fredwiggy

Well, if anyone hurt my child, I'd surely make them regret it with extreme prejudice, as all fathers should.

Thinking a child grows up happy here shows you don't realize just what goes on her as a child growing up. Just the fact alone that up to 70% of girls are molested here by the time they are 17 is enough for me to get my daughter the hell out of here as soon as I can. Watch the daily news for one month and you'll see how many wayward boys act, ganging up on others 5 againt one, armed with weapons. I won't even go into the driving dangers kids have here on scooters. Him staying in Sweden with his boy would be the best thing he could do for his future.

You have no idea just how foolish you and a few others here look. There are those who have commented before the same way I have, if you bothered to read the other comments besides mine. I'm not the one who needs to grow up but perhaps you should look at how you were raised to see why you look at women as things to purchase, and it's okay. All I've been making are points that have escaped your narrow thinking, or perhaps you're comprehension? Yes, there are a few here that might agree with you, which is sad to say the least. Research more, comment less, learn more, talk less, think more, listen more, and someday, who knows, you might just get a right thought and put it down here, because you're either very naive, or really do look at women as just chattel.

You're clueless if you think human trafficking is a small amount of this. Maybe I just happen to research topics and you go by what some other's you know have said. maybe this research is studies done by those in the field, and they aren't making opinions based on just their personal experience. Many prostitutes are brought in from other countries and are forced, some by drug addiction, to be slaves. A lot are coerced by their parents to work to send back money home, which is despicable. Most are coming from broken homes or homes where a father was either absent or didn't treat their wives or daughters with love and respect. I know as much about sex as anyone else. I've had a lot of girlfriends and a few wives I've learned from and read a lot more to learn more. The difference in what some there think and I is that I actually look at women as a partner and not an object for my pleasure. Do you actually think you know about sex more because you buy prostitutes? All that shows is that you only look at women as someone for you're own pleasure, and someone who wouldn't look at you unless you had cash in hand. It's people like you that will never look up or research what makes a prostitute tick because you plainly don't give a rats ass. It doesn't take much. Just a few links would do the trick. I'm thinking you have absolutely no clue just what goes on behind the "glamour" of walking streets around the world. Maybe it's you who shouldn't comment because it's you that knows very little about it? Try this one link. Easy to understand...........https://www.mentalhelp.net/blogs/why-do-women-become-prostitutes-and-why-do-men-go-to-them/.

Maybe it's because she has more money than I? But she won't laugh for long, as things you do always come back to haunt you, especially if they aren't quite right.

I don't make opinions. I just see things as they really are. Of course God's in my life, as he should be, but moral thinking isn't because of him but because I was raised to think that way. Some sadly aren't, and think women are only here for their pleasure. They aren't.

And you're basically just a child thinking adult.

Every time you post it shows how much you little you really care about these women and know how they actually live their lives. No ones emotions get harmed? An empath is a person who can put themselves into others shoes and try to feel what they feel. A narcissist doesn't give a sh*t either way. You, and many like you, either really don't care about the women they use, or are totally clueless how they got to where they are, and what's going on in their minds now. They might smile because that's their "job" to please a man but do you really think they are happy what they're doing? Women can love sex as much as a man, and there's nothing wrong with it but this is a totally different ball game entirely. I'm sure many here just don't realize what makes a person a prostitute, nor do they care. But keep on trying to bolster your side of the argument, because it shows me a little more each time just what a woman means to you, along with some others here. The more I hear excuses for that side, the more I see just why this world is in so much trouble. A man is someone who treats everyone around him well. He doesn't use them, abuse them or look at them as objects for his pleasure. A boy sometimes never grows up. This is what a male has to do when he gets older. Make choices that don't hurt others intentionally. There's nothing wrong with two people having sex, as long as one doesn't go home hurting afterwards, or feels ashamed. A conscience is what a man has. A religious psycho? Maybe a man that can't stand seeing women or children hurt instead.

You actually think because many do something that it makes it right? Majority rules but it doesn't mean it's right. How do you know what lifestyle I have from a few words typed? Assuming is done quite often here, and it's not something that works. Having a hooker laugh at me because she opens her legs for money isn't something I'll worry about. There is a higher power many don't think about nor care to believe in, but it's coming, and Karmas a real bitch. You, and others thinking this trade is okay when prostitutes are killed almost daily, and abused much more often, shows your level of thinking. If you have children, is this the attitude you teach them?

