The frau works for a large bank that thinks it must transport everyone several times a year to some resort or other outside Bangkok for bonding sessions. These events are normal in the industry and they probably see it as a treat. I am against this practice, not just because it's a stupid management fad, but because it involves being driven in a minibus on highways by unknown persons for several hours each way (these places are usually a bit remote with no alternative transport option).
Mrs D does not understand my objection (being Thai, she is compliant to authority in all things), and it would not be good for her career for her to refuse to go. However, I am dead against her making unnecessary journeys on Thailand's parlous roads, especially in minibuses, especially on the busy highways leading out of Bangkok. Road safety-wise, it would probably be better if I hired a car and drove her out to these places myself. However, I have a heart condition and don't want to be driving unnecessarily.
Must one really put up with these things? I can't be the only one with these objections. Is there any diplomatic solution?