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Back to jail? He never spent a single full day in jail, did he? It won't happen. This is just more political theater.

It’s understandable that you’re considering different approaches to getting the best experience, especially if you’re new to the P2P (pay-to-play) scene in Thailand. However, there are significant reasons why you might not want to be seen as a “mark” or easy target, and why the so-called long game could actually work against you in the long run, even though it seems tempting at first. The idea of a girl playing the “long game typically involves creating the illusion of genuine affection or even love, but it’s important to recognize that it’s part of a transactional dynamic. P2P relationships are based on financial exchange, and the long game isn’t about true emotions—it’s about maximizing profit over time. A girl who sees you as naïve or vulnerable is likely to view you as a source of ongoing income, and while she might give you more attention or effort in the beginning, the end goal is financial gain, not authentic connection. Your Well-being Might be Compromised When you’re seen as a target, you’re more likely to encounter manipulative tactics designed to take advantage of your perceived wealth or inexperience. This could range from simple overcharging or upselling to more serious scams that may involve emotional manipulation, lies about financial or family emergencies, or attempts to extract ongoing support. In extreme cases, you might even be targeted for theft or worse. When you’re viewed as an easy mark, you’re less likely to be treated with genuine respect, and this can lead to negative, even dangerous, experiences. You mentioned that having a girl try her hardest to make you fall in love sounds like it would lead to a better performance in bed. While it’s true that emotional engagement can improve chemistry, you shouldn’t confuse a girl playing the “long game” with someone actually giving you the best possible experience. In reality, when someone views you as a target, their focus is on what they can extract from you, not necessarily on creating a meaningful or mutually satisfying interaction. A professional who respects you and views you as a savvy client might actually be more motivated to give you a great experience because she understands that you have boundaries and expectations. Emotional Manipulation Takes a Toll Getting involved in the “long game” can mess with your emotions, especially if you’re new to this scene. Even if you go in knowing it’s all transactional, it’s easy to become emotionally attached to someone who’s actively trying to make you feel special. You might start developing feelings or hopes for something real, and this can lead to disappointment, frustration, or even heartbreak when the reality becomes clear. Emotional manipulation is exhausting, and once you’re tangled in it, it can be hard to extricate yourself without feeling used or betrayed. Keeping Boundaries Is Important In this scene, clear boundaries are your best defense. If you’re seen as knowledgeable and aware of the dynamics, you’ll be treated differently. Girls are less likely to try long-term schemes if they know you’re not easily fooled, and this can lead to more straightforward, honest interactions. Many professionals respect clients who know the game because they understand the value of a clean transaction without emotional manipulation. This way, you get what you pay for without any added drama or risk. Potential for Financial Loss If a girl is playing the long game, her goal is to secure as much financial benefit from you as possible. This could lead to you spending far more than you initially intended, either through repeated transactions or through emotional manipulation that convinces you to send money for things like medical bills, family emergencies, or “business investments” that never materialize. Even if you’re comfortable spending money, these long-term schemes can drain your resources quickly. True Power is in Control, Not Vulnerability It’s tempting to think that being seen as vulnerable or naïve will make a girl more interested in pleasing you, but the opposite is often true. When you’re in control of the situation—knowing the rules, setting clear boundaries, and making informed decisions—you’re more likely to have a positive experience. Vulnerability can lead to exploitation, whereas confidence and awareness can lead to better treatment and more satisfying encounters. A girl who knows you’re not easily fooled may actually work harder to provide a good service, knowing that you’ll leave if you’re not satisfied. Avoiding Reputational Damage Word spreads quickly in certain P2P circles. If you’re seen as an easy mark, other girls may also try to take advantage of you. You could quickly become known as someone who’s vulnerable to scams or manipulation, making it harder to have straightforward, hassle-free encounters in the future. Establishing yourself as a client who knows the game can help ensure that your future experiences are more respectful and drama-free. While it might seem appealing to have someone go the extra mile to make you feel loved and special, the long game comes with a lot of risks. Emotional manipulation, financial loss, and even potential harm to your well-being can all result from being seen as an easy target. Instead, focus on being a savvy client who knows the scene, sets clear boundaries, and prioritizes straightforward, respectful interactions. In the long run, this will lead to better experiences, both emotionally and physically, and will help you avoid the pitfalls that come from being seen as a mark.

Kind of like one who flew over the cuckoo's nest.

Maybe his wife only charges him 100 Baht, which, in this case, is a much better value for money.

Get a new boyfriend. Then problem solved.

