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No @fredwiggy You want people to judge you by your words and I do. They prove that you have NPD. The constant praise of yourself and your sensitivity to criticism amongst other things. You have all kinds of unpleasant thoughts swirling around in your head. You miss the point,,,I choose to not see unpleasant sarcasm. That can stay with the person who is giving it out. I keep a cleaner mind. That's why you don't see me propagating the kind of nasty abuse that emanates from you. That's your thing. I simply tell the truth as I see it. I see you as a person with NPD and your claim to be an empath a total sham.

With whom am I disagreeing @fredwiggy? Who are the quite a few? I have no problem with @nauseus They do not even register on my radar. Perhaps they have a bee in their bonnet about something, but it doesn't concern me in the slightest. So who are these "quite a few"? It's only the misfits, @fredwiggy No one normal/balanced. Most here agree with me. They are just irked by my dialogue with you.

Not a problem @nauseus It's just that @fredwiggy needs me more at this present time. He has problems accepting what is presented clearly and concisely. He fits the profile of someone with NPD, but hopes he can fool everyone by telling us how great he is....the irony. Anyway, no problems. The OP got to read different perspectives and can decide for himself what to do next. I think it is just hard somethimes to accept that other people's perceptions can be equally valid and that it's not just a personal attack. We live and learn. That's the point. Though there are some who just won't learn.

@nauseus You are crying out for attention, but no one seems to want to waste much time on you. Take the hint, eh? I only spent time of fred because he really needs the help. You cannot fix the problem unless you accept that you actually have a problem. But like the OP, there is a tendency to try to shift the blame on to others.

@fredwiggy You are funny. When have you seen me write that I am better than everyone, have more experience than anyone, know more than everyone....? That is you. 😊 Anyone who has bothered to peruse your rambling and self serving posts, knows exactly what I'm talking about. You can try to deflect and deny as much as you like. You aren't even fooling yourself. You know what I write is true. Take care out there.

Victim @fredwiggy ? What are you talking? Very strange. I am wholly unconcerned about anything you write about me, as it's all based in your mad imagination. Whereas my observations of your behaviour are spot on. You fit the profile of a narcissist. A narcissist displays traits of extreme self-importance, a deep need for admiration, manipulative behavior, and a significant lack of empathy for others. While anyone can have narcissistic behaviors, a true narcissist exhibits a maladaptive and enduring personality style, often masking fragile self-esteem with an inflated sense of self. The condition, formally known as Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), involves a pervasive pattern of these traits that negatively affects relationships and daily functioning, and can be a lifelong struggle for those affected. Key Traits and Behaviors People who are narcissistic often: Have a grandiose sense of self-importance: They exaggerate achievements, talents, and believe they are "special". Need excessive admiration: They crave constant praise and attention to reinforce their fragile self-worth. Lack empathy: They have difficulty recognizing or understanding the feelings and needs of others. Exhibit entitlement: They expect special treatment and believe rules don't apply to them. Are manipulative and exploitative: They take advantage of others to achieve their own ends. Are arrogant and haughty: They have a generally boastful or superior attitude. Are sensitive to criticism: Despite their outward confidence, they react poorly to any perceived slight or criticism, which they view as a personal attack. Underlying Vulnerability Behind the inflated and confident exterior, individuals with narcissistic traits often have: Fragile self-esteem: Their arrogance and confidence are a mask to hide deep-seated insecurity and shame. Difficulty with responsibility: They tend to shift blame to others rather than accept responsibility for their own actions. Impact on Relationships Narcissistic behavior affects all areas of life, including work, friendships, and family. People in a narcissist's life may find themselves: Constantly seeking to provide validation, Feeling manipulated or exploited,

No, we learned that no one here takes @Cameroni's posts seriously. Not here, not anywhere.

Sorry @fredwiggy I don't know anything about the hospital to which you refer. It seems that you do.

@2long Just skip over the posts that irk you. No one is directing anything at you....or are you looking for trouble? If you don't like this thread, find another rather than to complain. Post something on toipc.

@lordgrinz You in fact sped up at that point. So you weren't just staying at 10km/h.

@fredwiggy What is this weird new diatribe? Narcissists come in many different forms. There is nothing that I see in you that is empathetic. You are almost always talking yourself up on this board. Not ever showing humility. It's totally ridiculous that you claim to be an empath. You are just on another planet if you expect anyone to believe your nonsense for very long. Your behavbiour is clear for all to see. I'm not lying nor Trolling. It's how you come over. Show me a post or thread from yourself that displays anything like humility. It's all about how great you consider yourself to be. Are you really that blind to yourself?

