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  1. On ‎8‎/‎23‎/‎2016 at 3:32 PM, JAFO said:

    True Berkshire. While I am not here to defend Thailand in any way shape or form, its not as bad as the OP and others are going on about but I do respect their sentiments. For me as a foreigner here I am glad not to be involved in the political system. I have zero impact on it and I am transparent in the big picture which is where I want to be. I just go about my life with little noise. Yes I work here, yes I pay Thai taxes but its moot because I had no expectations here to change anything but rather just live it for what it is. The OP stated he lived in Pattaya......Thats' another debate entirely. 

     

    Also as someone posted most the people exiting are folks with children, I totally get it. My wife and I do not have children. In fact we do not even have any pets. we want total freedom to do what we want. My wife is a US citizen and we can leave at anytime but she lived in both places, I lived in both places and we just like it better here for a host of reasons. I think some key ways to stay happy and live a fruitful life here or anywhere for that matter is ignore the news, politics and religion. 

     

    In the End he is leaving for his own reasons and I respect that, makes no difference to me one way or the other. I wish him the best. Clearly his thread has something hidden in it. 

     

    Btw, out of curiosity, why do people post they are leaving Thailand or any country on any forum. I left the US but never hopped on a US based forum and said I am Leaving yaddy yaddy, I know if I was to leave, I would just leave. 

     

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    Even though gay marriage is now legal in the US, I still don't think the married (with children) life is for me so the matter of raising a family is fortunately (or unfortunately) totally off the table in my case. I therefore remain a "confirmed bachelor" and thankfully got only I, me and myself to answer for my reason for staying or leaving thailand (or anywhere else for that matter), past present and future. [The only (little) people who take advantage of my situation are my nephews and nieces back in the states to whom I am an all-year round Santa Claus at their beck and call!]

     

    FWIW, I never said when asked that the US has become a bad place to live - try to say that to the thai people around me! I only told them I could no longer afford to live there which is truthful enough. What I feel about my own country is not something I can really share with the locals here, not in a meaningful way. Conversely, I don't turn around and say Thailand has become better or worse - try telling that to my friends in the states, who don't give a damn - or I'm getting better or worse treatment here (both happen on a daily basis anyway) after a number of x years just because my own personal circumstance has evolved. If that was ever the case then again I only have myself to answer for, not the host country. It takes some doing to come live here but only my own volition to leave so if I ever feel the need to pack, I won't be looking back wondering why.

     

    The chain of thoughts on this thread somehow reminds me of an account about the life of a french baronet (or marquis) way back when that kind of titles was still "de rigueur." He lived by himself (with his entourage of helpers of course) in a big mansion/castle, but occupied only one room at a time. "When it becomes too full, I simply move to another room." A win=win situation for all concerned. Back to what have been suggested here throughout, Australia, VN, Philippines, UK, and even Greece, good points and bad points abound with everything in between, but what it boils down to, to some of us anyway, especially those who keep a small footprint, the WORLD is our castle.

     

    If you don't like where you happen to be, move on and make room for others. Sorry to hear that Thailand is no longer good enough for the OP. I too wish him the best.:thumbsup:

  2. 11 hours ago, Isan Farang said:

     

    Are you able to track the package after it leaves Thailand ?

     

    Ok, below is a  blow-by-blow account sending packages to USA - repeat USA.

     

    1) send your package by registered mail from a thai post office. On the receipt they give you there is your tracking number, also at the bottom of the slip, there is thai post URL.

    2) while your package is still on thai soil ie. on its way to be loaded on a plane leaving Thailand, you can track it with the tracking number (from 1)) on the thai post website (also from 1)).

    3) give or take a day or two, or three,  later, when your package finally lands on us soil, ie once it is unloaded from the plane, you can track it again using the same tracking number (from 1)) this time on us postal website.

     

    In other words, thanks to some agreement between thai and us systems, the tracking number is trackable on both websites. Whereas, according to other posts on this thread, this is not the case between thai and aussie systems (being a us citizen does have its privileges  - I know i'll catch some flack for saying this :bah:).