Let's say that you fit in with some of the physical stereotypes about the types of unappealing looking foreigners that come to Thailand. Then let's say you want to come to Thailand on your own to have a nice holiday and just relax in hotels, travel around, have some good meals, etc. How will you be treated by the locals? Will they treat you nicely, even if you look far from being Tom Cruise?

You are being very much a gaslighter by acting smug and ignoring all the good responses already given to your questions. Others already provided many solid policy based reasons to vote for her. Here are 10 key points that were already mentioned previously: - Health Care Expansion - Climate Action - Criminal Justice Reform - Women's Rights / Abortion - Economic Equity - Racial Justice - Voting Rights Protection - Gun Control - Immigration Reform - Education So stop acting coy. The reasons were already made clear and your trolling and misleading now by trying to wind people up and get more and more people to repeat what has already been clearly stated. It's really an immature game you are playing. In addition, Vice Presidents can make for great presidents. Many also want a woman now as president. And some want a president with law enforcement and courtroom experience. So don't make another rhetorical, windup post about nobody giving any solid reasons. You're really embarrassing yourself, even more so than in your OP.

Musk is deluded. He's lost the plot. He can't even run a competent livestream on his overpriced platform.

Seek help.

No, she's in the White House. So stupid.

Like you?

Speak for yourself.

The evidence is all there. Beyond the poles there are also various other reliable metrics. It's clear she is winning:

Agreed. Another excellent reason.

Here you are doubling down on stupid again. You really can't get enough of plunging your own foot into your own mouth, can you?

This is about as stupid as it gets. This is a public forum. Anyone is free to comment on whatever they like. You don't get to set any rules just because you posted a bunch of baiting fluff. In fact, you should be banned for some of the racist things you have already said. Plus, you put some rubbish out there about there being no good reason to vote for Harris and everyone is then free to comment however they see fit. And, and, and you don't have to be an American citizen or a US registered voter to have a useful opinion on the upcoming US presidential election. Many people from all over the world have very interesting viewpoints on US politics. In fact, many non-citizens will have better, clearer and more objective opinions on the subject since they are not directly and/or emotionally involved. So you have really boxed yourself in with your ignorance and painted yourself into a corner of oversized foolishness.

Racist topic. Talking about Thais smelling bad, being overweight, having bad breath. Why all the Thai bashing?

I hear many different narratives from people as to why many Thai women desire to marry foreign men. The most common one I hear about is for purposes financial security. Others will say it is because Thai men treat them so poorly. I realize there are also millions of Thai women who aren't interested in foreign men. But it seems millions are and is there a chance they are simply attracted to something opposite to what they are familiar with? Is it perhaps they find foreign men attractive? Is it sexually driven in any way? Is it because they want to give birth to mixed race children? Or is it all of the above? In your opinion, what is the main attraction for Thai women to foreign men?

Useless garbage topic.

Another nothing topic.

Oh Bob, an adventure from Thailand to the UK by boat? How splendidly audacious! You must have been inspired by those old-timey explorers who thought maps were optional and the world was flat. To get the ball rolling, you could start by striding confidently into the nearest port, waving a flag, and declaring your intent to sail across the globe. I’m sure seasoned sailors will be lining up to join your bold expedition. Is it easy to organize? Absolutely. Just as easy as herding cats or nailing jelly to a wall. You’ll need a boat, of course, preferably one that floats and has more than a vague notion of where the UK is. Minor details like navigation, fuel, supplies, and avoiding pirate-infested waters will sort themselves out, surely. Don’t care where the boat departs from or lands? Excellent. Just close your eyes and point at a map – that's the spirit of true adventure. Ports around the world are well-known for their flexibility and willingness to accommodate spontaneous, unplanned voyages. Advice? Oh, where to start? Bring a parrot – every great adventurer needs one. Stock up on hardtack and grog, because nothing says adventure like eating food that predates refrigeration. And a compass might be useful, unless you’re planning to navigate by the stars, in which case, a telescope might be handy too. Best of luck, Bob! I’m sure your tales of navigating the high seas, dodging sea monsters, and possibly discovering new continents will be the stuff of legends. The world awaits your nautical exploits!

