JakeC

Normal for me is having people around who care about you, Who like you. Who love you. That way you aren't driven to accept things that are beneath you, as you already have love and care around. Why have a bad girlfriend when you can have a good friend? Nurture such relationships and you tend to have good friends and partners and a good balanced life. Those who base their lives on their girls being an '11' and no other criteria other than not being unwilling to have sex, are bound to come unstuck. The life you describe it totally unlike mine. We take care of each other. It's not one-sided in favour of the woman. But you need to know how to behave in the first place. Many here are only used to shooting fish in a barrel and have no hope of meeting normal women outside of the P4P scene.

Read it again. Everything I wrote before is still valid. You write from your own imagination and experience.

Don't take things so personally. You need to understand from whence the other person is coming. Look at the reply from @ThreeCardMonte. He is so angry and incredulous that someone can have a normal life in Thailand without P4P. What does that tell you? Someone who has a good life would not write the things that he wrote. He is describing his own life, knowledge and experience. Someone like that may see your normal life as 'showing off'. Someone with a normal life is more likely to see it as normal, to cheer you on or even a bit of friendly rivalry. So don't get upset by other people's envy/jealousy. Accept it as a compliment, that you have reached a stage that some see as unbelievable. Of course you would be happy to return to Thailand, to stay in a luxury riverside apartment, to relax with food and drink at a pristine beach. Completely normal to want to share your joy. But there are some who are unhappy and who want to share their misery. We see it here every day. That's their problem, not yours. You don't have to hide away because some miserable person objects to you sharing your happiness. Just take it as normal banter. A bit of pushing and shoving. Be robust. Stay fluid. There will always be challenges. It's how you deal with them that makes the difference. In truth, we all help each other by describing our real lives. Even the crazy ranters tell us about their state of mind.

May I ask...are your words from your own experience or a figment of your imagination? You seem to be telling us that you do not believe that anyone can have normal relationships in Thailand and that the only option is to do some dirty business on a street known for illicit trysts. Those are your words. My words describe a life somewhat different from that. So shall we assume that you were describing your own life? It's quite sad that you cannot even imagine a better life. Perhaps you weren't and aren't a good person and don't deserve anything better.

Can you point to any thread or statement where it is shown that I have lied or misled? You won't be able to do it, because it's not a part of my character. Your 'assessment' is just your own bitter unhappiness, reflected back to you. I just tell the truth. That is enough to overwhelm the liars, exaggerators and worse that crawl around here, demonstrating their disgusting lack of good manners and despicable behaviour.

I have a collection 😊

What does that have to do with the topic? You are just exemplifying the very point he is making. You are abusing people whom you don't know, simply for having a difference of opinion. That is somewhat different from treating a rapist with disdain, for an instance. The people who have brought American politics and Trump into this thread aren't 'leftists'. They are the likes of you.

If it makes you feel better about yourself. Doesn't touch me at all. I say what I see without fear nor favour.

You need help. Most people don't spend a minute thinking about left nor right. Whereas you just created a ranting post about it. Look to yourself.

My perspective.... being isolated due to COVID-19 pushed me to engage with people online, to keep a handle on what was going on with others. Honestly shocked at the kind of people and the ways of thinking out there. Genuinely. Truly reprehensible characters. Despicable people. They don't exist in my real world because I'm good to everyone and they are good to me. Seeing what is posted here was and is alarming. I certainly would not fraternise with such animals in real life.

I disagree with you entirely on that subject. For me they are the worst of humanity, if their posts represent who they are.

If you think that someone who doesn't indulge in the human zoo that is the sex for sale scene and who has normal relationships is a 'nutter', then you are confirming that you fit your own description.

Oh dear....I think you have fallen under @ThreeCardMonte's criteria.

Nasty.

If you don't want it, then why are you describing it as oneupmanship? I guess anyone who has an IQ of 90 or over is a challenge for you.

It's notable that these sub-humans think that normal relationships are a form of oneupmanship. No, they are normal. It's you who is sub normal. Of course your behaviour seems completely normal...to you. Normal people are appalled.

She's not in Pattaya and we were discussing drones. How's your girl? Tells us about her.

Which one of them is having sex? 😊

It's clear that you mean that my posts portray a life that you don't have. 😊

Did someone rattle your cage?

I already posted some examples, 25 minutes ago and you already replied, commenting on them. Have you already forgotten? Short attention span? It's becoming clear why some of you spend so much time here. Angry INCELS that cannot relate to women and so need to pay for their companionship. You once lived the life......nonsense! If you had such a life, you would be happy. You are miserable.

Here? I'm there. You know we are conversing via the Internet, don't you? I don't spend every moment of my time with friends. It's not a problem for me to do a little Internet sparring and to remind myself that there are poor excuses for humans roaming around out there.

Very spicy/hot? Is that your level of Thai language communication? Indeed, it's much more exciting to be with someone with whom you can create tension with intelligent dialogue. Have you ever tried it? Or are you only used to "How much?"

I get satisfaction from many things. Putting creeps in their place is just one. Variety is the spice of life.

Yes, she teaches me things that I didn't know before and vice versa. Real life, rather than sitting writing 💩 on an Internet forum.