  3. On 8/14/2016 at 10:59 PM, seajae said:

    well here in Surat Thani the local news was there was a bomb found at Khuntale(lake), also that 4 units were torched opposite the catholic school but again we are not seeing it in any of the news pieces, maybe they are trying to keep some of what happened out of the press so as not to flame the situation or scare anyone, no idea.

     

    Re Bangkapi, I learned about it today Tuesday at lunch from my kao man kai cook. The police found an unexploded "bomb" at Lam sa Lee - the roundabout at Ramkhamhaeng leading up to DeMall Bangkapi. I can't remember she said which day. And yes, I did find a heavy police presence along the street this morning. Many motocyclists were stopped/ticketed. And the security guard at Makro scanned my backpack when I walked thru the store entrance this afternoon. I also did not find any mention of it in the farang media, maybe because this part of town seems beyond their jurisdiction?

     

    Whichever media is at work, I think they're doing their best in their effort to  "calm down" the current instability, beginning with World Tourism Day and what not.:whistling:

     

  4. On 8/5/2016 at 0:39 AM, bendejo said:

    I have a friend in the US, American-born Chinese, married to a Caucasian, who thinks Matt Damon is ugly, and can't understand how someone who is so unattractive could become a movie star.

     

     

     

    This has to do with the passing of the old studio system. Back in the day, they chose them young with great potential (in BOTH look and acting abilities department) then groomed them up, exclusively and exquisitely. Just (re)watch GIANT - you can still get the DVD from your neighborhood The Mall - it's a glorious showcase on how movie stars were made and how their presence graced the movie screen. Liz Taylor and Rock Hudson faces alone up there on the big screen were worth the price of admission.

     

    Let's see what we have nowadays: Jennifer Lawrence, great actress, pretty young thing, but not what I would consider a great beauty. Scarlet Johansson, started out as a child actor thus her acting chops, is just downright PLAIN looking - though recent media has declared her the most beautiful woman on earth god only knows. 

     

    Instead of being groomed from the ground up (by the studios of yore) they simply rely on legions of plastic surgeons to jump in and do the job that god on his bad day did not bother to do: sculp faces (always starting with the  nose - see Scarlet J; on the male side, Matt Damon, Russell Crowe, Mark Walhberg, etc none are hardly considered handsome) and mold body parts (again see Scarlet J). Then let the makeover department (makeup/

    wardrobe and myriad other stylists)  take care of the rest (and hope for the best). Finally put them in action movies so we won't have time for lingering close-ups! There you have Matt Damon.

     

    Not that back in the days movie stars did not need extra help but at least they started out on a great foundation. "Faces, we had faces" - Norma Desmond exclaimed in SUNSET BOULEVARD (Sure enough case in point, just see how handsome William Holden was in this movie, at the beginning of his stardom.) They don't make them like that anymore that's for sure!

  5. I am making my first trip home next month after 3 years abroad. First thing I'd do is rush off to Costco, put in an order for two more pairs of prescription glasses, fill up my shopping cart with cotton boxer shorts and t-shirts, load up with vitamins and health pills and then look around to see what is the best 17in laptop they have on display.

    On the way home I'd stop by Rite-Aid and buy their entire stock of Trojan non-lubed condoms (boxes of 100) and swing by AAA to get my international DL as suggested on this thread!

    And that will be just my first day back in "californialization"!:thumbsup:

  6. On ‎7‎/‎9‎/‎2016 at 7:51 AM, berybert said:

    I think my father told me 2 jokes in my entire life time that made me laugh. I am now 54 years old and have always hoped I would never become an old man telling old man jokes but hope people would find them funny.

    The so called jokes on this thread have confirmed my fears. Old people really shouldnt try and be funny because it just dont work.

     

    This reminds me of a near-accident I almost ran into just around the block where I used to live in California. It was an area with a lot of retirement care homes, on the weekend you can see the cops lurking at all  sides of the intersection to catch drivers who were a bit slow in deciding whether to stop at the lights.

     

    There was a shiny looking Porsche Carrera the kind with the tail flipping up in the rear in front of me at the left turn lane. When the light turned green it lurched up as expected and I was right not far behind. And then it got into a lower gear and almost stalled, I nearly rear ended it. When I got around I saw one one dapper looking senior, looking kind of confused, still fiddling with the clutch. Seemed like lots of money were  doing more harm than good in this case. I was thinking if he was not careful with the Porsche it might leave him sitting in a wheelchair soon.