I didn't judge you. You're the one who said you don't care about their life. I'm nowhere near confused. Just a moral thinker and believer that women aren't playthings. You're actually comparing other businesses with a woman selling her body to men? That's mentally troubled. People aren't inanimate objects. But maybe to you and others like you they are? The problem is exactly what you said. Most people don't care about who they are dealing with as long as they get what they need from them. And you actually think this is okay, especially when it affects a human being? That's classic narcissist thinking and that's all I need to know. It might be good for you to look up what a narcissist is, but if you are one, you'll never admit it, and therein lies the world's problems.

Actually I'm right on in my thinking, as others who have posted can attest. You and your cronies will always find excuses to buy, and use women, and that is sadly obvious to the men here who look at women as partners.

No one is proud of selling their body over and over to many strangers, period. There again are many more ways to make a living. Who doesn't have a better choice than paying for sex? Any clean, well mannered man who treats women well can find a decent woman. Wanting what you can't have happens to most everyone but maturity makes you deal with that. Actually I'm a lot more in touch with what's real than you'll ever be, because I look at women as equals and not to be used or bought.

You said it........... I don't really care about their life any more than they care about mine. .............You just want a body to get off in and either haven't the nature or skills to find a normal woman so have to resort to paying for one that most likely despises you and probably all men. This kind of thinking again is what's wrong with the world. All about me, no one else matters. Sadly, there are so many like you that the world will only continue to fall.

Sorry to burst your bubble, but it's you and your thinking that's off. There is always a right and a wrong with any two people, if one is a victim. You actually think all hookers are consenting adults? I really think some here don't know what human trafficking and prostitution entails, and are blind to what actually goes on. An addicted girl being sold to a john isn't a consenting adult. Many prostitutes are under aged. Is this consenting or a victim? It amazes me the arguments some use to try and prove their points regarding the trade.

Are there no other jobs available? I feel bad of course for women who are left with children by men who had no place having any. What is the better choice? Just getting by working a low paying job or having more selling your body to men, some of whom might abuse or kill you, or in the very least, expose you to a disease which might alter your and your kids lives? No excuses as there are millions of single moms that don't feel the need to prostitute themselves to make ends meet. Many of these hookers leave their kids at home with grandma anyway, and rarely see them, enjoying the freedom in a tourist town, so again, no excuses. A child does better with a mother at home, working a legit job and not exposing herself or her kids to random men who might do them or her harm. I really don't think many her actually think what they are saying before they post, mainly because they are buyers of women and think it's okay because of course, they get off.

I'm not assuming anything. I'm replying to others posts. They might be lying about everything they post but I'm only reacting to what they write. if it's lies why bother posting them? Your thinking that sex workers and clients are doing a good thing is wrong, and it isn't my opinion. Out of touch with reality with what evil there is in this world might be your shortcoming, as it is with many others who's heads are stuck in the sand. This world is a bad place in many ways because people think bad actions are okay as long as they benefit from them, and not caring what effect it has on their victims.

It has nothing to do with any opinions I would make. Is there something wrong with being a moral thinker, thinking women aren't objects but our equals? Are you saying it's okay to pay a woman to use her body for your pleasure? I'm not even getting into the dangers these women are put through but just the obvious. Just because people do this makes it right? Again, I'm not judging but just saying this is how it is, and how it affects others. It doesn't matter what I think anyway. What matters is if this is a right thing or a wrong thing. Of course people who pay for sex are going to say it's right, and that's the problem. It's all about them and not how it affects the women and men involved. Does it make it right because some people believe its so? Or is it a wrong thing that others think is okay because they like the endgame?

You need to stop assuming how smart other people are. Guessing you know who someone is is just a guess. And it doesn't matter anyway because his replies are right, as was Patong's. And changing your username doesn't make you autistic.

What would men do if prostitution didn't exist? Of course it does but I'm asking. Morality going down , like the breakdown of the family, has caused most of the world's problems. Of course a person can choose to do whatever they like, but those choices always have consequences. Keeping this trade alive is keeping the numbers of beaten, drug addicted and killed women and men who are involved in the trade going. A lot of people who pay for these girls and boys don't see the other side of their lives. The control, abuse, breakdown of the body due to drug use or the ones found in a ditch somewhere because the client was a psychopath. Many serial killers target prostitutes because they have no connections to family, and are soon forgotten. I think many who buy these girls don't understand what's behind the closed doors of their lives. Yes, many get into it from low self esteem and have no pimps and work as bar girls for more money than they would get at a 7-11, but their reputations are shot, and if they have kids? The john doesn't care, because after he gets off, he goes home. No conscience makes the world a hard place. Judging? Not my place but Gods. I just don't like women, nor anyone, to be treated as meat, whether it's in a marriage or a pay for play. A man can always have one girlfriend after another, much the way a player works, and not many see the wrong in it. I'm hardly a prude but I think morally. I went after a couple when I was a teenager, but none afterwards because I always was able to find a girlfriend. Most didn't last, as most relationships do, but I always looked for a relationship. There is a right and a wrong in all facets of life. People who think prostitution is a harmless activity aren't seeing just how wrong it is.