@richard_smith237 You cannot teach a pig to sing...They'll just keep oinking regardless. Let's hope @lordgrinz will be more courteous in the future in order to reap the benefits. It's so much nicer to have people waving and nodding positively at you throughout the day, than to live selfishly, thinking only about yourself. @fredwiggy should head back to the USA asap...

Thanks @fredwiggy But the only advice that I accept from weirdoes would be to not be like them. The evidence shows that you are a narc and not an empath. Of course you won't ever admit nor choose to see that. You hope you telling us something means that we should take that for gospel, but I instead look at what you do. How you behave. I'm not so easily manipulated. You are a narc, for sure. Not my problem. Your problem. You call me names but they don't even touch me, but my words are close to the bone for you...aren't they? You are NOT an empath. You regularly fly of the handle spitting abuse, hardly able to control yourself. Let's leave it there. You are too old to improve.

@fredwiggy backpedalling again...

Sorry what @fredwiggy the narcissist... I come into the topic because of you?? Wow...you are REALLY a narcissist. You joined the topic after me, ya weirdo 😊 Seriously, I don't think you are operating with a full compliment.

@Cameroni He wasn't indicating, as there was no one behind him when he made the turn, but was held up by the pedestrians. He was clearly positioned to move into the right lane when suddenly @lordgrinz was upon him and speeding up, trying to force his way through. If @lordgrinz hit him, he would have been regarded as at fault, as the car hitting from behind is often seen as responsible. @lordgrinz's driving was simply discourteous and unneccesarily aggressive. He could simply have held back to be sure. It just ensures everyone's safety. No need to rely on everyone sticking perfectly to the road rules. One cannot depend only on that. You need to be able to read what is going on around you and to respond accordingly at all times. None of this I am right and you are wrong, so I'm not going to give way. I'll give an example: Sometimes I am travelling along a straight road and I see someone in the opposite direction wanting to turn right. Even though I have the right of way, I can see a line of vehicles waiting to be able to move forward, but they cannot because they are waiting for the vehicle to turn right. So I can choose to be 'right' and just carry on because I have right of way or I can choose to stop and wave them through, in order to allow people on the other side to carry on with their journey. @lordgrinz had plenty of time to assess the situation but chose to plough on through regardless. Personally I would have let the red car through. He was ahead and simply waiting for the pedestrians. Holding back to let him turn safely would have been the GOOD thing to do.

@novacova You are losing it. @josephbloggs I think you are taking the whole thing a bit too seriously. The thread is going exactly the way it should go. Different perspectives on the same evidence. Interesting, don't you think? Really brings out the weirdoes.

@fredwiggy I disagree with your backpedalling and your warped synopsis. You wrote that I was always wrong Verbatim: "One thing you definitely are is always wrong". That changed into "i didn't say your opinion on this particular matter was wrong." 😊 You have no integrity at all. Nothing you write nor say can be trusted. Fake.

Whos is we @Cameroni? There are more than ten people who agree with my stance. There are perhaps four of you weirdoes....and you are weirdoes, with social skill issues.

@novacova Have you been drinking...again?

@fredwiggy So let us look at the facts. You claim that I am always wrong. But yet, most of the people on this thread agree with my stance. So, in effect, you are asserting that most of the people here are wrong and perhaps three people, including yourself and @lordgrinz are right. That's seems somewhat arrogant in itself. Empath? So which is it? Am I always wrong or is it that you perceive that you are always right?

@fredwiggy I think it is only you who cannot see the narcisstic bent in all of your comments. i rest my case. Perhaps it's more pathetic than narcissistic. But empathetic it is not.

Aaahh.. @fredwiggy Now I "don't understand things like you do" 😊 Does that mean that you think that you are superior? 😊

@fredwiggy The OP described when he used his horn. If the other driver turned into his path to deliberately cut him off, then there was no need to sound the horn, was there? it wasn't as if the other driver didn't know he was there at that point. You just love you to argue and believe that you are right above all else, especially when you are not. Even when it's so obviously totally ridiculous.

@fredwiggy One of my previous names was @jiu-jitsu. Now you know. I am not attached to a username. I might forget the email address or whatever...I don't concern myself about it. But you feel the need to mention it as if it means something in real life. I am into the psychological and spritual side of things and I can confidently tell you that you are full of it. You are as much as an empath as a bag of chips. If I were to describe you as a person, it would be one who looks for problems to fit with his solution.