     

    We often see this kind of old-man jokes on this board, that have no humor, no redeeming value and don't make sense in regard to the OP question. I used to get incensed when I ran into one, but as old age creeps up - yeah me too - I reluctantly feel some sympathy towards them. I think the brain synapses (usually from those that have rather few to begin with) are starting to wither ie it's getting dimmed up there, however the fingers still can type...Guess we just have to wait until Parkinson kicks in and takes care of that.

     

    Having said that I still laugh my a** off at the real good jokes/wisecracks coming from not few "so-called" old men on this board, those that prove that there's actually something to look forward to as you are getting old!:cheesy:

  7. On 7/21/2016 at 0:40 AM, smokie36 said:

    Hanoi....yes I cheated...beat me with a feather duster.

     

    Why oh why  can someone tell me please  why  people posting replies/comments like this? ? is this sign of senility/dementia setting in? so that I'd know when I start making comments like this it's time for me to check into an assisted-living facility.....

     

    For those who haven't been to Hanoi - or VN for that matter - generously speaking it's one tenth the size of HCM City, and the latter had yet to open its first 7-11 the last time I went there in 2013. Good news is that that would happen in the next couple of years, I sincerely hope so, for its own good.

     

    [According to the local press TUOI TRE NEWS :

    The very first 7‑Eleven store will be inaugurated in Vietnam between April 2017 and April 2018 as the world’s largest convenience retailer handed over the control of the franchising activities to a local entity on Wednesday.]

     

    Big C and Tesco/Lotus had already shown up there but with a marked reduction in scale and operation, ie one single branch each. The malls? The Diamond Plaza the premier mall in HCMC, again circa 2013, is a joke compared to the antiquated "The Mall" in my BKK working class neighborhood.

     

    This is not a put down, just stating a fact to contrast with the inane comment aforementioned.

  8. Then, you have to make up your own little language note book and write down the sound of the spoken words you hear spoken in Thai language and write down the "sound" of the word or words in a manner such that later on you can read the word and be saying it correctly with the rising or falling tone and other little Thai language nuances that will trip you up if you do not say it clearly or precisely as there are many Thai words that have to be said correctly or the Thai people will be confused by your incorrect spoken word and your foreigner accent that confuses them all the more.

    Not making like I am an expert by any means but 90 Percent of the Foreigners that I have met, over the 28 years here, that went to Thai language lessons basically wanted to give up on learning the language and or struggled a whole lot learning the language while the language lesson were too much, all at once and learned from the Thai language books in that manner.

    Cheers

    Excellent if not Best advice so far (this thread shoud be moved to the thai langguage forum for more appropriate context. Complaining about your language teacher is different from complaining about your neighbor, dentist, boss, etc.)

    Anyway back to the subject at hand. Yes, the Sound. A few examples:

    In English we have only b and p. Thai has many variations including b(h)- and p(h)-.

    ch, sh and to a certain extent j in thai are a jambalaya mixture of all c,s and h/j. That's why the Thais can not pronounce "check": let me check always comes out as let me shake.

    and the deadliest of all sounds are their combined vowels (2 or 3 or more god help us.) Just to be able to hear and distinguish "tired" from "butter" is already a monumental task to me, let alone pronounce them. Right next down the list are the final consonants the vowels often are wedded to. Try to hear the difference when it's a final n or a final ng.

    Then there are the 5 deadly sins, I mean tones (with or without the sound-shifting tone markers).

    This is where if you have an operatic singing background that would help tremendously,

    I'm at the stage of making my little encyclopedic notebook of sounds. Actually the local folks are warming up to me when I say something they understand, tada, conversation is possible! The trick is you got to speak first and make sure they listen (as opposed to ignoring your farang face.) Warning: they are real lousy at trying to guess what you mean if you mix up your sound (which you do 95 percent of the time.)

    The next big problem is that now they think I'm one of them immediately let forth a barrage of words mostly still foreign to me. All I can do is smile and do a mixture of nodding and shaking my head at the same time. God forbid if I utter a word of English, then BANG!!! that's the sound of the language barrier slamming down and I just got kicked out of the fortress...

