Long Post + and - indicators of believability (Northern Isaan Virgin)

[Rori ban khun fang]

My wife now is 50. I am 63. I know my wife since 2002. So 15 years. She did work as head finance department at the bangkok university. 

She and I know her life story. Came to study in Bangkok at the age of 20. Did study, work part time to get money. On weekend sometimes visited home at 700 km travel 10 to 12 hrs. After study she did start to work in same university where she did study. Her older brother has a car dealership near Asok. 

Her younger brother has his own it company while his wife is a lecturer in civil engineering. 

I also had doubts until I realised. I was not a virgin since i was 14. I had more than 1 girlfriend. I was married before twice and divorced. She knews it. I know her life story and can judge after 15 years together. Compared to my first marriage for 6 months????? And my second both European but all were looking for more and more. 

I am living in both the Netherlands for insurance and pension reasons. But I never and not lie did walk without my wife in walkingStreet.

 

We often go to one of the life band bars to spend a friday or Saturday evening there. Mostly at Hottuna bar since it is best.  Some members of the house band call me "best friend" . Oops maybe because of the tips???

 

When beardless is going to spend time in Pattaya with his friends tells more on him than his gf. Why not take her also there???

 

[Rori ban khun fang]

On 3-10-2017 at 8:17 AM, sipi said:

Sounds genuine. Don't overthink it.

Chaperoning your mates to Pattaya might be more problematic.

Sipi you are right. He should take her with him also. 

[Sirbergan]

3 hours ago, lordblackader said:

 

Pretty sure you'll find that she's not selling farm produce in Pattaya... 

 

As I have explained later in this thread, Pattaya 2 is not Pattaya but a location outside Khon Kaen that is popular for Thais, near Ubolratana Dam.

[smotherb]

I've always appreciated a good story. She seems to have one. Go along for a ride and see the varmint.

[Foozool]

Looking for nightmare ? Go ahead. 

If, and if all true. Never go for a girl who never had a man in her life. Either she is not normal mentally or she is a  "asexual". 

you just go for a normal girl who does not have high millage. 

Have fun. 

Dont try to discover some darkness. 

Good luck. 

[greenchair]

Oh another, 

She's a virgin, so thats a great reason to get married. 

Or string her along. 

Pathetic. 

Get your head out of your pants man. 

[greenchair]

On 10/4/2017 at 4:19 PM, lordblackader said:

 

Pretty sure you'll find that she's not selling farm produce in Pattaya... 

No virgins in pattaya 

[Ulic]

Why anyone would want to date a virgin is beyond me.

[colinneil]

3 hours ago, Ulic said:

Why anyone would want to date a virgin is beyond me.

Why anybody would make a crazy comment like that is beyond me.

[catman20]

4 minutes ago, colinneil said:

Why anybody would make a crazy comment like that is beyond me.

thats cos you married a virgin

[Autonuaq]

You have your background and she has her background.

 

Somewhere in the middle is the truth that will make it lovely and good or a story from hell.

 

Time will tell what the future already knows at the moment the time is right.

 

You are entering an other dimension with her and we can tell our stories. In the end you will have yours.

 

be wise and thing not twice but more thant that.

 

Thai see foreigners with a different view then we think some views are good.

All is the same as back home inly the package is different and the place.

 

[jak2002003]

OP, you are not ready for a serious relationship.  Your actions about investigation her in such detail about her life is not normal behaviour, and shows a LOT of insecurity on your part.

 

Sort yourself out first.. come over here on holiday and have fun, but don't go looking for serious relationships until you are more stable with your emotions.

 

 

[beardless]

Well chaps the "situation" is now resolved. Thank you all for your comments!!

 

Thanks will be dished out when I have removed my foot from my mouth.

 

To start with lets just say even know I was fully expecting a slight embellishment of the truth on her part, The depth of deceit has actually left me completely shocked.

 

I started to dredge through a couple years worth of posts and everything seemed Kosha, I then realized that the name she uses was different on a "second" Instagram account. 

 

1. I found a post post divorce i guess. with a friend saying "you should just change your name and get rich", and subsequent "I like your new name" comments.

2. I found posts and photos of her on a old facebook account with her wedding dress etc.

3. Turns out her "sisters" baby was hers (that she basically gave to her sister) to play the f###ing game better.

4. Messages in thai PUBLIC FACEBOOK asking her girlfriend to come over for some crazy ###, and dont worry her husband is not home.

 

Even when I confronted her, she carried on trying to dig herself out of the lie lol <deleted>??

 

The main issue I have with these findings is that the WHOLE of her facebook, friends ....family, etc. Everyone "understood" the game and helped her play along, it very much seems like a very accepted, dare I say embraced? part of their culture.

 

I told her I pity her daughter and that she was genuinely a not very nice person, I lost count the lies she must have told.

 

I ended with all round social media blocks and "good bye farang loo maak"

 

 

Well at least I popped my cherry ;-) its been a pleasure chaps

 

B 

 

 

Edited October 7, 2017 by beardless

[Puwa]

Anything that inspires such a long and detailed post is destined to cause trouble.

[jerojero]

she spends nearly all weekends, at the farm helping familiy and travelling to Pattaya 2, selling produce. 

 
Pretty sure you'll find that she's not selling farm produce in Pattaya... 

It's Pattaya 2. In Khon Kaen province. A beach on a lake, nothing much more.

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[jerojero]

No virgins in pattaya 

It's Pattaya 2. Lake and beach in Khon Kaen province. Nothing like The Pattaya whatsoever.

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