And there are those that stay because they love, respect and enjoy each others company and the bond hey created, which isn't a transaction but a commitment.

One point you're missing I believe is that most of what I, and others have said here, is that prostitution is bad, especially for the women involved, and I posted a link showing why they get into it, and what happens to them when they do, whether it's by force or coercion. I didn't say people who go after prostitutes can't get a regular woman as many are married to good women and feel the need to cheat. Many are bored with their women because they aren't giving her the attention she needs , and punish her by going after a woman they pay for. Like I had mentioned, there is absolutely no reason a man has to go after a prostitute as there are millions of women out there who would love to have a good partner, and would fulfill their needs if they only treated her with the respect she deserves. A man that goes after a prostitute when he's married is plain wrong. A single man who does does so for a number of reasons. Control , seeing many of these working girls are abused or killed, and he feels the need to hurt a woman, maybe because he hated his mother or a wife did him wrong before. Maybe he thinks he can't attract a young girl because he's out of shape or plain looking, and this is the only way he thinks he can get a pretty, younger girl. Not true of course because there are untold numbers of nerdy, plain looking men with pretty wives. Some think they deserve many women because they might be handsome men, but they don't understand no one deserves a good woman unless he's also a good man. A good man doesn't need to go with a prostitute because he will attract a good woman with his good attitude and how he carries himself, and treats others. Again, there are millions of beautiful women out there, so what's the need to pay for sex? There are those who will justify their actions because others do the same as they do, so of course it's okay. I think many don't see the very dark side of prostitution and only the pleasure they get from it. Of course there are many who only pay because of this pleasure and don't intend to hurt the girls and only get off, but the next client may do them harm, or worse. It happens every day all over the world, and many of these girls, and boys, are forced into the trade by disturbed money chasers, and forced to do drugs to control them. Many are coerced by parents because they are sick individuals that only look for the cash they can get. Many are in it because they had a home life without a fathers love. A woman doesn't have to go into this trade because she likes sex. That kind can get laid anytime she wants. It's not normal thinking to sell your body. There are other ways to make a living, and low self esteem gets many into this. The other side is the john, who by paying promotes this trade and keeps it going. Without them there is no one hurt from it because it won't exist. If prostitution didn't exist, what would the men who use it do?

Because he disputes people who are into prostitution and agrees with Patong, like I do, he's autistic? Again you assume you know others, just like you did a few minutes before, thinking my wife left because she was "tired" when It's I who had to divorce her to bring my daughter back where she belongs.

My ex wife stayed because I treated her better than she's ever been treated before or since, and this is why she still wants to come back. It's always better to refrain from commenting unless you know the whole truth of the matter. I've tried explaining this to you before, and again now, but I'm sure you still won't get it, as your thinking doesn't match my logic. All wives will stay if they are treated well, even if the money's not that much, unless they are gold diggers or mentally ill, or suffer from depression, which makes them over think and second guess themselves. And how can you comment when you always pay for your women, in a much different way than I and others who have a relationship do? Yours are transactions, while mine and others are a relationship. Most adults understand the difference.

If you think every one of them is drivel, you surely have seen where he mentioned he's married, and has had experience in these matters before. Again , Patong summed it up pretty well, but there are those that are into this kind of lifestyle, and can justify their actions, no matter how off they might be.

No, try keeping up. She hit me because she was mad at others and kidnapped our daughter four times because she was raised in an abusive and neglected home, which makes one a covert narcissist. This is someone who hates themselves and others because they never knew real love as a child, so they take this anger out on others who happen to be empaths. People they can try to control because they have no control over their emotions and only know hate. Shes been, after me, with two Thai and one foreign man, who she's visiting now. The other Thai men beat her up because she tried this behavior with them. One threatened to kill everyone in her family because of how she is. She wants to come back to me, but I'm not the one who stays with these types long, so I leave. I got tired of her so now you should understand.