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That is very woke of you. Luckily for me thailand isnt woke.

They talk to each other, see their friends with me etc. You have told us before that the girl you are in a long term relationship was 16 when you met her in a bar. So to answer Dan's question, why did you choose her over the 600,000 other available women in Bangkok who are gainfully employed? When you have a girlfriend with a job they keep working. If you are in a relationship with a prostitute you either end up paying for her to do nothing or do you let her keep working? i think that is the most obvious disadvantage of committing to a prostitute right?

Most people would disagree with you. or their shopping habits, their drug habits, the gambling habits etc Best avoided.

But these blokes put themselves up for it by marrying prostitutes. They are sitting ducks for the slyer bargirls. Then they complain.

East of Sukhumvit Road Pattaya. You find a lot of cheap expat housing there and many mostly often daytime bars there. Drinkers are more the hardcore sexpats versus the East side which is more tourist orientated and more hardened hookers with somewhat faded beauty who offer their services cheaper for the experienced punters who dont want to pay tourist prices.

The good thing about those sites is you can give a clear description of what you want. I put no tattoos, no smokers, no SOCKS, nothing overweight, nothing over 40, no prostitutes etc It isnt full proof but it helps. And write it in Thai so they cant say they didnt understand. I still occassionally get tattooed ladyboy hookers contacting me, but you just learn to sort through the chaff.

I try to get in first and ask them if they can lend me some money.

Not neccessarily, many russians do but most dont, similar to Thai women. I met Dan a couple of times in Pattaya darkside bars back when he was selling advertising for the infamous Niels Colov. Google that name. This was obviously before he met his wife and he was a typical newbie to Thailand enjoying himself in the bars but with plenty of opinions which he still likes sharing with everyone on Facebook/Tiktok etc etc. While a lot of people thought he was a bit of a tool {which was typical for newbies} he didnt seem the type silly enough to marry a 'woman of the night.' Or woman of the day as they are often in the Darkside of Pattaya. That was the days before he got into that stupid botox and all those fillers. I am waiting to see him post on this subject. I think you comment is typical of people who do marry bargirls. They say they dont have a problem with it but are overly defensive and like to pretend that normal girls are the same as prostitutes.

50 When i see the writing on the wall i will grab a younger one to see out my days. 50 is the new 40. which makes me 30 in thailand as a western male in Thailand. Which is why i could spot Dans botox overuse a mile off. Stay fit, learn polite Thai reap the rewards.

Unfortunately it looks like this British human trafficker has "sorted" it with the local authorities.

You didnt feel like you were expoliting them?

They are are attractive but I and most thais rate Northern girls as the most attractive. Taller, whiter and less bow legged than their Issan cousins.

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Probably not far off the mark. But when they accept there will be no long term committment they quite often just accept the good casual sex. Sometimes straight away, sometimes up to a year or two later. They start to hang out for a good seeing to. They know I will oblige.

It obviously has not occured to you, but most women actually enjoy sex. They dont need a financial reward. The orgasm is what they are after.

Not Thai. But i did have a casual sexual relationship with the number 2 ranked Synchroe swimmer in australia. The flexibility was something I will never forget. It wasnt a serious relationship because she was a real slut. But if the oppurtunity with a Thai swimmer comes up I will be more than keen to try.

Funny the guys who marry the hookers convince themselves that everyone else marries hookers also. Or that all women are the same as hookers. When nothing could be further from the truth. You would have to suffer very low self esteem to take one seriously. probably also suffer from anxiety and maybe show autism traits socially. Who is being taken advantage of more in these relationships is an interesting question. The needy loser who cant get a girlfriend in real life and who is spending his money lying to himself and convincing himself he has found true love? Or the low educated girl from the impoverished South East Asian family forced to treat the revolting, often unhygenic, unwanted sex tourist as a real husband that she loves and cherishes and sharing a bed with the animal purely because his countries currency has a higher value than the baht?

No. I dont really believe in sharing all my stuff with someone who doesnt like me anymore.

Correct. Usually less. I do the right thing and set them free. I have had quite a few casual partners that have spanned 15, 8, 11 years etc. Often come back after their divorces/break ups.

Try getting on Tinder. I have never compensated a girl when breaking up with them. Why would I? I date girls with employment who can pay their own way.

Many times and with multiple women at the same time. But never with a hooker. I have very high self esteem and good judgement.

And they expect payment for making love with me. With my experience and skills they should really be paying me.

I play the field. Since living here have had factory workers, managers, pharmacist, uni students, business owners, etc etc. Which is Dans point. Maybe you missed it? I would never consider a whore. That is not what they are for. There are thousands more decent girls than hookers. I agree with you that some are a good laugh.

No, you are wrong. It makes a huge difference. I wouldnt consider marrying a slut. Marrying a prostitute takes it to another level. Women with 10 or more partners were the most likely to divorce, but this only became true in recent years; Women with 3-9 partners were less likely to divorce than women with 2 partners; and, Women with 0-1 partners were the least likely to divorce. https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability There is also the social stigma of it. Thais are not stupid, they can pick when a farang has married a hooker. The Thai guys will think you as a joke. And the women will treat you like the Village Idiot.

It is weird how the farangs marry them. They need help. The often maligned on this forum Russian, Indian and Chinese wouldnt even consider marrying a Thai hooker. Or any hooker. Then you have the thousands of sex tourists sending money to the hookers weekly/monthly. It is a bizare phenonomen.