I've been to the Philippines 5 times. Never had a second's trouble, suffered any criminal act nor have I seen any. Places I've been to include Manila, Taal, Cebu, Kalibo and Palawan, and not in the safety of a tourist hotel in a secured compound. I felt significantly less safe in my 3 times visiting South Africa and my once to Brazil.
But it's obvious from being to the Philippines, compared to Thailand, that security is taken far more seriously by locals in terms of locking things, fencing, secured windows, guards at shops with guns etc. That's obviously all done for a reason and not for fun.
Regarding your 2nd paragraph, I can corroborate that.