    Regarding language schools, either you've got a terrific private tutor that is worth every thousand baht you spent or signup for the language boot camp which is the chulalongkorn uni thai language program that make sure you live and breathe thai to really expect any progress. For those who don't have the budget for the former or the stamina for the latter there's really only one choice: your neighborhood soi!

    (For some it means Soi Cowboy unfortunately whistling.gif)

  9. part memory/part dream state... sounds like Phayao w/some REM influences...

    you're absolutely right, ken (clack, clack that's the sound of my left brain nodding!)
    okay, folks, tada it's Phayao!
    My genie Google found it for me on travelfish.org (not booking.com):
    "...This is as close to the Cote D’Azur as it gets in north Thailand and looking out over the lake, with hazy, blue mountains in the background and traditional wooden fishing boats in the fore, there’s also something of a mini-Inle Lake look to it too."
    ripstanley was right, there is no pittoresque town on the other side. My dream state - as astutely observed by kenk24 - was roaming the swiss side of lac ouchy looking over to the french town vichy on the other side...
    And the same-rate hotel is:
    Kwan Phayao Jumjai Homestay
    btw travelfish.org is an excellent site I found regarding SEA travel. Go take a look!
    And thanks all for your weighing in - that was great fun!clap2.gif
  10. Interesting. I did not know that US embassies/consulates would forward mail to Manila. I originally sent my application back to Baltimore -- where it's been lost for almost six months now -- because I didn't feel too comfortable relying on the Philippine mail system. Though I've since sent mail to Manila and it's arrived on schedule.

    They don't mail it. They forward by email or fax.

    Got the first call from Manila after faxing it to the embassy in about 10 days.

    Form Pib posted is almost identical to the one I filled out.

    The only thing I got by mail (sent at a Philippine post office) from Manila was a written confirmation of what was discussed in the interview. There was small error in my mailing address that I corrected by an email to Manila.

    In my case I did not get anything written post-interview from Manila. I guess things have changed during the 4 years interim...Matter of fact, I sent an email inquiry this week and got a reply this morning that my application has been "receipted" by SSA Baltimore on the date that it was supposed to be. I am now wondering about when and if I will get a claim number as my application now is a bona fide claim albeit "pending." That number is required when you want to check the status of your claim on ssa website.

    I decided to call Manila again since my call via DTAC was not that clear...so I added some international credit to my home U.S. phone number I have here in Bangkok (a VOIP type number) and called again...much cleared this time.

    Talked to a different rep this time. In fact I got a rep who based on an email from them a few months ago when I asked a few questions would be "my case worker" based on my social security number. Anyway, she said I could apply both ways but really I should pick just one.

    Initially she was ready to schedule my telephone phone interview (she thought I was ready to apply for benefits today) and I can submit the forms directly to them over the coming days. She also said I did not have to submit the forms back through the U.S. Embassy Bangkok; instead, I could email them direct to the SSO in the U.S. Embassy Manila.

    I declined setting up the interview as it's still a little too early based on when I want to start the benefits. I will submit the forms in early September and probably even give them a call a few days later to confirm that got the forms and schedule an interview although I'm sure they would get the forms and call me to schedule the interview.

    Yes, as of now, I've decided I will go the Manila route to signup since they are easy to contact and they sure seem nice when talking them on the phone.

    Make sure you do it within the 3 months window prior to your birthday. As mentioned in OP, I sent mine in a bit early (4 months prior) and thus ensued the correspondence about reminding SSA Manila on the day my 3 months window begun. Also like I said my interview was conducted rather abruptly, without any prior notice and at 8:01 in the morning! The time between them receiving my application to the time I got called for interview was 10 days more or less. btw I sent my application to Manila via regular Thai post WITH tracking and it was equally expedient. I remember it was 95 baht instead of 650 via EMS. Hope this helps.

  11. It's been quite a while, a couple of months I think. I should have bookmarked the page, but it was late at night, usually the time my right brain gone to sleep and the left brain taking over.

