hard to maintain. Being an adult, you already should know these things, and not need to comment on others relationships because you would understand how hard maintaining a relationship is. That it takes two. Yes, you assumed, and it wasn't right.

I've met thousands, and talked to many, but why would I want to meet those involved in this trade? I like a woman that has self esteem, isn't forced or coerced into sleeping with multiple men for money, or isn't doing it because she had such a hurtful childhood that's what is normal to her. I feel sorry for them, because what's obvious to me is lost to you. These are victims of men, who are still being victims of men, and you seem to think because they are getting money for this that somehow they are happy or proud of what they do.Because you're involved in it, you think it's normal behavior paying for sex. It isn't. There are other ways to get a girl for casual sex, unless you don't know how. In Thailand, it's a duty to help take care of your elders, and some are doing this out of a duty, no matter what they have to do to get it done. What's nonsense is those supporting this behavior, thinking it is somehow normal because so many are involved in it. You pay your 1000 baht, get off, then leave, not knowing at all what is going through their minds, how they live or how they feel about themselves, because again, you don't care because you got off. If you bothered to read up on this and see what's really behind all of this trade, the people involved, and how many are hurt permanently and killed, either by others or their own hands, you might not think it's all nonsense, or again, you still might not care. Thinking all of these "books" are BS lets you escape to your life thinking it's okay doing what you're doing, at least I didn't abuse her, rape her or kill her. Fact is, these studies are done by those involved, talking to these women, and seeing what they are going through, and how they can help. The difference between you and I is I have a conscience. You and a few others here will always justify your actions, because your only objective is to get laid, cheap, and not think about what's left behind, just as a player does with regular women. Wash your hands, like Pontius Pilate, now it doesn't affect me any longer. You couldn't be more wrong yourself.

Again, another assuming what someone knows. You ever hear of gossip? You think others here actually look up to those in this trade? Or that anyone actually cares what others do here if it doesn't benefit them.Do you think you can see beyond the smiles of anyone here and know how they really feel inside? Ever wonder why so many commit suicide here? And how many are involved in this trade that are addicted to drugs. I'm guessing you don't really care about these women and what kind of life they are sometimes are forced to live, or think they are. Just as long as you can benefit from it also. I live in the same world that you do, but you're blind about what goes on, and I'm aware. Funny how so many can justify a business where the employees are victims, but hey, at least they can get off cheap without thinking of the consequences of their actions.

You don't seem to be aware that the UK isn't in any way superior to the US, and again, since you're not fully understanding, the US is not a single entity but a conglomeration of all countries in one place. This means that it shares the customs of all countries. Having a standard of measurement that billions use, and are comfortable with, along with also using metric, means it again, adopts things from other countries. A pissing contest doesn't matter to me, because I'm not prejudiced against any other country, meaning we are all equal.

Assuming again

Emotional and mental abuse is also violence.

I'm thinking you're confusing me with someone else. I never would be a coward and call anyone's wife anything. Never have , never will. In fact, I think it's great you take care of your wife that way, because that's how I am also, including what I did for my ex and her family, who still like me and know she did me wrong.I didn't say you envy me neither. That link is a valid one, it doesn't matter if shes a feminist as long as shes trying to point out what the trade is about. There are many other links saying the same things if you care to look. I posted three.

Thank God for that

No, I don't have to prove anything to you. You have free will to decide what you want to do. So do I. This is about prostitution, so keep it on that topic, and read more, talk less, so you can catch up.

My money helps her more than her husband ever did, and in one third the time, along with the fact I don't hit her or try to sell her to one of my friends. Why must some here assume all Thai girls have others in the wings? Insecurity perhaps? Giving a woman makes her a whore? That would mean all husband's wives are whores, along with all girlfriends. Speak for yourself, as you're the one who buys women.

Why calculate if standard works? Who cares who believes in angels? Do you have proof they don't exist? I have faith,and it's all I need. Las Vegas has prostitution because of their laws there, and the amount of money involved with payoffs, and there it will probably stay.

Deer blood, maybe a few hogs, but no human.

Guns other purposes are hunting target shooting and protecting the innocents, and are why you're living in a country no longer controlled by Japan. If you think God wants us to sit back and be slaughtered , you're sadly mistaken. Terrorists and others who kill for whatever reasons the innocents have only one way out. Extermination. Who said sex is bad? It's how we all got here. Making it dirty, demeaning or dangerous isn't normal behavior.

You actually know 50% of the US population personally? Our astronauts, and all other technologies, come from America because it's the most advanced country on earth. We learned standard while you learned metric. Neither is wrong. This is because the US is all countries combined and not a single entity, which some prejudiced thinkers assume/

Answering for everyone again, again assuming more than three are on your side as far as your want of a bought girl. Keep the answers from yourself, as there are quite a few here that think like I do that you aren't hearing from, but they're laughing. Jealous that I have a normal girlfriend i didn't have to purchase shows everyone here you're thinking also.

Probably means you think I probably haven't experienced it, but why? Do you think you're the only one who has been with a tiny girl? I'm from the US, where metric is used by not like standard. Here metric is standard, but I still use American standard.