Oh Bob, the horror! How dare they treat a decade-long patron like you with anything less than a red carpet welcome and a brass band? I mean, after all those years of gracing them with your presence and your unparalleled ability to “speak Thai,” the least they could do is bow down as you enter. Maybe it was your outfit – they probably mistook you for royalty and got so flustered they forgot basic manners. Or perhaps your cologne was so overwhelmingly sophisticated it stunned them into silence. And the bill! Thrown on the table? Utterly scandalous. Maybe next time you should consider bringing your own velvet cushion for them to place it on delicately. Clearly, the service in “Thailand” (which should count its blessings to have you) has plummeted. Those “fresh off the boat” tourists simply can’t appreciate the nuance of your long-term commitment to the country and generous tipping. Yes, Bob, stick it to them! No more baht from you until they can properly cater to your refined expectations. How dare they not grovel at the feet of such a well-integrated, beloved regular? The nerve!

I'm planning to eat all meals out, stay in a nice services apartment, hire a car and driver, send my laundry out, have a maid come in every other day to clean my place, go designer clothing shopping once a week in the big malls, hit the nightlife 2-3 times a week, will 600-800K a month be enough?

I've been thinking a lot lately about why foreigners might think Thailand is so wonderful and, thus I'm trying to truly figure out why. What is it about the country that draws so many people in? There are the obvious things everyone talks about: the beaches, the vibrant nightlife, the elephants, the bustling markets, the food, and the temples. These are all fantastic attractions, but I wonder if there's something deeper that makes Thailand such a chosen destination. Is it merely just an issue of lower cost, lax everything, and more bang for your buck? Let's start with the beaches. Sure, they're gorgeous, but what makes them truly special? Is it the sense of peace you feel when you watch the sunset over the horizon, or the warm, friendly vibe surrounding many of the beach areas? Thailand certainly isn't the only place in SE Asia with nice beaches. Many of the other countries have them too including Vietnam, Philippines, etc. So why are Thai beaches so great? Then there's the nightlife. Bangkok and Pattaya are famous for their lively scenes as we know. But beyond the clubs and bars, isn't it the energy and the diversity of experiences that makes nightlife anywhere unforgettable? The street food, the late-night markets, the chance to meet people from all over the world—these elements add a unique flavor to Thailand's nightlife, maybe? The elephants seem to be another big draw. They're magnificent creatures, and seeing them up close is a once-in-a-lifetime experience. But is it really something people will travel half way around the world for? Markets and temples are also high on the list. The markets are a sensory overload with their sights, sounds, and smells. And they also offer a glimpse into the daily lives of Thai people and their rich culinary traditions. But nearly every country in Asia has fresh markets. Is it really something people are going to travel to Thailand for? Then some of the temples are breathtakingly beautiful, and they also represent the spiritual heart of Thailand. But, again, travel all the way to Thailand just to see them? So, what are the real things about Thailand that make it so appealing? Maybe it's the sense of freedom and adventure that travelers feel when they're here. I don't know. I'd love to hear from others—what do you think makes Thailand perceived to be so wonderful? Are there any deeper, perhaps less obvious, reasons that draw people by the millions to the country?

Something that's been on my mind a lot is all the negative stereotypes Iv'e read in AN forum posts surrounding relationships with Thai women. I wonder how true they are or if there are a lot of misconceptions and false statements being made. One exhausting stereotype I read over and over again is the idea that Thai women are only interested in Western men for financial security. While I know that money can be a factor in any relationship, is it fair to paint so many Thai women with the same brush? They can't all be looking for just one superficial thing. I've also seen firsthand a few long-term relationships between foreigners and Thai women that seem to be based on genuine love and mutual respect, but I can't be sure because it's very easy for people to act a certain way in public amongst groups of friends versus when they are alone together in private. Another stereotype is that Thai women are submissive or passive in relationships. Hard to imagine that is true across the board either. Thai society appears fairly diverse so I assume that so are many of the Thai women as well. I'll bet there are plenty who are assertive, independent, and equal partners in their relationships. In fact, I've also read stereotypes about Thai women saying the complete opposite and that they're aggressive, sometimes even violent, and emotionally immature and unstable. So I've seen two stereotypes that contradict each other. I assume both have some degree of accuracy, but I'm wondering which is the more dominant stereotype in daily reality. Local media doesn't help though with its added amount of sensationalized stories often reinforcing these stereotypes. It's like they're wanting to always paint this one-dimensional picture of Thai women that probably doesn't do justice to the real complexities of an actual romantic relationship. What really matters in any relationship I think are things like shared interests, an emotional connection, and a degree of mutual understanding and willingness to compromise at times when needed. Those are the things that make a relationship work it seems, regardless of cultural backgrounds. I wonder if others have encountered these stereotypes in their own real life experiences or if in reality it's something completely different in the real world than what I've observed so heavily written about here online.