    If no one could suggest of another lakeside setup, then I guess I just have to focus on Phayao and make the most of it. I don't see any other lake of any considerable size in that part of the country.

    btw, villagefarang - love your pics of dams and reservoirs.thumbsup.gif

  12. In a small town in Northern Thailand, there's a lake with a string of hotels bordering one side of the lake (the other side is another town supposedly equally pittoresque).The lakefront promenade is the main draw of the region, one review even described it as having a western vibe - which makes me think of a mini version of Lake Leman or Como.

    There is one hotel that commands the best view of the lake. One single price for all the rooms however, so if you're lucky there will be a front room (looking out to the lake) available, if not they will put you in one of the rooms in the back, where you'll spend your entire stay seething with envy against those lucky ones staying in the front rooms. Advanced booking is therefore highly recommended.

    I was surfing on booking.com looking around from Chiang Rai to Phrae - and I was too sleepy to make note of this particular hotel when I stumbled upon it. I looked high and low again tonight but simply couldn't re-discover it.

    Does anyone has a clue? I looked hard in Phayao (which has a lake) but I didn't find it there. whistling.gif

  13. If you have a pending claim, I suppose you'll have a claim number. I had a pending application not a claim, so I called the number for non-claim inquiries. Answered by a live person on the second ring, unlike the main number where you listen to an interminable recording, then get put in a half-hour queue.before you can speak to anyone (who will then do her best to find a reason to tell you she can't help you).

    Now 3 months down the road I just called the non-claim number 410-965-2356, after several rings got an automated female voice responder citing all the options (what your last 2 digits etc.) but finally for the non-claim calls it asked to leave your call back number and someone will get back to you in 1 to 2 business days thereoff. I called past midnight bkk time so maybe the live person is out to lunch (I don't know where 410 area code is in the states?)

  14. The various cinemas at Siam Paragon are probably a good bet but, frankly, Star Trek Beyond is a disappointment (and I'm normally a fan).

    Yeah, I was looking around for the best seat in the house and then I listened to my favorite film week review of the week and heard one critic said she got bored during the action scenes (simply they jam in too many action scenes to fill in the hole where a plot shoud be).

    [Which reminds me a bit of dialogue in a Norman Mailer adaptation movie which I forgot the title]

    (Isabella Rossellini playing the) Wife: "Sex with you is boring nowadays..."

    Husband: "But I made you come five times last night!"

    Wife: "And none of them was good."

    There you go. Oh well I think I go back to the top floor of the mall if I want to watch this Star Trek, but I don't think so.

    I'll save the best seat for the next Fury Road.

    Thanks for all the tips and links guys, really appreciated it thumbsup.gif

  15. "Many Thai Muslims from the restive South often visit Songkhla Zoo each year during the Islamic holiday, to spend time with their loved ones." Not terribly well worded. Infers their loved ones are in the zoo. Proof reading articles before submitting can fix these errors.

    The wording also reminds me of a wonderful little known book about syntax construction (of the English language). Full of little gems such as

    "- the national flag is then slowly hoisted to the top of the flagpole, along with (their domestic equivalent of) Kate Perry singing the national anthem..."

    Too bad I can't remember the name of the book, probably out of print eons ago.

  16. I usually go see movies (not that often, but when big ones come out) at my local mall's top floor.

    However the new Star Trek being 2.5 hrs long I think I better find something more plush and treat myself to a wonderful viewing. I'm going to see it solo so no need to get love-seating, also my vision (senior wearing glasses) is limited to 2D and regular (non-Imax) screen. Basically I just want some posh movie palace experience for this movie which has a very good action director (Justin Lin of the Fast and Furious kind) at the helm; plus Simon Pegg, my fave british guy beside being in the movie, also has a hand in shaping the script (I think he's making himself indispensable to the franchise - good career move!)

    So what's your recommendation? Thank you much in advance and wish you all a nice day.thumbsup.gif

  17. Ideas about this? I like the colours and detail in the HDR image, but it is a pity the early morning low-flying clouds have been made more transparent losing some of their mood ?

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    Clouds, you gain some and you lose some...You've got to decide which one is more relevant to the mood of the pic.

    We sometimes tend to forget. Our imagination is also a very powerful tool...I myself don't want to see every single details and tend to treat negative space with deep reverence.

