goodheartman

too much thought for paid sex

I own a restaurant.

Nothing will conjure up looks of envy and awe faster than those four words.

People assume (which you should never do because it makes ASS out of U and ME) that owning a restaurant is fun and exciting, a great way to make money and perhaps even become famous.

i dont assume owning a thai restaurant is fun and exciting. the small ma and pa ones with no customers all ove r the darn place!

in fact lots of big ones w littlte customers.

Thanks again for all the posts, this is a great sanity check for myself, if i have any left that is

My gut says she is too nice for me and i should just stay friends with her. If she is a clean/nice girl i dont want to hurt her.

Another part of my body says yum

I am going to use family mart for a few days and see how it goes.

i'll let you know how is turns outs

thanks again

SGH

you still think its flattereing to have a girl offer you sex if you pay her for it. seems you not getting what people have posted sir.

Reminds me of my encounter with a very nice, friendly, good looking, good body! 20 year young Kfc employe at my nearest Lotus Market in small town Isaan province.

Exchange always smiles and some words, but I speak not enough Thai-Lao and she no English,

to get to know more, so a complicated situation.

If I had the respond same the OP, I would not even ask, write here, I would check it out and make immideately a testrun.

With CONDOM, Mr.Goodheartman!

i unlike you mr alfredo would leave her alone. best not to get involve w people who you cant communicate with.

actually if donald trump was in the beer bar business, he be on a buying spree!

aint no better time to buy than now.

of course im assuming you how how to run them properly. and no bargirls dont know how to necessarily run one, they know how to work in one..........lol.

The protestors and troops have moved on, but that doesn't mean the tourists will forgive and forget and come flooding back, especially when you see this violence and mayhem on CNN and BBC every few months.

The average international tourist, from where-ever, wont be forgeting this in a hurry. They will be too worried to book a Thai holiday in the future for fear of their holiday being ruined by cancellations or worse.

RIP Thai tourism.

Ironically, this will help tourism in Thailand's "enemies" nearby, such as Cambodia, Vietnam and probably the P.I as people will see them as more stable. And once they discover these other places, they wont go back to Thailand. The Thais have not only shot themselves in the foot but given a big lift up to surrounding countries.

no agree!

thailand got thai girls. people will be back even for the temples, food, culture,etc..................vietnam got nothing compared to los. i assume cambo got less than vietnam. and pi people dying to get out of there.

somchai needs to be seen first. or else you may end up with no toes!

If a man is in relationship for years, at least 18 month, I do not think he likes to f... always with a condom.

And if the woman says, yes I took my 3 month Depot-injection or I take the Pill and she does not, you get to know that to late than,

what can you do, if everything else is ok and you feel good in the rleationship.

i feel your pain alfredo. a man needs his sex no matter what.

you just a victim of circumstance

may god bless you with more kids from more girls!

the girl want another baby.

man say he no agree.

so man have unprotected sex.

WHAT AM I MISSING HERE, where the barrel of monkies?

A. Go for it you fool!!!!

She has already proven that she is a hard worker and not some bar girl (even though they work hard too) but she could have easily chosen that other lifestyle if she is inddeed as pretty as you say. But she is working all those hours and has proven her mettle. Do both of yourseves a favor.

if you do have hot sex with her, remember to take care of her.

and no the second time wont be as much fun. as you realize it wasnt you she interested in

I doubt many will admit to it, but its not like this is at all uncommon. When you are sleeping with someone, and not using protection, they will end up pregnant. Most farang seem to get around. Most also, and I have no idea, but they just don't seem too bright and likely don't use protection. Lets call it, Social Darwinism.

yes, yes. the brightest and best of farangs dont end up living here

I think the OP is a bit bitter that he is past his prime. I'm under 30, married and loving life here. Of course some things get on my nerves but you have to adapt. Oh and by the way, I do teach part-time but I also work in other fields and I'm not shy to say that I am an English teacher.

so many english teachers yet thai speak no good english

Wow that is surprising Bernie....or not

I cannot tell you how easy it was to open accounts at Bangkok Bank & SCB in Chiang Mai.

Makes you wonder eh?

I know TIT but I wonder if Farangs are just tolerated more in CM than BKK?

I know it is as others have said down to branch policy??? But still seems odd that

basically discrimination of sorts is considered as a branch policy.

