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camper star

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  1. Well, time will tell for me. Thanks for your comment.
  2. Yes, that would be the most convenient way of introducing yourself to a Thai working lady. I'm not talking about a free-lancer either for you, but then again you said "pick up".
  3. "please try the "pen pal" approach. I was told very few men try that are looking for adventure and I don't mean the type in bed either.
  4. If you read what I wrote, you'll see I paid the subscription price for thai cupid. Best choice in my opinion.
  5. The gentle wind of change never stops blowing of ones happiness in life. Well, that's good for one line I guess.
  6. First I'd like to mentioned ( mod can delete if necessary ) that I started almost 2 years ago to check out a chat site for Thai women, why, well that will have to go back to my high school days. OK, first one was "thai friendly", won't go into that one other than, can you pay for my car payments and I dropped my phone in the muddy waters in the puddles on the countryside road. OK, second one is " thai cupid ". Now with the help of my friends on Discord they were absolutely right about the first chat room. Did I listen to them, yes. Ok, on thai cupid I decided to go with the paid subscription also, this time I wanted to find ( experience taught me well, be prepared ) have a purpose. So after getting about 600 hearts just only in a few days, it was "paid subscription for me ". Why, the following will tell you why. Also, I went in looking for a "pen pal". I recommend anyone reading this to do the same, that is if you want to. You'll find ( come across most likely a lady working for the Thai govt.) OK, my journey begins after nearly a 5 decade relationship with a Japanese lady I met in Japan. For me, I wanted an outdoor type of lady to go camping and cycling in Thailand with. Did I come across such a genuine Thai lady with that in mind. Long story. You guys keep guessing on that one. OK, for the meat and potatoes of a relationship with a Thai lady I met on thai cupid that is going on for over a year and a half. 1. having them signals of genuine interest... in some ways yes and most ways, she never cycled or been camping (true) 2. Honest and consistent conversation online and in person... most definitely 100% on this one 3. Wants to learn about me... well, Thai ladies may not ask, so I opened up little by little before actually flying to her country to meet and be with her 4. No emotions... good I thought, wise lady... she took her time to get to know some about me 5. I thought about the way my mother taught us kids about respect and politeness and I know she felt relax after I opened her car door for her at DMK 6. Her upbringing is in the Buddha tradition as I found out about her mother's way of life. Her politeness was warm and very friendly 7. First she took me to the immigration office and did all the paper work... went smoothly, then to meet her parents. I showed my respect by showing the Wai to them, I guess that opened up their feelings for their daughter's new friend. One day later I was surprise with a birthday cake with 2 hearts on it and my nickname and a beautiful bicycle iced on it. It was a copy of my cycling Tee-shirt for cycling Thailand. Such a heart-warming was in the air filled with warm smiles of trust for their daughter's new friend. ( pen pal " now you may know why I mentioned, "start out as a pen pal". Her father speaks English, yet her mother only speaks Thai 8. Next was to introduce me to her neighbors and her life long school friends. We eventually had many dinners of all of us together. 9. It was time then to her to introduce me to some Thai culture. We visited the Temple high up in the mountain out of Bangkok ( sorry, I don't know the name, (when I find out, I'll have a mod put it in here), we brought water for the Buddhist Monks. We stayed there and did some Buddhist traditions. It was all in Thai. We most likely left with the Buddhist Monk's blessing for our newly found friendship 10. Over time while online, I casually mentioned a little about my job and financial background, going at it lightly, but honestly. To my surprise, which I am happy, we are still together over one and a half years later 11. On a side note, she has NEVER ask for any financial support, I actually had to beg her for I can pay for the meals. She insisted that she pays her own, I had to give up, but put money in my debit card and let her handle the affairs that way including paying sometimes for the gasoline 12. She is "kreng jai" I should say about our online and in person relationship. Hope I used the correct word here 13. It was nice to know we shared values of loyalty and our life styles. We will be visiting the Bangkok Orphanage again in May. This will be our 3rd visit. We have brought American and Japanese candy for the children there which we were told exceeds 400 The staff allowed pictures of the staff with us, but of course, not the children 14. Do we or have we found compatibility in our relationship... I hope what share does not change 15. Well, without really saying much about meeting the lady in your life... on thai cupid, wish you much happiness with her in closing I'd like to say that international long distance relationship must rely on honesty and loyalty thanks for reading and all your guys support
  7. I was under the standing that a work able payment would come out of SS. Tokyo Embassy. Maybe rules have changed in the last 20 some years. Thanks for the information. Appreciate it.
  8. Hi guys. I intend to buy the PG-1 Yamaha 115c motorbike. The location is in Bangkok. Its the new modern store at the corner of that main street. ( actually hard to get to it due to the one lane and going south and then an immediate left turn. Anyway, can you suggest an insurance company that has an English speaking staff. My location is not far from DMK airport. Also, what should I be looking for as to whatever, don't know yet. https://www.yamaha-motor.co.th/commuter/pg-1/overview Thanks
  9. If the guy is on SS the Embassy attaches the pay method back to the govt. something like that, so yes, SS comes in handy at times of an emergency overseas.
  10. I see you mentioned motorbike. Can you tell me what insurance company you use. Thank you.
  11. At least the Embassy in Tokyo does do buy the ticket if the person is destitute and or mentally unfit with the hospitals call to the Embassy. If this is the case, it is best to use a govt. hospital in Japan.
  12. Betrayal, that is not me. Does she deserve me, hmm, its her parents that I worry about. I'm not a wealthy man by all means, j. Does she deserve me, hmm, its her parents that I worry about. I'm not a wealthy
  13. I know many of you are here in that age bracket, but really can you find the love of your life now at that age.
  14. Maybe many of us have had the journey of love for decades, but suddenly them days are fond memories. Should we pick up ourselves and smell the flowers of the garden of life that awaits in life. Share your experiences here. For me, Thailand may have be my home since my high school days, oh well, what do I know. Is it the way life gives us in the unknown world of going into life with an open heart of challenge ?
  15. I thank you all for your comments. I most likely have more experience in an international relationship of an Asia lady. As mentioned I am from the Viet Nam War period. Sadly, now my life has a change of the wind of the map in my life and it goes to the country I have had as a high school student. as a dear friend . Funny how life can repeat itself some years laterl.
  16. so life brings us into another country to live another chapter of our life. I've seen the spraying of agent orange here during the Viet Nam War. Maybe life is the following of the teaching of the Buddha after all.
  17. pm i will suggest you a location .... the department of transportation
  18. So it it possible to help and fall in love with a lady that has lived in a bambo hut all her life and had chickens and other animals in yard and lived off the land with little govt help.
  19. Those are well words spoken. The "mental problems of women are of great or should be of great concern." Do you have any red flags i should look out for. thanks
  20. Thank you. As an Air Force person who has live here in Asia on and off since the Viet Nam War, I still don't understand Asian women.
  21. Me, a hippy of the 60's , what more can i say in my life's experience living overseas since the Viet Nam War.
  22. Sorry i don't understand you anger in your post. but maybe you have truly found the lady in a relationship that brings you the joy and happiness that a man deserves in life
  23. Please be kind , love has NO thoughts of the horizon of negativity in life of one that ventures into the life of happiness and joy.
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