  18. As you can see, I don't use HDR on my photos;

    I don't have the logiciel for that; and to be honest I prefer natural photos than HDR ones ;

    with too many effects it's not a photo; sometimes something like a oil painting or I don't know exactly but nor a photo .

    And often the shadows are too black .

    Unfortunately in our current situation it’s pretty clear that the judge(s) have shown a tendency to favor works that have been heavily processed. If there’s any doubt, take a survey of past winning entries. Individual bias regrettably has been allowed to set a trend for the competition. So let’s brace ourselves for more entries pics of divine statues ( standing or sitting) and floating barges sillouhetting darkly against sunrise/sunset. All under a psychedelic sky.rolleyes.gif

  19. The OP does have a point. The winning photos, while all stunning and easily appreciated, all have one trait in common; they are all "extreme HDR's". HDR's do create dramatic landscapes, sunsets, and night time shots. Portrait, macro, black and white and other forms of photography cannot compete in the "WOW" factor for which HDR's are known. If the final judge favors the HDR look over other forms of photography, you know will win even before the judging begins.

    Same thing could be said for the "likes" if one looks closely.

    That's why I don't quite trust them "likes" in the age of HDR's.

    (but I do "likes" your post Utley) smile.png

  20. My birthday is mid September. My first direct deposit happened November 3.

    May I ask what month did you get the interview and how long afterwards receive the confirmation letter?

    I applied online in July and got the telephone interview in July. I don't remember when I got the letter. But everything happened very fast.

    The letter was just to verify what I already had been told on the telephone and required no response..

    There was no mention of anything happening through Manila. But there was a mention of Birmingham, AL.

    Thank you Issanman very much for the info, that's what I needed to know. clap2.gif

  21. I guess this question should be directed to the two mods of this forum, samuijimmy and Ron19 (please correct me

    if I'm wrong.)

    A bit of preamble here: I am a long time "genuine contributing Thai Visa Member", however, I only recently set

    foot in this forum by wandering a bit "too far south" and discovered to my delight the competition aforementioned. I promptly entered my first pic this month, and excitedly was chomping at the bit to prep my second entry...

    For inspiration I browsed the past winner pics, and to my, for lack of a better word, "dismay" noticed that the

    winning pics, though well-deserved, are kind of more or less of the same "mold" or shall we say, sport the same "look" even though by different participants. My jaws kind of dropped: How could that be...? Then I stumbled upon the not-so-small "small prints" in the winner announcements indicating that "Over the weekend Laurie McMurtrie CEO of Bizpaye International looked at all the photos and... picked out two winners."

    Before going any further I want to be cleared that this post is not a criticism of any kind directing at anyone. My point is, with all due respect to the Bizpaye International CEO (someone whom I do not know), this method of judging reminds me of a children tale somewhere I have read (a long time ago of course) in which a palace held a competition to hire a new royal chef, and they all ended up producing different versions of the same dish, which after diligent research and speculation was aimed to please the palate of one single person, ie the king/queen, whatever. This dawned on me when I found myself going through my modest "portfolio" thinking, "hmmm, lessee if I have anything that looks like last month's - or the month before last - winners. It's got to be this and that..."

    No, I can't. I just can't. If this is a math competition, then yes one person can do the judging alone, with or without the help of a calculator, by tallying up the most points of each contestant and ranking the scores. But we are dealing with "Photography and the Arts" here - or some of us would like to think as such - and to peg the merits of the entries pool to just one individual arbiter of taste really is like cookie cuttering the "Arts" in question to death. I would like to suggest a hors-de-competition alternative where we can submit our personal best without having this thought hovering over our head "Now, I really want that 10k baht room at the picturesque Palm Grove Resort in Pattaya." But seriously, where there are a panel of (two to three - a la thumb-up thumb-down "Sickel and Ebert" of time past) judges to deflect the INDIVIDUAL biases.

    I know, this is wishful thinking of my part and I can kind of already guess what your response is gonna be. But

    maybe I'm not alone in feeling this way...Nevertheless someone's got to say it so I'm gonna step onto the box and open my mouth first.

    Respectfully, wai2.gif

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