Well if all else fails take a cruise up to CM for some shopping then open accounts.

Go back to BKK & make sure the same folks see you in the bank using them

I can tell you that if you are wearing a tank top and shorts you are less likely to be helped than if you wore long trousers and a button up shirt with long or short sleeves.

Bank Employees and staff think of themselves closer to Government Officials and workers.

If you walked into a Thai Immigration Office, Police Station or Government office wearing a Tank top, shorts and thongs you will get a lot less respect and service than if you dressed appropriately. Your lack of doing so just show them your lack of respect for their culture and authority.

respect is overrated. clean is not .

money trumps respect in thailand.........

ive seen many legit drinking establishments where tank top, hairy , foul smelling , belching man get more respect than button collar businessman get because he better customer, he spend more.

yeah give us all the details. someone must be making money on all these ventures.

just wondering how can you think wife want a street stall and she want a full fledge store. seems there seems to be quite a language barrier going on.

I was once in the same situation.

Well, almost same, it was not a 7-eleven but another convenience store brand but that's not important right now.

I went for it. Just as a fling, no strings attached. After erm, being together just about every day she asked me to help with the months rent.. Which was almost reasonable given how much time I spent in her room. So I made a donation, the rent was something like 2000 baht I believe.

So good value. Good memories. Fair mammaries.

For a serious relationship however I would pick a girl with a more similar background/education as myself though.

but there were starings attached!

very few free oppurtunities for sex guys. i dont care guys call it free, when they describe situation it is obvious girl had agenda and free was not part of it.

men just dont see straight here.

A busload of bisexual female bikini models just knocked on my door and want to have an orgy.

What should I do?

Yep, I reckon it's pure fantasy.

wheres the fantasy. bkk is full of girls who get paid to have sex. and they are good at it. its REAL in thailand!

Long story but I have been talking to this checkout girl at my local 7-11. We always joke around and sometimes if its not busy

there i will buy a beer and we will sit there and talk about everything under the sun. She looks 20ish, stunning looks, lek and real nice

personality.

SO we were talking the other day and she was complaining she only makes 8,000 baht a month working graveyard shift 60-70

hours a week. So very jokingly i said "be my girl and and i take care you". She thought for a minute and says "OK".

So i laughed it off thinking she was just joking as we always do.

I go in today and she corners me by the beer cooler and says "When u make me girl you?". Again i just laughed but she said "no laugh i

no joke you". I look down at her and the bad wheels in my head turning. Then i said to myself no she is just joking so i said "I dont believe." She comes over close and holds my hand and says seriously "me no joke". Then the bad wheels in my head start

spinning wildly and i almost dropped 2 big bottles of singha on the floor. We talked more and I said let me think about.

Well should i

A) go for it

start shopping at Family Mart

C) start shopping at my local Wat

D) Become a Monk

E) Move to Koh Lan and sell trinkets on the beach

F) Get on the Dr Phil show

G) Double my Meds

she aint joking. she want you to take care of her, financially.

not have sex w no strings attached!

maybe I don´t see any of them, cause they do their thing and avoid going out.

you dont see many around coz there arent many around. think about it, one needs substantial money to live here (ok, not really) but youngish men dont have it yet.

all they have is good looks and and sex stamina, wo money most girls would give these guys a pass .

so theres no fun in it for them!

you dont even know the basics, and you think you gonna aquire a whole bunch of trustworty thais to run them for you.

this sounds like fun.

you nee d mr torrenova to chime in.

thai girls have a low incidence of sex disease sir! not in a hi risk group........

gay thai boy- hi risk

sweet thai girl-very low risk

you ever see them setting up and tearing down a stall. the men and occasional thai girl sweat like piggs. then they have to push their cart to wherever they store them.

looks like hard work. and i forgot ,they have to be out in all the pollution and heat for hours at a time.

i do wonder how much they make for a 3 person operation. do the boys get a full cut? can the operator hire boy crews to handle the heavy work?

save the world from another stall sir. just pay her what little she would have made, and we all be happy! i thought one of the benefits of marry farang is so one doesnt have to do stall work.

is this for a thai girl?

yes, getting good scores on cosmic karma card is the way to go!

and can some resident of issan stand up for your people. im offended at the way previous poster portrayed you .

although a scam of greater complexity may be taking place. isnt it unusual for thai to shun one of their own(the 2 kids)?